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Hmmmm - 8/11/2006 1:17:31 PM   
MissAlison


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Status: offline 		Rarely do I either bitch and whine about what a sub, or ex gf says to Me, just like I rarely question My abilities as a Domme.
 
This however, puzzled and hurt Me....Feedback?

(paraphrased, subject matter not pertaining to this thread removed)

" you have no clue Alison.. how to be a Mistress. A Mistress does not ask for money. a mistress does not treat there sub-slave with disrespect.. a Mistress does not make there sub-slave feel like there not good enough..as far as you being a Mistress. i will see to it that you do not deserve that name."
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RE: Hmmmm - 8/11/2006 1:22:12 PM   
LadyJulieAnn


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Status: offline 		Does this person know you at all?  If not, ignore it, and perhaps pass along a dictionary so they learn to use the word "their" instead of "there".

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RE: Hmmmm - 8/11/2006 1:26:41 PM   
vonzott


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Status: offline 		You know.... I don't know you from anyone.  Wouldn't recognize you if you stepped on my foot.  But this seems a little out of left field.

It also seems a little like the stuff we've all seen that talks about what "a real mistress" (or "real" master, or "real" submissive...) is or is not.  What do you mean, "doesn't ask for money?"  Why the hell NOT?  Disrespect?  Ha!  There are guys lined up 12 deep to pay for that! (oh wait, but if you don't take money... oh well...).  Making a sub feel "not good enough"?  I dunno... I thot that was your *job*.

The other thing about this post is just one of those things that really bugs me.  People who can't spell or use punctuation.  (and -12 points to the first person who points out that I spelled "thot" wrong... duh... I did it on purpose, dummy!)  This sounds like something *well* worth ignoring.  As my mom used to say, "consider the source". 

And then go take a nap...




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RE: Hmmmm - 8/11/2006 1:27:29 PM   
formenteralady


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Status: offline 		It sounds like maybe you two weren't totatly compatable, and that this is some after break up bitterness...I'm guessing you were close enough what this person has to say means something to you too, which isn't bad, just maybe realise they are approaching you from a place of hurt and not sincerity and take it with a grain of salt.

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RE: Hmmmm - 8/11/2006 1:30:25 PM   
formenteralady


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quote:

ORIGINAL: vonzott

You know.... I don't know you from anyone.  Wouldn't recognize you if you stepped on my foot.  But this seems a little out of left field.

It also seems a little like the stuff we've all seen that talks about what "a real mistress" (or "real" master, or "real" submissive...) is or is not.  What do you mean, "doesn't ask for money?"  Why the hell NOT?  Disrespect?  Ha!  There are guys lined up 12 deep to pay for that! (oh wait, but if you don't take money... oh well...).  Making a sub feel "not good enough"?  I dunno... I thot that was your *job*.

The other thing about this post is just one of those things that really bugs me.  People who can't spell or use punctuation.  (and -12 points to the first person who points out that I spelled "thot" wrong... duh... I did it on purpose, dummy!)  This sounds like something *well* worth ignoring.  As my mom used to say, "consider the source". 

And then go take a nap...





http://encyclopediadramatica.com/index.php/Grammar_nazi

This is ment in good fun.


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RE: Hmmmm - 8/11/2006 1:36:29 PM   
MissAlison


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Status: offline 		One of the biggest issues I had with this sub, was when W/we were in a chat room together, she would constantly whine that I paid more attention to My friends than her....and as far as the money went, I asked for a $25 LOAN....she makes it sound like she paid My way through life. 

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RE: Hmmmm - 8/11/2006 1:41:45 PM   
wild1cfl


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Status: offline 		MissAlison,
It looks like someone is a little bitter, don't let it bother you, actions speak louder than words.


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RE: Hmmmm - 8/11/2006 1:44:09 PM   
pmyshkinp


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Status: offline 		Um, maybe just to play devil's advocate, but, if you're so sure you're right, why did you feel the need to take this public, especially when it strikes me as an exclusively private affair?

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RE: Hmmmm - 8/11/2006 1:44:19 PM   
LadyTantalize


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Status: offline 		But why ask for a loan from a stranger in a chatroom?   Sorry but I'd find that suspect as well.

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RE: Hmmmm - 8/11/2006 1:49:42 PM   
MissAlison


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Status: offline 		First off, as I said, I have been questioning my abilities as a Domme....perhaps just needed an ego boost, or some type of justification....Second of all, I DIDNT ask for a loan from someone in a chat room, I asked my SUB for a loan...Wwe knew each other in RL...

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RE: Hmmmm - 8/11/2006 2:05:10 PM   
MisPandora


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissAlison

Rarely do I either bitch and whine about what a sub, or ex gf says to Me, just like I rarely question My abilities as a Domme.
 
This however, puzzled and hurt Me....Feedback?

(paraphrased, subject matter not pertaining to this thread removed)

" you have no clue Alison.. how to be a Mistress. A Mistress does not ask for money. a mistress does not treat there sub-slave with disrespect.. a Mistress does not make there sub-slave feel like there not good enough..as far as you being a Mistress. i will see to it that you do not deserve that name."

Feedback: The individual is an illiterate fool and is clear stalker/problem material.  Celebrate the fact that they're gone!!!!

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RE: Hmmmm - 8/11/2006 2:08:53 PM   
MisPandora


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissAlison

First off, as I said, I have been questioning my abilities as a Domme....perhaps just needed an ego boost, or some type of justification....Second of all, I DIDNT ask for a loan from someone in a chat room, I asked my SUB for a loan...Wwe knew each other in RL...

(edited because the OP clarified her stringer sentence on chatrooms and asking for a loan from the slave)

It STILL leaves me wondering what else we don't know and what else was 'snipped for brevity' that shows the person leaving the edged comment might have had a POINT!.

< Message edited by MisPandora -- 8/11/2006 2:37:36 PM >

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RE: Hmmmm - 8/11/2006 2:16:26 PM   
MissAlison


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Status: offline 		I think I have been misunderstood....this sub was someone I knew IN REAL LIFE... I asked for the loan TO HER FACE....the chatroom wasnt where the loan was asked for nor discussed, and Im starting to be sorry I brought up the chatroom thing....

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RE: Hmmmm - 8/11/2006 2:22:19 PM   
bandit25


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Status: offline 		No disrespect, but rather than a dictionary, she may want to pass along a grammar book.  The word should be "her", not "their" since only one person is being referred to. 

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RE: Hmmmm - 8/11/2006 2:37:02 PM   
MistressSassy66


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissAlison

Rarely do I either bitch and whine about what a sub, or ex gf says to Me, just like I rarely question My abilities as a Domme.
 
This however, puzzled and hurt Me....Feedback?

(paraphrased, subject matter not pertaining to this thread removed)

" you have no clue Alison.. how to be a Mistress. A Mistress does not ask for money. a mistress does not treat there sub-slave with disrespect.. a Mistress does not make there sub-slave feel like there not good enough..as far as you being a Mistress. i will see to it that you do not deserve that name."


IMO...he doesnt know what submission is...how dare he speak to you like that.

Thats the tone I get when they find out I wont have sex with them,they cop some attitude and call Me a fat cow that they wouldnt serve anyway.....
My reply is you didnt think I was too fat before when you wrote to Me.....

Dont waste another minute of your precious time with this so called submissive.



editted to add I may be off on the gender ....so same goes if its a girl.

< Message edited by MistressSassy66 -- 8/11/2006 2:39:18 PM >

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RE: Hmmmm - 8/11/2006 2:44:53 PM   
MissAlison


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Status: offline 		Thank Yyou all for both the positive and negative feedback....I suppose there was a part of Me that felt My Domme-ness was under fire, and the fallout remaining from the breakup of a D/s relationship that lasted 6 months left Me bitter and jaded.
 
Again, thank Yyou for helping Me gain some prespective.

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RE: Hmmmm - 8/11/2006 2:55:53 PM   
LadyJulieAnn


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quote:

ORIGINAL: bandit25

No disrespect, but rather than a dictionary, she may want to pass along a grammar book.  The word should be "her", not "their" since only one person is being referred to. 


Very true! 

*removes the "they" from my statement 

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RE: Hmmmm - 8/11/2006 6:08:09 PM   
MHOO314


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Status: offline 		Send him a dictionary and move on.

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RE: Hmmmm - 8/12/2006 4:33:43 AM   
Oumae


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Status: offline 		Hmmmmmmm indeed.  It was a fem sub not a male one

quote:

One of the biggest issues I had with this sub, was when W/we were in a chat room together, she would constantly whine that I paid more attention to My friends than her....and as far as the money went, I asked for a $25 LOAN....she makes it sound like she paid My way through life.     


so does that mean those who commented on "him" need a dictionary or glasses?

Have people never made a typo that they jump so quickly on the one word in what was a
quote:

(paraphrased, subject matter not pertaining to this thread removed)
quote.

As to the OP, you have given a snippet of your side of a story, there is another side and what really happened, maybe be glad you found out now that you are not so compatible and not another year down the road.

Oumae

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