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LotusSong -> RE: Domme Tea Party (8/14/2006 2:58:41 PM)
Ah well :) Iron Bear.. I like you too :) The majority of the Doms on here I would gladlty invite for dinner. Fortuantly a nasty dom is few and far between. I think you guys would be impressed with the way our Teaboys served. "Quiet Dignity" would be a good description.

IronBear -> RE: Domme Tea Party (8/14/2006 3:03:32 PM)
Sounds good to me.. Something like an English High Tea perhaps? love the formal protocols .. Quiet and dignified with good fine china and wafer thin cucumber sandwiches and cake.. That would be delightfull. Havent been to one this year as yet.

LotusSong -> RE: Domme Tea Party (8/14/2006 3:48:32 PM)
Yup :) Now all this dignity doesn't mean we don't mess with them :) My slave has a wonderful set of teaboy blacks that he modified for me.. He cut the tips of his pockets off.. so if I slide my hands in his pockets... oh what can I say..sometimes a girl just feels a little cocky :) I love doing very descrete play :) This is what male subs like about Dommes. Sure we may seem demanding.. or deviously sweet (like me).. but we do keep our boys happy in their service :)

MySweetSubmssive -> RE: Domme Tea Party (8/14/2006 7:35:46 PM)
Might this be an Edwardian tea? boys in matching morning coats and white gloves? Yummm!

Lashra -> RE: Domme Tea Party (8/14/2006 7:46:32 PM)
You got that right. <shakes head> ~Lashra

LotusSong -> RE: Domme Tea Party (8/14/2006 7:56:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MySweetSubmssive Might this be an Edwardian tea? boys in matching morning coats and white gloves? Yummm! ] It can be whatever you wish. I know around town here, there are Victorian Teahouses. I always have my boy dress in Black from head to toe. It depends on where you hold it.. If you have it in a home, then they can dress however you wish. Just bear in mind they need be able to accomodate your wardrobe request.

Lashra -> RE: Domme Tea Party (8/14/2006 7:58:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NastyDaddy Since our minds are the same (and some females are multi-orgasmic), perhaps a few lost soul male doms could moonlight as male subs... serving the highly ladies cups of sperm tea, or sperm tea laced with the date rape drug, or worst yet.... truth serum (omg what revelations wood there be)! It'd be a real hoot I'm sure! (would need a corn cob instruction sign in the outhouse to ensure the city folk understand correct corn cob protocol) Particulary when the Dommes and the REAL male subs take the fakes outside, whip them, toss them in the mud and let the biboys have some fun. Squeal like a pig boy! ~Lashra

LotusSong -> RE: Domme Tea Party (8/14/2006 8:08:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lashra quote: ORIGINAL: NastyDaddy of sperm tea, or sperm tea laced with the date rape drug, or worst yet.... truth serum (omg what revelations wood there be)! Particulary when the Dommes and the REAL male subs take the fakes outside, whip them, toss them in the mud and let the biboys have some fun. Squeal like a pig boy! ~Lashra And of course we would serve the beverages to our Dom guests first :) If you only knew how protective our male subs are of us. Slave is 6' 210.. another one was a Judo master.. 6'2" and built like a brick house. Think of them as bouncers :)

NastyDaddy -> RE: Domme Tea Party (8/14/2006 9:20:23 PM)
Read back through the thread from the beginning and see how long the male Dom bashing lasted, before it was returned in kind. Dishing it out all day long seems second nature to some... umm Dommes... but taking it in return seems to be a major difficulty, especially when they post something as totally ludicris in another male Dom bashing thread like females being superior based on some women being capable of having multiple orgasms... the whole thing is a hoot, lol Quit bashing male Doms and you won't have to worry about dragging out your big boy squealing bouncers... or indulging in other cheesy whiney threats. Be responsible for your own actions/posts and you won't need to get a big bad boogieman to do your bidding and hide behind... while he's wearing your panties? It's simply tit for tat... no tit = no tat... when I see male Dom bashing I may likely respond to the poster with my male Dom opinion or something ludicris in return compliment.

MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: Domme Tea Party (8/15/2006 4:09:31 AM)
Warning: I am a tea geek and have been for years. Have a peek at my journal - I have an article and menu for tea posted there from about 6 weeks ago. I used to host a Tea in the Philly area a few years ago. In talking to a few others who have also hosted teas and dinner parties as well as going to quite a few, one of the perpetual problems was finding male servers who were interested in serving at such a function unless there was the immediate reward of being played with for their "service" at table. I actually think such functions are a great opportunity to get some service experience as well as meet some local Dommes. Overall, the teas were a lot of fun, but took a great deal of work to organize and put on. A friend of mine and I have been batting the idea of having a tea this fall, but we haven't been able to find a mutually workable date as yet. I would be cautious about attending a tea hosted by a group of male subs I wasn't familiar with. I'd look for something in a reliable venue (for example, at one of the local clubs) and I'd want to personally know at least a couple of the other Dommes who were planning on attending - mostly for my own personal safety. I'd be VERY uncomfortable going to a private home and not knowing anyone else there. For the sub in question, I would suggest going to a couple local tea rooms (www.teamap.com is a great finder source for them), and take the time to thoroughly research the traditions of afternoon tea, proper table service and settings, and carefullly plan an appopriate menu. There's a lot of information out there - some of it fairly conflicting particularly around etiquette issues. He'd definately have to get a tea set - you can NOT serve tea in disposable cups LOL

LadyEllen -> RE: Domme Tea Party (8/15/2006 4:44:38 AM)
As Edna Kroboppel said "what sort of boy has a tea set?" As Skinner replied "...... a lucky boy" Lucky because he knows he can invite the girls for tea, and they'll allow him to serve! E

MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: Domme Tea Party (8/15/2006 6:25:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyEllen As Edna Kroboppel said "what sort of boy has a tea set?" As Skinner replied "...... a lucky boy" Lucky because he knows he can invite the girls for tea, and they'll allow him to serve! E For certain :-) While it's nice to have a full set that matches, you can also pick a theme and collect mixed pieces too coordinate, or just pick up pieces that you like. Some popular themes are blue and white china, roses, all white. You want to have a teapot, sugar and creamer, a teacup and saucer (no mugs!) and a bread plate for everyone, plus serving pieces, as well as a pastry/dessert fork, teaspoon, and butter knife. How elaborate you get depends on your personal tastes. I collect blue and white china tea stuff - the great thing about it is that everything does not need to match but goes together great. Bombay Company always has blue & white tea pots in, and they're usually pretty good prices. Places like flea markets, ebay, TJMaxx and Ross regularly have pieces that will coordinate if not match. I've gotten pieces from just about everywhere and all different price ranges. I am lusting after a Spode blue willow teapot a local store has, but at $250, I'd probably rather buy a new signal whip :-)

LadyEllen -> RE: Domme Tea Party (8/15/2006 7:20:02 AM)
MsSonnet - as you are clearly expert beyond the rest of us here could you settle it once and for all please; does the milk go in before the tea, or after? I prefer milk before, but then I also prefer coffee! E

LotusSong -> RE: Domme Tea Party (8/15/2006 7:41:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsSonnetMarwood Warning: I am a tea geek and have been for years. Have a peek at my journal - I have an article and menu for tea posted there from about 6 weeks ago. I used to host a Tea in the Philly area a few years ago. In talking to a few others who have also hosted teas and dinner parties as well as going to quite a few, one of the perpetual problems was finding male servers who were interested in serving at such a function unless there was the immediate reward of being played with for their "service" at table. I actually think such functions are a great opportunity to get some service experience as well as meet some local Dommes. Overall, the teas were a lot of fun, but took a great deal of work to organize and put on. A friend of mine and I have been batting the idea of having a tea this fall, but we haven't been able to find a mutually workable date as yet. This was mine also. Everyone wants to come to a gathering but no one wants to help create it. I liken it to the little red hen mentality: Everyone will help you eat the bread butno one will be around to help you make the bread. Sitting around wishing for something to get better is a waste of time. One has to DO something. I would be cautious about attending a tea hosted by a group of male subs I wasn't familiar with. I'd look for something in a reliable venue (for example, at one of the local clubs) and I'd want to personally know at least a couple of the other Dommes who were planning on attending - mostly for my own personal safety. I'd be VERY uncomfortable going to a private home and not knowing anyone else there. I considered that also. I think it would have to be in stages where they host a munch in a public place and get themselves known. Phoenix is the "biggest small town in America" - mentality wise. If something is not right, word gets around relatively quickly. Yes and the "play" thing. They had to realize we need to KNOW a bit about them first. If anyone learns anything by the Dilemma posts- Women are more into the power in encounters. Men will sexualize things more. (Not bad- just a notable difference) Iron Bear said it well when he called it a formal "munch". It's place to put your best foot forward :) We really had good guys join us. The ones that showed for just a look-see dropped away. The women that came to take a dip in theTEAboy pool soon realized that a tea is not a party but a social gathering where the boys can show their skills and restraint. The smart ones used the opportunity to study how women interact with each other. Males did not make advances. Should they wish to meet one of the ladies personally, they would address the first Mistress or other organizer- and they would make his intentions known to the lady of his interest. And the reverse was handled in the same way. If it was a match- great. Parties were always separate. For the sub in question, I would suggest going to a couple local tea rooms (www.teamap.com is a great finder source for them), and take the time to thoroughly research the traditions of afternoon tea, proper table service and settings, and carefullly plan an appopriate menu. There's a lot of information out there - some of it fairly conflicting particularly around etiquette issues. He'd definately have to get a tea set - you can NOT serve tea in disposable cups LOL

LotusSong -> RE: Domme Tea Party (8/15/2006 8:32:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyEllen MsSonnet - as you are clearly expert beyond the rest of us here could you settle it once and for all please; does the milk go in before the tea, or after? I prefer milk before, but then I also prefer coffee! E It's sort of like.. "Does the cock go in the pussy.. or does the pussy go around the cock"? I would say that you put your milk in first so that it blends with the tea and thus eliminated the tinkling of a spoon. (but hey.. what do I know!)

GoddessDustyGold -> RE: Domme Tea Party (8/15/2006 10:42:24 AM)
Ah, well! As the OP is aware, we are working on something like this to get it going again in Phoenix. It is true that many boys are looking, but don't get personally involved to make things happen. And I, for one, would love to see more of that! I am so busy, and it is a lot of work to even make sure the munch is planned as to time and place and then advertised. So a formal Tea does take a bit of planning. In the end, I would probably be more than happy to supervise the planning of such events and leave it in the hands of the boys who have shown they have a committment to getting the job done and following through. This way there is still reasonable control of the event without all the work! I am very good at delegating! I just need someone to delegate to! Smile However, I love the idea of it. And it is a different way for the boys to present themselves and their skills or, at least their sincerity in honing some skills. And a wonderful opportunity for the Dominas to get together on a regular basis. And I do love My tea!

MissN -> RE: Domme Tea Party (8/15/2006 10:48:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyEllen Hiya Yes - we had a splendid lunch in Birmingham (UK) earlier this year, with the Ladies catered for and waited on by an eager army of sub males. It was for charity, but it worked out well - possibly because we also had a chef on hand to prepare everything - and also provided a good opportunity to meet lots of new people. E Lady Ellen...that sounded marvellous! When is the next one....I do love an elegant luncheon or afternoon tea, and I'm in the UK here so not so very far away! [;)]

LadyEllen -> RE: Domme Tea Party (8/15/2006 10:56:23 AM)
Hi Miss N It was a one off as far as I know - at least the organiser said so as she couldnt take the stress of organising another! It was at the new place on Fox Hollies Rd if you know it? The organiser was Violet, aka Violently. I know your name (from the website name) from somewhere...... cant think where! E

juliaoceania -> RE: Domme Tea Party (8/15/2006 11:29:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LotusSong quote: ORIGINAL: magpies Would the waiters have warring hard-ons ? That's their problem. They are there to serve and mingle... what better ways to meet Dommes than to have them show their sincerity. It's better than having them lament 'whoe is me"- I can't find any dommes. AND.. this idea makes use of the "hunter" drive in the male. I've always been the type that if you can't raise the bridge..lower the river. This thread is to find out if Dommes would attend a gathering held by an anonymous group of local male submissives? Hmmm. I wonder how it would be for fem subs to do so also? If my Dom wanted me to do this for charity I would come with bells on, but I would not volunteer for such a thing unless it was to direct it seeing as I have directed such affairs professionally in the past. My talents would be wasted just serving at such an affair. I love to volunteer my time for those who are having troubles in life, but it would not come from a sense of wanting to serve dominants at random, but either my Dom or humanity at large...

magpies -> RE: Domme Tea Party (8/15/2006 12:00:05 PM)
I fear someone's set a dreadful President in this Teapot Domme scandal. A word is a terrible thing to waste.

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