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RE: the myth of 24/7 /365 - 8/22/2009 11:08:58 AM

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Hold on now.

I lived in a 24/7 power exchange setting. I was more than a househusband than a 'puppy'.

*scratches head*

um....?

Proper english is cool?

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RE: the myth of 24/7 /365 - 8/22/2009 11:21:56 AM

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Wow and a 9 post 2004 Thread gets new life.

It is funny that there have been more posts to this thread now then were made in 2004.

To address the matter Yes 24/7/365 is a Myth, and so Are unicorns But I got both so take it as you want.

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RE: the myth of 24/7 /365 - 8/22/2009 11:37:20 AM

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Speaking from 51 years in this i cna tell you 24/7 is not a thing in this time and life but like the dino long gone nto extinction.

I think 24/7/365 is only a myth for those who have never experienced it. For those who have, it is far from mythological... in fact, it is so down-to-earth, so gritty, so tactile, so intrinsic, and so grounded that some folks find it positively normal.

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RE: the myth of 24/7 /365 - 8/22/2009 11:42:15 AM

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ORIGINAL: CallaFirestormBW
in fact, it is so down-to-earth, so gritty, so tactile, so intrinsic, and so grounded that some folks find it positively normal

HA! My vanilla-ness validated

*chuckles* See, it's NORMAL that I boss my wife around.

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RE: the myth of 24/7 /365 - 8/22/2009 11:42:35 AM

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ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

Wow and a 9 post 2004 Thread gets new life.

It is funny that there have been more posts to this thread now then were made in 2004.

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RE: the myth of 24/7 /365 - 8/22/2009 4:32:58 PM

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Sounds to me the OP is either pissed or as high as a kite in either case I want to know what he is drinking/smoking in case I want to try some too especially when I need to talk to the ATO, fill out tax Returns....Or... Deal with my Sister-in-law's Afrikaana husband and his family.

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RE: the myth of 24/7 /365 - 8/22/2009 4:54:35 PM

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To the original poster ...

Your first problem might be (as far as I know) is that there is no such thing as a no-limits slave. And if there is a no-limits slave odds are someone somewhere will be charged with murder at sometime.

As for the 24/7/366 [note the numbers] slave these arrangements DO happen but they take a lot of planning and are not over night transitions. They take a great about of planning and envisioning on the Masters part. [from my opinion] One must frame it within the context of today's society. You and others may want to consider my profile which gives a glimmer of an idea of how i envision this working. Mind you these are not over night thoughts bur rather thoughts that have evolved over 20 years of considerations.

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RE: the myth of 24/7 /365 - 8/22/2009 6:29:25 PM

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And if there is a no-limits slave odds are someone somewhere will be charged with murder at sometime.

I'm not going to argue about whether there truly -are- "no-limits" servants, because the thing is, to test your theory, for a situation like you describe, really requires two things, not one... it requires both a servant who has yielded all boundaries in a comprehensive-authority dynamic (and those -do- exist, and I've managed more than one personally) -and- a Keeper who is so lacking in pragmatism or rational thought that xhe is actually -willing- to destroy such an individual on a whim, to prove a point... and it -still- doesn't answer the question, because really, perhaps death wasn't a limit, but somewhere out there, there may, possibly, have been something else that might have been. Death is -not- necessarily the "ultimate bad outcome" for some folks (for example, we've had professional bodyguards on two separate occasions while traveling abroad who -weren't- in a D/s relationship with us, but who would -definitely- have taken a mortal wound for EB or SR). Personally, though you may be right that it isn't possible to have -no- limits, we've had several servants who went far enough in that direction that, at least for MY purposes, they might as well have been "no limits", because finding what -was- a limit was so far beyond the realm of what I would be willing to do that, if there -was- a limit out there, it really wouldn't, pragmatically, matter to me at all.

Also, I think that the issue of comprehensive authority dynamics are really a separate issue from 24/7/365 dynamics, because it is possible to have a full-time, fully committed relationship where the servant still has boundaries and things that are not released completely. All that 24/7/365 expresses is that this is a living commitment, rather than a temporary arrangement for a limited time, at the end of which the authority dynamic will be set aside (ie, bedroom submission, 'weekend' submission, or top/bottom scene-only submission).

Dame Calla

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RE: the myth of 24/7 /365 - 8/22/2009 6:40:19 PM

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so im curious, how did it pop up. surely someone found the question, decided it asked their question, albiet badly and is waiting on the responses.

I don't think so, lally, read post #10. I think Turbo had a "fat fingers on keyboard" moment resulting in a 5 year necro

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RE: the myth of 24/7 /365 - 8/22/2009 6:46:38 PM

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ok, I'm not a huge stickler for bad spelling, I make mistakes myself all the time. But I really can't understand what the heck you are trying to say. Between the bad spelling and the rambling in general...I'm a wee bit confused dude.

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