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LadyHugs -> RE: Why Dont People Want Me (8/13/2006 7:37:55 PM)
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Dear BradleyTheSlave, Ladies and Gentlemen;
I do have the thought, that you lad are without knowledge of what BDSM and most of all the D/s dynamic.
Perhaps there has been only porn movies, books and such that have been your only glimpse into what BDSM might be like or D/s might be like but, real life is extremely different.
May I recommend enlisting in the military. The lessons learned are more than anybody can teach you in a rapid pace plus, you would be paid. In the military, you will learn civil behavior, taking good care of yourself. When you can take care of yourself--then you can take care of a lady and or a dominant lady. You will learn protocols. This will help you keep the invisible line of authority and or domination and service and or submission. There is a purpose, an order, roots and reasons behind protocol--it keeps you alive, it keeps harmony, it makes many into one team.
Service is not just sex. Service means so very much, from companionship to suffering in pain as to pleasure a dominant. Service may be mundane, such as domestic tasks or thrilling, to be serving a formal dinner.
I do believe that majority of dominant women do not like 'loose' men, as if you can't keep your manhood in your pants based on your word, no chastity device will keep you well focused off of sex and or self gratification. Ladies prefer gentlemen who deny themselves their lust and sex, as to keep her health paramount and not pose a risk to her welfare/well being.
Perhaps you may wish to connect with the BDSM groups in Australia. Perhaps look for advice from other Australians.
Perhaps you will consider becoming a wise man and take the behavior and attitude of a knight, rather than a woman's nightmare.
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs
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