temptation -> RE: Bondage.com Website (12/27/2004 2:29:56 AM)
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from what I know of b.com, and of this site... this is the way i'd explain it. the site isnt run to generate money. aiken the owner of the site, whom i've talked to.. has said so before. that was his reasoning for not cutting out free userprofiles altogether; or restricting them as alt has. the site bondage.com is funded for the most part, through the sheer goodwill of those who enjoy the site, and partake in the bdsm community. Premium members do share some benefits that free users do not, but those benefits can be counted on a single hand. For the majority of those who do pay for premium membership,. it isnt about the monthly picture gallery update.. etc. It's just about contributing to a community that they feel proud to take part in. the site is a community site. the majority of the traffic is probably through the forum. where friends interact with eachother.. and this is why what aiken did.. makes sense to me.. Unlike alt.com or other personals sites, b.com isnt a few thousand strangers all shoved together on a single forum. it's more of a few hundred munches, friendships taken online from real life... and other various connections.. while this is what makes b.com seem so "cliquish" to those who dont know many people personally.. it does mean that b.com wont die becuase of the changes made. And so, I guess what i'm really trying to say is that... b.com, for the majority of the regulars who participate in the community.. is less of an impersonal personals site, where one views profiles and sort of "singles out" potential.. uhm.. mates? partners? And is more of a site where.. when people meet, its more personal and less.. abrupt. I'm inactive on b.com, simply because I do not like quite a few people who frequent the forums... but through b.com, I am now aware of a few local munches, and other bdsm related group activities and events in my area; and just that feeling of community.. seems sort of like what aiken is trying to project. it is a little more exclusive now, but at the same time... its more comfortable for alot of people. I typed alot, and i'm not even sure what i'm talking about
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