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can clothing be a fetish? - 8/9/2006 7:44:52 PM

Nalta

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can clothing be a fetish? my slave says she has an underware fetish. says she loves to collect them. can you be a slave and honestly have an underware fetish?

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RE: can clothing be a fetish? - 8/9/2006 8:00:16 PM

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Articles of clothing can be a fetish. For me, it's shoes, although that is quite common. One servant I had gathered over 100 pairs of shoes in the time we were together.

As I sit here, I have a pair of size 8 ballet boots on my desk. I decorate funny.

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RE: can clothing be a fetish? - 8/9/2006 8:02:11 PM

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Having fetish's has nothing to do with a person's orentation identification. You can be grand high pooba lord over seer and have a fetish.

Slaves subs doms orentation doesn't exclude having fetishes.

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RE: can clothing be a fetish? - 8/9/2006 9:37:51 PM

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What she said.

Personally, I have a submissive who's a boot-bitch...one swipe of his tongue on my boots and he's in instant sub-space. Very handy for the lazy Domme. lol

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RE: can clothing be a fetish? - 8/10/2006 3:01:10 AM

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Hello to all, respectfully. please

yes, clothing apparels and accessories are strong arousing fetishes.
i'm also attracted to Shoes (Pumps preferably), Nylons, panties, Skirts,
Gloves and the list goes on. The fetishes are either rewards or punish-
ments as tease & denial.

Thank You

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RE: can clothing be a fetish? - 8/10/2006 7:16:55 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Nalta

can clothing be a fetish? my slave says she has an underware fetish. says she loves to collect them. can you be a slave and honestly have an underware fetish?

absolutely

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RE: can clothing be a fetish? - 8/10/2006 9:18:23 AM

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Yes clothing is a fetish or can be.
Lots are into Leather or Vinyl aswell as undergarments like panties,bras,girdles,hosiery,corsettes and the like.

I LOVE the smell and feel of leather...

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RE: can clothing be a fetish? - 8/10/2006 10:19:09 AM

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absolutely. clothes, shoes, purses, ohmy!

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RE: can clothing be a fetish? - 8/10/2006 12:59:41 PM

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Yeah, mine is hosiery. I don't wear them, but become incredibly turned on with a female wearing them........

I beleive that's a common one, too....

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RE: can clothing be a fetish? - 8/10/2006 2:26:58 PM

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I have a business attire fetish. When subjected to a business formal dress code it stimulates me in a similar way to when I am subjected to bondage; I HAVE to wear the uncomfortable and controlling garments and they FORCE me to modify my posture and attitude. Similarly, when a woman is dressed professionally in a well tailored suit or dress I find myself becoming equally aroused.

Unfortunately for me, this fetish is very rare and I have only found one other person who shares it! However, that said I can assure you that it is real!!

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RE: can clothing be a fetish? - 8/10/2006 3:51:51 PM

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Sure, why not? A fetish is simply a perception of a thing as exceptionally appealing, lending itself to obsession. Fetishes often involve undue or abnormal sexual focus on the fetishized object. In other words, you can have a fetish two ways: you can favor something unusual (like feet), or you can really, really like something that most people like somewhat (like nylons on women). A fetish is a fetish because of the degree of exceptional adoration. The ambiguity lies only in where preference becomes fetish. I like nylons, I like high heels, I like tailored clothing, but I don't consider my preferences strong or weird enough to be fetishes.

Some appealing notions are appealing because they foster others--compound fetishes, as it were. Nalta, the woman in your message might have an underwear fetish that somehow stimulates her attraction to submissive behavior, in which case she wouldn't identify as a slave without her underwear fetish. Jason noted that his business attire fetish caused him discomfort, like an uncomfortable bondage position, and I infer that that is why wearing tailored clothing appeals to him.

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RE: can clothing be a fetish? - 9/2/2006 6:07:37 AM

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speaking of compound fetishes, mine is wet shoes. how's that for a combo?
also, i think women look extremely sexy in business attire.
when i make my videos and photos, i prefer the women to be in heels and business attire when getting wet.

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RE: can clothing be a fetish? - 9/2/2006 7:35:44 PM

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Honey, thier's a fetish for everything from the bizzar to the very bland. I think one of the odder sights I happened upon was a fetish for mens dress socks, it seemed so specific and so bland, I just couldn't make sense of it. However anything foot, panty hose, underwear related is extreamly common...

And good for you for enjoying a great pair of lacey panties! or cotton panties! or just panties in general, they are damn sexy, and I have to admit I get a nice warm feeling every time I see something lacey/shiney runing across a nicely shaped backside.

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RE: can clothing be a fetish? - 9/2/2006 9:59:42 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressSassy66

Yes clothing is a fetish or can be.
Lots are into Leather or Vinyl aswell as undergarments like panties,bras,girdles,hosiery,corsettes and the like.

I LOVE the smell and feel of leather...

I do too! And I love black leather or any other color panties and bra on a woman!

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RE: can clothing be a fetish? - 9/2/2006 11:05:09 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Nalta

can clothing be a fetish? my slave says she has an underware fetish. says she loves to collect them. can you be a slave and honestly have an underware fetish?

By dictionary definition, anything inanimate that brings forth a sexual arousal can be a fetishistic item.

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RE: can clothing be a fetish? - 9/11/2006 2:14:35 PM

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I have a fetish with a variety of womens clothing. I love bootyshorts, leather sneakers, uniforms, and when girls wear pigtails.

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RE: can clothing be a fetish? - 9/18/2006 9:40:25 AM

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Certainly cloting can be important
love unbuttoned shirts myself

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RE: can clothing be a fetish? - 9/18/2006 8:44:28 PM

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My fetish is corsett, stockings and high heels. My slave wears them whenever we are together.

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RE: can clothing be a fetish? - 9/18/2006 9:13:11 PM

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I have a fetish for a few things, clothing and accessory wise. One that I have not seen mentioned is Aprons. I have a strong fetish for aprons. It goes in with my vintage housewife interests.

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RE: can clothing be a fetish? - 9/19/2006 4:54:58 AM

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Certain outfits and items of clothing turn me into a moist little heap ...corsets, 1950s open bottomed girddles, maryjane heels in fact I dont normally bottom without my fetish wear I think thats a fetish :)

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