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RE: Why Dont People Want Me - 8/13/2006 2:45:29 PM

MySweetSubmssive

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If you want to know why you aren't successful with dominant women, I would suggest looking at what we want (not that all dominant women want the same thing). If you were motivated, you could research the forums and see how this question has been answered before.

For me, I'm looking for a submissive who I like as a person, who wants to relate to me, and is willing to follow my agenda. A slave, in my mind, is someone who is willing to put his own aims to the side to a large degree. Your profile suggests that you want to show up and have your fetishes attended to (do me! do me! do me!), which is unattractive in itself. The fetishes you list are going to attract a small group of women.

I agree with others. Do take another picture of yourself, one in which you are smiling.

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RE: Why Dont People Want Me - 8/13/2006 2:46:03 PM

Bearlee

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Poor petulant, pouty boy,

First, get a new picture; you don’t look like any fun at all!

Second, how ‘bout tell what it is you have to offer rather than just what it is you want; you sound a little ‘do-me’.

If you’re interested in a Mistress…why talk so much about sucking cocks? Very odd, seems to me. Oh wait…a Mistress? I looked again…seems you have no preferences…any ol’ user will do. <sigh>

Lastly, you've been here less than a month; things take time, kid!

good luck,
bearlee

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RE: Why Dont People Want Me - 8/13/2006 2:50:04 PM

LTRsubNW

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It's your shoes.

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RE: Why Dont People Want Me - 8/13/2006 2:55:54 PM

Rule

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I have looked at your profile. You have nothing to offer except your body. You appear to have no talents nor skills at all. You are empty. You seem not active, but passive. You provide no evidence of your wish to serve. In what way have you ever assisted or helped other people? Apparently you never even helped an old lady cross the street; at least you do not mention it.

You are still young. If you truly are a slave or - perhaps more likely? - a submissive, I suggest that you start to follow educational courses and take up one or more hobbies to develop your individual talents and skills. Do you have a job? A Mistress will consider that a sign that you are willing to work and to serve.

Edited to add: Oops. I am in a forum answering questions not meant for males. I didn't intend to intrude on your turf, ladies.

< Message edited by Rule -- 8/13/2006 3:00:51 PM >

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RE: Why Dont People Want Me - 8/13/2006 3:08:58 PM

NastyDaddy

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quote:

ORIGINAL: michaelGA2

quote:

It could be that you are seeking a Female Mistress...

as opposed to what...a male Mistress...LOL...just kidding.

Too much information (TMI) often indicates being not very well informed or haven't connected all the dots for whatever reason or ryhme.

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RE: Why Dont People Want Me - 8/13/2006 3:09:23 PM

enigmabrat

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this is a joke right???

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RE: Why Dont People Want Me - 8/13/2006 3:10:26 PM

slaveintheruff

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are you letting yourself show thru truly...most think theyare but when in reality they are trying to hard to be what they aren't

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RE: Why Dont People Want Me - 8/13/2006 3:40:14 PM

LadyAlexa

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MisPandora

quote:

ORIGINAL: BradleyTheSlave

Why dont people want to use me?

Gee, I dunno. Perhaps it's because you're a breeding ground for infectious diseases. Or maybe it's because you're halfway across the world. Or maybe it's because you use poor grammar. Or just maybe it's because you're not even old enough in the US to buy any of us a cocktail. Then again, it might just be because you're a whiny, do-me bottom pig and we're not into that?

I'm sure there is someone out there who might, but perhaps your time would be better used getting your bearings in the BDSM lifestyle and culture rather than whining about it like a petulant child.

good points Pandora

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RE: Why Dont People Want Me - 8/13/2006 3:41:32 PM

LadyAlexa

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quote:

ORIGINAL: michaelGA2

quote:

It could be that you are seeking a Female Mistress...

as opposed to what...a male Mistress...LOL...just kidding.

LOL at least YOU don't whine

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RE: Why Dont People Want Me - 8/13/2006 4:32:21 PM

littlesarbonn

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LTRsubNW

It's your shoes.

I'm thinking that perhaps that is also MY problem. For some reason, I haven't found anyone. It MUST be the shoes.

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RE: Why Dont People Want Me - 8/13/2006 4:53:25 PM

Evanesce

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quote:

Why dont people want to use me?

Well, I know why I wouldn't. Your profile is a complete turn-off, bordering on disgusting. That, and you come across as being all about the sucking and fucking, and I've already got someone I do that with.

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RE: Why Dont People Want Me - 8/13/2006 5:01:51 PM

ToServeIsToLive

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LTRsubNW

It's your shoes.

Aye once you get the shoes all the ladies just walk up and say "Nice shoes, lets fuck" and then they pull out "kong" and put you in a hospital with an embrassing story.

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RE: Why Dont People Want Me - 8/13/2006 5:04:16 PM

orfunboi

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You go girl

quote:

ORIGINAL: Evanesce

quote:

Why dont people want to use me?

Well, I know why I wouldn't. Your profile is a complete turn-off, bordering on disgusting. That, and you come across as being all about the sucking and fucking, and I've already got someone I do that with.

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RE: Why Dont People Want Me - 8/13/2006 5:07:10 PM

michaelGA2

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quote:

First, get a new picture; you don’t look like any fun at all!

i have a clown wig and make-up...maybe i should take a pic of me like that to show just how much fun "i" am...LOL

(this comment was not meant as an insult, but placed here for comical effect)

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RE: Why Dont People Want Me - 8/13/2006 5:24:33 PM

porcelaine

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BradleyTheSlave

Why dont people want to use me?

With all due respect your profile reads like horrid erotic literature and the latter word is a huge stretch. I believe the ladies have given you lots of advice and I will insert another thing that hasn't been mentioned. A well written profile is no guarantee of pairing either. It still attracts undesireables and one must be prudent on all accounts.

If I were you I would eliminate the continued references to sex and explain why you have selected every category in relation to what you're seeking person wise. A brief statement indicating your willingness to engage with both sexes including transgendered ones would suffice. Lastly, you really don't need to advertise. If someone finds your words intriguing they will make the time to contact you.

Best of luck on your search.

Regards,

porcelaine

< Message edited by porcelaine -- 8/13/2006 5:26:10 PM >

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RE: Why Dont People Want Me - 8/13/2006 5:25:40 PM

Misstoyou

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ToServeIsToLive

quote:

ORIGINAL: LTRsubNW

It's your shoes.

Aye once you get the shoes all the ladies just walk up and say "Nice shoes, lets fuck" and then they pull out "kong" and put you in a hospital with an embrassing story.

Okay, "kong" is not my thing, but the way you wrote this is tempting.

To the OP...No, no...you've got it backwards! It's all about ME!!

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RE: Why Dont People Want Me - 8/13/2006 5:45:18 PM

MySweetSubmssive

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quote:

ORIGINAL: littlesarbonn

quote:

ORIGINAL: LTRsubNW

It's your shoes.

I'm thinking that perhaps that is also MY problem. For some reason, I haven't found anyone. It MUST be the shoes.

You keep moving!

Of course, the shoes might be it, too. Which ones are you wearing now?

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RE: Why Dont People Want Me - 8/13/2006 7:37:55 PM

LadyHugs

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Dear BradleyTheSlave, Ladies and Gentlemen;

I do have the thought, that you lad are without knowledge of what BDSM and most of all the D/s dynamic.

Perhaps there has been only porn movies, books and such that have been your only glimpse into what BDSM might be like or D/s might be like but, real life is extremely different.

May I recommend enlisting in the military. The lessons learned are more than anybody can teach you in a rapid pace plus, you would be paid. In the military, you will learn civil behavior, taking good care of yourself. When you can take care of yourself--then you can take care of a lady and or a dominant lady. You will learn protocols. This will help you keep the invisible line of authority and or domination and service and or submission. There is a purpose, an order, roots and reasons behind protocol--it keeps you alive, it keeps harmony, it makes many into one team.

Service is not just sex. Service means so very much, from companionship to suffering in pain as to pleasure a dominant. Service may be mundane, such as domestic tasks or thrilling, to be serving a formal dinner.

I do believe that majority of dominant women do not like 'loose' men, as if you can't keep your manhood in your pants based on your word, no chastity device will keep you well focused off of sex and or self gratification. Ladies prefer gentlemen who deny themselves their lust and sex, as to keep her health paramount and not pose a risk to her welfare/well being.

Perhaps you may wish to connect with the BDSM groups in Australia. Perhaps look for advice from other Australians.

Perhaps you will consider becoming a wise man and take the behavior and attitude of a knight, rather than a woman's nightmare.

Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs

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RE: Why Dont People Want Me - 8/13/2006 7:39:36 PM

formenteralady

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I was actualy responding to the orgional poster, you see my comment dosen't make sense in relation to you, so maybe you should assume that it wasn't an attack on you, but rather my talking to the orgional poster.

Sorry for the mix up, your profile is fine.

btw Dude is kind of a sexless word these days. Anyone can be a dude, irreguardless of gender.

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RE: Why Dont People Want Me - 8/13/2006 7:51:53 PM

marieToo

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To the OP:

I would suggest maybe becoming friendly with some other male submissives who you could perhaps confide in or even seek advice from. Maybe you think your only worth is a sexual one? Thats not the case. Dont throw yourself down as anyone's doormat. You are not a voiceless rag doll to be tosd around. You have value as a human being and you need to have more belief in yourself that you have more to offer than sexual use/abuse. Best of luck.

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