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RE: Lasting marks from play - 8/14/2006 5:38:59 AM

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had some knife play that left marks for about two weeks....most of the time thought bites are gone after a few days...and other marks...gone within 48 hours....

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RE: Lasting marks from play - 8/14/2006 3:19:44 PM

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Wow! Now that's lasting marks! And it didn't go to blood you say? Wild.

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RE: Lasting marks from play - 8/14/2006 3:24:16 PM

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Knife play isn't something I've done as yet. Paddles, floggers, singletails, canes, hairbrushes, slappers, evil stick, rulers, and hands, etc. are what I'm experienced with receiving. All leave marks, but as I said it's generally 10 days max and they're gone. Maybe I played harder than I realized this last time, who knows...was fantastic anyway.

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RE: Lasting marks from play - 8/14/2006 3:54:39 PM

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ORIGINAL: SweetSarijane

Wow! Now that's lasting marks! And it didn't go to blood you say? Wild.

I mark very easily! I noticed today that I still have teeth marks on my shoulder from May or July, so marks tend to stay around awhile with me.

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RE: Lasting marks from play - 8/14/2006 5:22:31 PM

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The longest-lasting marks I've ever had didn't even appear until 3 days after we played... after all the smaller bruises and scratches had all but vanished. These deeper ones came up an interesting shade of purple/green, and lasted another 7 days.

Mine are sometimes a beautiful magenta... quite stunning, I wish Crayola could capture the color...WEG

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RE: Lasting marks from play - 8/14/2006 5:25:38 PM

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

Mine are sometimes a beautiful magenta... quite stunning, I wish Crayola could capture the color...WEG

lol...you reminded me of how I looked after a scene a couple of months ago...my marks perfectly matched the red undies I was wearing. Excellent color coordination <grin>

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RE: Lasting marks from play - 8/15/2006 12:39:03 PM

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If the bruises concern you there's a couple of things to do pro-actively that may help. There is an herbal remedy of chilling parsley (the cut up fresh plant not dry spices) and rubbing it on the bruise& there's arinca an herbal remedy pill you can take that makes them fade faster too.

I have had bruises that lasted for over three weeks. Lol, one time my whole butt from hip to hip was bruised for about 18days. I have also had some cuts I thought would scar that remained almost two months before they could not be seen. I have only one trophy of three little dots on the front of my right thigh from a hot scene & three cane punishment scars (two on my right thigh and one on my left).
Other than the punishment scars the rest are all cool with me. I don't mind I mark when I play. I actually like to see the bruises as they remind me of my partners affections long after the scene is done.
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RE: Lasting marks from play - 8/15/2006 12:54:27 PM

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In my limited experience my marks are gone by morning. I have only had 2 scenes that the marks lasted longer, once a dragontail (or is it dragontongue?) left small triangle shaped marks all over my shoulders and after an extended flogging scene there was a bruise under each arm about the size of 2 dollar bills side by side

my first ever scene i stayed with the domme that flogged me, when i showed her my back, with no marks, the next morning she nearly hit the floor

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RE: Lasting marks from play - 8/15/2006 1:07:36 PM

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Not being a masochist, submissive or slave I have not experienced bruising the the same reasons, HOWEVER.....I can be a real klutz and have in the training of horses and all that working with horses entails, suffered alot of bruising, bites, cuts, sprains, and a few fractures. What I know from the doctors is that there are many things that will affect the healing process, a vitamin deficiency can play a major role, especially vitamin C. If you smoke make sure you take supplements to counteract what the smoking depletes. Obviously if you wish to wear your marks longer those suggestions are not applicable. Oddly I can understand a fondness for the marks, rather like a badge of honour.

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RE: Lasting marks from play - 8/15/2006 1:46:55 PM

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I am very fair skinned (irish skin) and my Master has no desire to leave marks on me and i have no desire to have marks on me. I know that is strange to some people but i do not need marks to know how much he loves me. I mean my Master has no desire to hurt me so much he leaves marks on me but that is just us. I speak only for our own relationship not any others.

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RE: Lasting marks from play - 8/15/2006 4:54:54 PM

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It used to be (and still is for the most part) my marks tended to mostly disappear within 2 days, aside from what I call angry stretch marks (Im covered in them). Stretch marks on me get insanely red really fast. The generalized red areas from warm up tend to disappear in 30 mins.

Now my marks disappear completely within 2 weeks, but that I know is because I play a lot harder than I did earlier in the year, often, even with imapact play, to blood. I have my first scars (no bruises from that scene on my back though), thanks to a rattan cane and my friend's fingernails. (I heal fast, and scar faster.) For bruising, I've found a rubber slapper I have works great, getting me to bruise on my back, which up until my last scene, seemed to have the resistance to bruising as if it were made of kevlar, but the slapper made quick work of that. It takes a lot to get me to mark, and I welt and cut faster than I bruise for the most part, even with thuddy instruments, and the welts usually never leave bruises, although a cracking singletail will make short work of any hide (done by a professional who knew what he is doing). My ass bruises easier than my back, but not by much. It is my breasts that bruise easily and rather dark when flogged heavily enough. I know may not be a good thing to do, but I have yet to suffer any adverse side effects and I don't partake of it very often.

I have not noticed any difference in how fast I heal, irregardless of whether or not I have a warm up, and I have been through many random, somewhat jarring, scenes, thanks to having very random friends.

Yes, as you can tell, I'm quite proud of the damage I've withstood. I <3 being a sadomasochist. :P

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RE: Lasting marks from play - 8/15/2006 6:27:06 PM

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I love the marks I get. While they last, I smile and relive parts of the scene whenever I see them. I'm not worried about the remaining marks, which are still there as of tonight, was just surprised to see them still there after this long. Made me curious if others tended to have lasting marks as well.

I relish the pain as well as the marks. Seems to go together for me.

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RE: Lasting marks from play - 8/15/2006 6:32:41 PM

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I really love the marks...they are my reminders.....I've had a few that lasted a couple of weeks.... My favorite ones are the bite marks!!!

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RE: Lasting marks from play - 8/15/2006 8:03:56 PM

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The Arnica in pill form works better, if taken proactively. Arnica gel can be used extensively. Another product that works is one called Vetrolin. It is a Horse linament with all natural ingredients. I did some deep bruising on a former slave and applied the vetrolin on the bruises from day one and it only took four days for the bruising to dissappear. I don't like to bruise over a bruise, as it can form scars or blood clots. I help them heal faster to be able to play hard.

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RE: Lasting marks from play - 8/15/2006 8:09:11 PM

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I may try that at some point when I have more opportunity to play than I currently do. I would rather the marks from the previous time be gone before getting new ones. Right now it's not a concern, but it will be in future.

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RE: Lasting marks from play - 8/15/2006 10:30:39 PM

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well, i consider those who show some lasting marks very lucky. i simply do not mark very easily at all. i mean, Mistress can practically take a jack hammer to my ass, and while i may have marks right after, by the next day they seem to be gone. i am often dissappointed by this. i mean, its not like it didn't hurt like hell. lol

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RE: Lasting marks from play - 8/16/2006 6:02:23 AM

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I've had marks that lasted 4 weeks! What a wonderful prize. I talked about it in another thread. It was rope burns (and a few blisters) from a tight rope harness that I wore all day and all night. It was the first time I had markings that lasted that long.

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RE: Lasting marks from play - 8/16/2006 11:43:16 AM

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shrugs i bruise like a tomato the avrage heal time for is 2 to 3 weeks but have had some bruises from play that last longer. in my case I have really thing blood due to takeing alot of asprin for head aches and muscle aches caused by work.

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RE: Lasting marks from play - 8/16/2006 1:13:36 PM

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I bruise very easily and on top of that I am diabetic so that makes bruising easier and last longer. If anyone has any information on diabetics on scening etc I would really appreciate it. I did learn thru a friend that my bruises got worse because I took an aspirin for a headache so if u dont want them to get worse dont take aspirin while bruised. curi

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RE: Lasting marks from play - 8/16/2006 1:37:58 PM

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Just a ps:

Most painkillers are blodthinners, and bruises are small bleedings under the skin. That's why painkillers wil make fresh bruises grow larger.

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