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Erectile dysfunction - 8/15/2006 7:36:08 PM

Lashra

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I am posting this for my sub. I just started him with a chastity device, the CB3000. This is something totally new to him and even though he finds wearing it makes him feel even more submissive, he is worried that prolong wearing (a week or more) may make him have a problem getting an erection.

So, has anyone with chastity experience known of wearing a chastity device to cause that sort of a problem? He isn't having that problem at all, in fact he is horny all the time, its just he's worried about down the road.

~Lashra and a worried slutjack.

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RE: Erectile dysfunction - 8/15/2006 9:35:47 PM

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I had a submissve in a CB3000 for much longer than a week, many times and he emerged each time with a rather strong erectile function. No problems whatsoever. I have heard that very long-term wear ( a year or so) can have potential side effects, but have spoken to others who were fine for a year or more.

If either of you are worried, try it for a week, let him have an erection, then put him back in for 2 weeks, and continue for as long as you please.

Good luck.

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RE: Erectile dysfunction - 8/16/2006 3:12:43 AM

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hm the answered of this question is for me important too. this moment i'm still in my heart sub,but either there is a lady who is thinkink to use or own myself, or i'm a real slave in this moment to this time.
(next sentences i Have wrote in german,and tried to wrote in english by bablefish:
Keuscheitsgürtel is the word in german language for chastity)
I hope it am permitted to me, the question around arrange way of the use of a Keuschheitsguertels to extend. I am at present still in liberty, thus without female rule, nor I am in moment property of a lady. But my readiness of a lady is very high to subject. As soon as I notice evenly the fact that with the meeting and when becoming acquainted with my heart for a lady comes into whale lungs constantly goes my Fantasie around it, - which is called my readiness is there, me this material lady durably in addition-given to give away me material to you. I have to also accept then that control of me is total. To that extent I believe that also I can be obligated to it, and/or the only way is for me simply ready to be possibly a Keuschheitsguertel to carry to have, if that wishes evenly the rule and requires I have also in the regard large fears, independently of the fact that I with the conception overcome me also thought of the desire. My fears are appropriate however more in the direction durably for pain to suffer to have, if evenly the Keuschheitsguertel press employ to that extent I with also ever more with the topic Keuschheitsguertel, although I am distant still far from the fact that me this by female side is put on, and/or I of it obligated am to have to carry one durably. Because I already concern myself intensively now also with the topic first, I have to also ask, actually are recommended which sort of Keuschheitsguerteln, if evenly this is to be carried ernshaft material on a long-term basis durably. One can carry which durably, without the Keuschheitsguertel presses too much, or certain parts with carries wund to become. If I have to carry already evenly one, should he nevertheless also my anatomy perfectly adapted be-being who can to me its experiences there describe?

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RE: Erectile dysfunction - 8/16/2006 3:17:12 AM

subtill

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i don't know if someone can understand what i tried to say, short i want only know,which chastity is the best to wear extreamly long, if I have to weare it for example the whole life,if its happened that myself/me be owned real by a lady as her real slave.

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RE: Erectile dysfunction - 8/16/2006 6:17:33 AM

MstrssPassion

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put him in it for a week & then come back & tell us what happened when he was unlocked... I'm sure he won't have the same concern, nor will you

by the way... make sure he doesn't cheat, some have figured out how to slip out of the CB models. They have the optional ring with teeth on it, get that if he figures out how to sneak out of it.

I haven't even heard of problems after extended chastity & personally never had this happen with anyone. The longest I ever placed anyone in chastity was for 30 days without any form of manual release. He experienced seepage from time to time & a heavier flow if I did any form of prostate stimulation (or milking) but no real orgasm in the general sense. He was typically free for a day or 3 & then placed back under lock & key. The only negative I have heard about extended use is that the prostate must be able to purge itself from time to time for health reasons. I don't think it is wise or healthy for anyone to think they can lock someone up & throw away the key.

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RE: Erectile dysfunction - 8/16/2006 6:40:40 AM

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I'd bet that addressing this to a scene-involved physician on the KAP list run by NCSF or through someone who is an actual devout chastity practitioner (Altarboy strikes me as someone who would be readily able to get this answer for you http://www.tpe.com/~altarboy/) might be more productive. I suspect you're going to be mired with personal opinion and heresay from the replies here. (Personal opinion only of course!)

If you run out of options and need for me to reach out to an MD friend of mine in the community (but he's not an ED specialist), please PM me and I'll forward your question.

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RE: Erectile dysfunction - 8/16/2006 6:42:24 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: subtill

i don't know if someone can understand what i tried to say, short i want only know,which chastity is the best to wear extreamly long, if I have to weare it for example the whole life,if its happened that myself/me be owned real by a lady as her real slave.

This is called thread hijacking! Your question might get more attention if you made a new post asking your question, rather than detracting from the Mistress' post on concerns for erectile dysfunction.

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RE: Erectile dysfunction - 8/16/2006 9:16:43 AM

Lashra

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Thank you Ladies for your replies. I think I will proceed with having him wear it a few days and then take it off for a few days until he gets used to it. I don't want him worrying himself into a mental erectile dysfunction problem.

Thanks again!
~Lashra and slutjack

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RE: Erectile dysfunction - 8/16/2006 5:01:50 PM

jonathan

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i've been using CB products, on and off, since 2000, and don't think that, from my extensive research, that a problem would arise. Whether one of the CB products, a Neosteel, a Lori tube, or a Goethals, a proper fit is the most important thing to have to avoid problems with long term wear. There has to be a little 'room to grow' to prevent injury. That is why my CB-2000 is retired and i am now in a Curve since August 4th. i couldn't keep the 2000 on for long term without pain, particularly in the morning. i don't have that problem now. It's a little big, and i might try a CB-3000 later on.

Lashra, You or jack may want to join the CB-3000 Yahoo group. Very active and dedicated to use of that one particular device. i've been a member for a long time, not posting much, but getting a lot of good advice. It's owned by Lady Jester, of www.tickleberry.com. For instance, the hinged A-ring seems to be a problem with long term wear for some, causing chafing and sores at the hinge point. So i just got the new Curve cage last month and continue to use my old CB-2000 solid A-rings. Their parts are interchangeable, any set of A-rings fit any of the three cages. As with the "teeth" mentioned earlier by MstrssPassion. They're called "the Points of Intrigue" on their site. A good training tool.

There are many posts, both anecdotal and purportedly medical, on the subject. From what i can tell, letting it out for a little excercise every few weeks is healthy. Too long may not be the best. Too much of a good thing, as it were.

i will be finding out for myself what the effects of real chastity will be from now on. my Goddess put that lock in place on August 4th.

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RE: Erectile dysfunction - 8/16/2006 9:16:56 PM

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My husband has worn a CB2000 device for about six years pretty much daily. I am not usually the keyholder, but there have been periods where I have helped him with that. You do need to do some research and trial and error in getting the proper fit, of course, but beyond that the device becomes like a second skin for a lot of men.

He has had no long term effects aside from maybe just a little more stretched scrotum (but that could just be age), and indeed no effect on his ability to acheive erection. If anything, chasity makes the ability to become erect stronger because the opportunties are fewer and the man is more "starved" .

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RE: Erectile dysfunction - 8/17/2006 10:42:10 AM

LadyEllen

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Hi subtil

Am besten wurdest du eine Google Suche nach "chastity belt" machen. Den entstehenden Hits werdest du Einzelheiten der Wesbites von verschiedenen Keuschheitsguertel Herstellern bekommen. Fast jeder Hersteller hat auf seiner Website viele Kritiken seiner Produkte, von der Kundschaft geschrieben. Leider sind die Kritiken meistens auf Englisch, aber meiner Erinnerung nach, gibt es auch Kritiken auf Deutsch, am wenigsten bezueglich europaesischen hergestellten Guertel. Hoffentlich findest du dabei die Informationen worauf du suchst.

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Quite what the auto translator will make of that I dont know LOL!

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RE: Erectile dysfunction - 8/17/2006 9:18:37 PM

MaleModel

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Jonathan, you've had it on for 2 weeks now, what's lit like? Does it make you feel more submissive? How long will Godess keep you in it?

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RE: Erectile dysfunction - 8/20/2006 5:19:09 AM

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I agree with MstressPassion. The only problem is his prostate health. If every month you milked his prostate to empty it. He should not have any problems. There are web sites about milking the prostate. If you show him the information on one of these web sites, I think it would put him at ease.

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RE: Erectile dysfunction - 8/20/2006 5:50:41 AM

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Men are constantly and obscessively concerned with whether or not they can 'get it up', any change starts the floodgates. I read a study that said (as we should all know by now) nearly all ED is in the mind, the average go is about 8 viagra to get your confidence back.

Give him the oh, you big caged up stud talk every so often........that should get his head right........

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RE: Erectile dysfunction - 8/21/2006 4:02:29 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MisPandora

I'd bet that addressing this to a scene-involved physician on the KAP list run by NCSF or through someone who is an actual devout chastity practitioner (Altarboy strikes me as someone who would be readily able to get this answer for you http://www.tpe.com/~altarboy/) might be more productive. I suspect you're going to be mired with personal opinion and heresay from the replies here. (Personal opinion only of course!)

I agree. There might be corner cases that are relevant and do not come up in the responses given here.

Cheers,

Sea

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RE: Erectile dysfunction - 8/24/2006 8:54:23 AM

subben75

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Hello

In responce to your question, i have worn a chastity device pretty much permently for 15 years. i now do have erectile disfunction but rarely masturbated, was allowed an erection etc. I also now suffer from extreme premature ejaculation, so yes long term, may be a problem, but maybe after several years.

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RE: Erectile dysfunction - 8/25/2006 8:49:01 AM

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I have worn a CB2000 for week long periods and less. Everytime it comes off, my cock stands up at full attention to Mistress. For me it has solved my ED because I have trouble cumming. It keeps me well behaved and provideds a better responce to stimulation when it is removed.

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