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Question for the women - sexual state - 12/26/2004 10:56:51 AM

sated

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I was wondering how women prefer their men / slaves / toys to be ? (for most times of the day)

I ask this with specific reference to sexual state.

Constantly stimulated and aroused or just plain empty ?

This is something that has been on my mind for ages now. I am in the throws of finding a woman to serve and would like to be the best i can be for female servitude. A part of me feels that its my duty as a male to be always full, aroused and in some sensual agony as a tribute to women in general. For some reason i cant get this idea out of my head.

All feedback is much appreciated.

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RE: Question for the women - sexual state - 12/26/2004 12:58:24 PM

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Works for me.. especially the "in Agony" part. While I don't like someone who is always "on" and ready to hump the furniture. They must always present with the desire and wanting, in a tasteful manner.. And should I be in the mood, (which is often).. I most certainly expect them to "rise" to the occassion with little or no effort.

In regards to being Empty. I find it much more enjoyable to process of draining a sub, then keeping him chaste. I can only speak for myself but as someone with a high sex drive it is much more fun to make them beg to stop or for a break than to bef for release.. or at least alternate between the two.. Keep them chaste for a few weeks... then fuck em till then beg you to stop... but don't stop... keep going until you both collaspe... Of course for even more fun.. wait tell he is begging to stop and then give him a viagra or something equivalent and go for another round.. Pain with pleasure is best.. making it hurt to cum and yet impossible not to is even better.. of course.. that's just my opinion..

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RE: Question for the women - sexual state - 12/26/2004 1:01:28 PM

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sated:

Obviously you're expecting or at least hoping to receive a multitude of replies.

Interestingly enough, you just might! In the meantime however, let me give you MY personal opinion.

Join the club! There is nary a doubt in my mind that many men have fretted over the "full ball-empty ball" question with respects to SERVING a Dominant Female.

I believe it's the only way you can SERVE, and do a half-way descent job of it. No matter what's been written or spoken about on the subject, a man has to be in a state of constant arousal inorder to be submissive to a woman.

Otherwise, and usually depending on which way the wind blows, he may or may not be up for the challenge of dutiful service.

Nope! You'd not go around spewing all day on my watch! Of course, I might consider allowing you to show me your testicular prowess by way of a little plastic bottle.

Here's how:

You go for it marathon style. Each and every drop must be deposited in this bottle. Can you fill it to the top? Dare you think it's easy and decide to show off?

When you fail miserably will I have had a chuckle at your expense, even a laugh? How dejected would you feel then, and just a little tiny and writhered I might add. HA!

Or...should you simply resign yourself to doing my bidding---and for more than a day too?!

It's then my responsibility to keep you in that constant state of arousal. No kidding. Serious business. Just because I can!

So-oh, and without the aid of a chastity device (which is yet another diabolical way to keep you at my mercy), I would personally want to entertain ideas that when turned loose upon you would most certainly make you respect me as your Dominant!!

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RE: Question for the women - sexual state - 12/26/2004 2:35:15 PM

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ORIGINAL: MaitresseEden

Works for me.. especially the "in Agony" part. While I don't like someone who is always "on" and ready to hump the furniture. They must always present with the desire and wanting, in a tasteful manner.. And should I be in the mood, (which is often).. I most certainly expect them to "rise" to the occassion with little or no effort.

In regards to being Empty. I find it much more enjoyable to process of draining a sub, then keeping him chaste. I can only speak for myself but as someone with a high sex drive it is much more fun to make them beg to stop or for a break than to bef for release.. or at least alternate between the two.. Keep them chaste for a few weeks... then fuck em till then beg you to stop... but don't stop... keep going until you both collaspe... Of course for even more fun.. wait tell he is begging to stop and then give him a viagra or something equivalent and go for another round.. Pain with pleasure is best.. making it hurt to cum and yet impossible not to is even better.. of course.. that's just my opinion..

Ms. Eden
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Maitresse Eden....You will not be the only one heading for a cold shower after that post!!! Why oh why is Texas so far away!

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RE: Question for the women - sexual state - 12/26/2004 2:53:50 PM

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quote:

I was wondering how women prefer their men / slaves / toys to be ? (for most times of the day)

I ask this with specific reference to sexual state.

Constantly stimulated and aroused or just plain empty ?

I prefer my men to be virile, strong, and assertive (especially secually.) To avoid any confusion, I do not fuck my slaves. I am not sexually attracted to submissive men.

So for the second question, it would be way easier on me if they just didn't have any nads. *BUT* since there is some argument that men need sexual release (I'm not here to argue the veracity of that claim) I'll either let them do a "timed" (me counting backwards from 45 and by the time I reach 0 they better have released) or I'll give them a blow up animal for that purpose.

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RE: Question for the women - sexual state - 12/26/2004 10:34:47 PM

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I like my slave able to perform sexually when I feel like playing (I want him hot for me all the time, but not on unless that's what I want him to be), otherwise, put that thing away...
Mine would be in a D/s relationship, not with multi servants, Pro, etc though...
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RE: Question for the women - sexual state - 12/27/2004 12:03:41 AM

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Same. Dominance for Me is far from sexual and I won't have sex with submissives.

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RE: Question for the women - sexual state - 12/27/2004 8:18:17 AM

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Thank you all for your replys.

It makes it easier to make the decision every day to continue in a state of agonising arousal. At the present i wear myself with the foreskin retracted (i am not circumcised), oiled (with baby oil) to increase the sensations from the fabric rubbing against myself. It does not take long to be in an almost constant state of semi arousal. I was between minds with this as i was not sure as to how it might be taken. I appreciate all your input. From the direction of feedback, i will continue to strive to maintain a state of arousal constantly where i would be open to doing just about anything for a woman.

MaitresseEden, I love your idea! - It would be great to have sexual control - officially - with written contract. I too have a very high sex drive and it also takes me ages to release. - I have not taken viagra, but being in a state of "powered" controlled desperation would be fantastic.

GoddessDenetra, Agreed! Ages ago when these ideas started to come in to play it was harder to consider serving after a release, but after coming to the realization that i actually do want to be subservient to a woman, it makes it alot easier. Even after a release. For me that understanding brought the capacity to go further to please regardless of physical state. But arousal does make it more sensual and urgent.

GoddessJules, 45 isnt a long time at all. Would prolonged chastity be better with constant stimulation without release ?

BlkTallFullfig, It is a great thing indeed to be hot for a woman all the time. I also do feel that this isnt something that you'd want at a pro level.

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RE: Question for the women - sexual state - 12/29/2004 4:35:23 PM

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I like the idea of keeping them ready to hump the furniture too. Lovely phrase. :) I'm still laughing.

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RE: Question for the women - sexual state - 1/9/2005 1:53:36 PM

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sated,

dont be so shy, there is nothing wrong with the word erection, or cum (well, if you want to use second one, add please)

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