Amaros
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Joined: 7/25/2005 Status: offline
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I wouldn't say I don't like having my cock sucked, but it's only in more recent years I've been able get full enjoyment out of it - when I was a teenager, it was just maddening - to lie there passively was sheer torture when I was sensitive, and on the flip side, as I became more desensitized, there wasn't enough friction, and the poor girl would end up with lockjaw long before I'd ever get close to orgasm - which isn't all that exiting for either of us. It's a bit more of a mental thing now, if a woman really enjoys giving head, then I can certainly indulge her, if she doesn't, It's no great stress to not get head, or some limited fellatio as foreplay - but I got similar responses from time to time, when I'd say "no, don't do that, I can't take it". - wasn't that I'd come to fast or anything, I just have a hard time lying still in bed. There are degree of BDSM, I don't think I'd be doing it if my partner wasn't getting somethinng out of it - I see it more as a way of overcoming all the enculturated hangups that are programmed in, to learn to just enjoy the sexual act without the politics and unrealistic fantasies - it's really a dirty, messy, sweaty, akward business, not that pretty at all, and to really get into it, you have to come to terms with some common neurosis about cleanliness, "dirty parts", etc., etc., blah, blah. If swabin' the lilly helps her let go, then get down there and suck that clit till it's six inches long.
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