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RE: questions about eye contact - 1/4/2005 4:51:28 PM   
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RE: questions about eye contact - 1/4/2005 4:57:13 PM   
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Were you not making eye contact with the monitor when you typed this?

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RE: questions about eye contact - 1/4/2005 5:03:35 PM   
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RE: questions about eye contact - 1/4/2005 5:05:55 PM   
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RE: questions about eye contact - 1/4/2005 5:11:00 PM   
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Someone unlock her restraints so she cant type please!!

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RE: questions about eye contact - 1/4/2005 5:36:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		Or tie her more securely so she can't reach the keyboard.

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RE: questions about eye contact - 1/4/2005 6:17:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		It's possible that she started to post, left the computer for a bit & has a cat or 'little ones' who are coming in contact with the keyboard while she is not aware. It happens.

Master's cat loves to drink from a fountain which is on the desk here, and in doing so has walked across the keyboard many times (has deleted a file or two, as well as unsaved works in progress even at times when i HAVE been right here at the computer). In fact, i just lifted him down from off of the desk to avoid his interferring with my typing this reply. LOL

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RE: questions about eye contact - 1/4/2005 6:22:18 PM   
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RE: questions about eye contact - 1/4/2005 6:27:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: cynnacent1

It's possible that she started to post, left the computer for a bit & has a cat or 'little ones' who are coming in contact with the keyboard while she is not aware. It happens.

If it only happened once, the cat theory might be a possibility. Three times in reply to three different users? I'm guessing there's no cat involved here.

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RE: questions about eye contact - 1/4/2005 8:09:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		I enjoy eye contact, and my girl enjoys it as well.....but then...I am a Sadist...and if that means I may do something that I might not necessarily enjoy for the sake of causing a girl sweet discomfort...well then...so be it.

I may decide to restrict that eye contact as punishment...as a control measure/training device..or quite simply...to keep a girl just a bit off balance. I enjoy the various looks she may give me...including the look that says, "You just wait until I chew through these straps"...

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RE: questions about eye contact - 1/4/2005 8:52:34 PM   
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I enjoy the various looks she may give me...including the look that says, "You just wait until I chew through these straps"...


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RE: questions about eye contact - 1/4/2005 9:09:41 PM   
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I always make sure they know that while a safeword may stop the action, they might not be cut down untill I think it is safe- for me!


Safeword? Was ist das????
OR are you suggesting that *YOU* need a safewrod Lawrence? *bats eyes*

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RE: questions about eye contact - 1/4/2005 9:20:44 PM   
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RE: questions about eye contact - 1/5/2005 5:54:49 AM   
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Status: offline 		Every once in a while I will give my submissive eye restriction for the weekend. This is more of a game rather than a punishment.

The rule is that everytime he looks me in the eye, he earns one cane stroke. And I am so in his face :)
It becomes a battle of wills and quite funny at times. I do everything I can to trip him up and he gets no peace from me.

I usually end up with 22 to 25 :) which I save till the end of the weekend.

The first time I did this, he thought it would be easy but by the time he earned stroke #12, he realized this was a lot harder then he imagined.

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RE: questions about eye contact - 1/7/2005 11:54:05 AM   
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Status: offline 		I find something like this very exciting. Not being allowed to look at the woman you worship and being punished for doing so. And especially to be punished for looking even though you didn't do so. Because it's her choice to decide .. :)

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ORIGINAL: MsCameron

Every once in a while I will give my submissive eye restriction for the weekend. This is more of a game rather than a punishment.

The rule is that everytime he looks me in the eye, he earns one cane stroke. And I am so in his face :)
It becomes a battle of wills and quite funny at times. I do everything I can to trip him up and he gets no peace from me.

I usually end up with 22 to 25 :) which I save till the end of the weekend.

The first time I did this, he thought it would be easy but by the time he earned stroke #12, he realized this was a lot harder then he imagined.

MsC


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RE: questions about eye contact - 1/7/2005 12:33:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		Just one coment on the cat thing, my cat Maude do this from time to time, step on my keyboard.

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RE: questions about eye contact - 1/7/2005 12:47:29 PM   
ARoseAndAnEye


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Status: offline 		Forgive me if this is off task, but what about eye contact with one's self? Many times, in the middle of a session, Master will bring a large mirror in front of me, commanding me to look into my OWN eys.... sometimes to humiliate me, if he feels I am over-reacting to his ministrations... sometimes to help focus me, if I am having difficulty pulling into myself... sometimes for his mere pleasure and erotica.

Also, being forced to confront a narcissistic side to oneself can be a form of punishment in and of itself.

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RE: questions about eye contact - 1/7/2005 4:34:22 PM   
springrain


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Status: offline 		this was facinating. Master and i have had many discussions about this as i have noticed that there are a fair amout of Masters who specifically dont allow direct eye contact. i love looking into His eyes .. it shows me so much where he is during a scene and what he is feeling. The other positive is that it keeps me conected and does not let me fade away into that space that i dont communicate. If Master uses the blindfold he makes up for the eye contact by using his voice and touch to keep me present and not floating.
thank you for this very interesting and helpful thread.
hanna

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RE: questions about eye contact - 1/7/2005 6:12:47 PM   
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thank you for this very interesting and helpful thread.


Hi Hanna :)

I'm glad you're enjoying the thread. I am finding the range of responses very interesting as well.

Take care,
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RE: questions about eye contact - 1/7/2005 6:29:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		Bingo! IN the military here ..lol. This girl is not permitted eye contact with Master unless a) He tells her to look Him in the eye...which generally means she is in trouble or He is about to tell her something extremely important. b) occassionally Master will make eye contact during sex, but rarely, and she never seeks to break the denuflection herself, it will occur by Him holding Her chin fast suddenly for her to look in His eyes or something the like. And she will echo that looking Master directly in the eye would be considered insolent and challenging His authority. she has never asked why it is required, she just accpeted it as fact.

Someone mentioned sitting on the floor. This girls father is Sihisapa...Black foot Lahkota and her mother and us girls were never permitted to stand before her father did or to stand while He sat or to sit with our heads above His.....again she knows it is practiced in many Native homes but she doesn't know what it stems from either she never asked...just did as told...lol

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