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CrappyDom -> Poor me (8/16/2006 9:54:04 AM)
This site is driving me nuts. In the past I have rarely found people whom I was interested in but had great success in connecting with that select group of women. Here I find a amazing plethora of women who I find interesting and attractive but they all seem to be hundreds of miles away and the few who are local have never responded to my emails. When I ran a group I had access to more women than I wanted but having recently reentered the scene I have found almost nobody I was interested in locally. Craigslist has been of no use, either through running or responding to ads, either with or without a picture. I write a mean ad and again, even without pictures, I used to get somewhat bombarded by responses. I just don't get it, I am wiser, more experienced, more talented and stable than I was before. I guess it could just be the whole running a group thing but then that would make it all not about me, a concept I hate to admit. Anyway, I just had to vent here since I don't seem to find any other place to "vent" anything...

michaelGA2 -> RE: Poor me (8/16/2006 9:57:59 AM)
welcome to the jungle

KatyLied -> RE: Poor me (8/16/2006 10:00:36 AM)
Distance and attraction are inversely related. sorry.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Poor me (8/16/2006 10:07:53 AM)
Something about you just isn't ready yet... Plus you're not poly :)

NastyDaddy -> RE: Poor me (8/16/2006 10:11:07 AM)
Cheer up crappy, you know women love losers, and besides... it can always get worse...

CrappyDom -> RE: Poor me (8/16/2006 10:16:50 AM)
LA, I am normally monogamous but I just don't have the time for a committed relationship and am quite open to almost anything at the moment. Hell I am even reading "The Ethical Slut" a book that was presented to me by the slave of a local lesbian dominant. I have even pushed away a rather stunning woman from Nevada because I don't want to commit to a full time relationship right now so while I am not poly in my core it is what I am doing at the moment. edited to add, something about me is VERY VERY frigging ready.

zumala -> RE: Poor me (8/16/2006 10:22:13 AM)
... Something in your pants, perhaps, Crappy? I thought you weren't looking? And why do something against your interest and nature? If you're a monogamous kinda guy, you should stick to your inclinations. But anyway... I'm sorry that you're frustrated. zuma

Homestead -> RE: Poor me (8/16/2006 10:26:14 AM)
It's times like these that always make me grateful to have porno.[:D] God knows what idioces I would pursue otherwise.

Bearlee -> RE: Poor me (8/16/2006 10:34:10 AM)
Seems to me I've seen your picture and your profile...but it's gone missing! Yes, I understood you not to be looking too. I would say THAT might be your 'problem'...that you stated you weren't ready. Silly one! You're an interesting man...it'll happen when you quit thinking (and stating) you aren't ready. beverly

juliaoceania -> RE: Poor me (8/16/2006 10:35:48 AM)
I do not see how a couple of hundred miles should make a difference for a more casual affair without long term expectations. Perhaps you should cast your net further afield to find someone looking for a more casual and short term fling even if they live a good distance away. After all, the distance could help keep things more to the level of commitment you desire in a play partner. I set my sights within the state of California, because I knew the likelihood I would find what I needed local were slim, and it worked for me in my present situation. In your situation it might work since you are not looking for either relocation or a serious connection. Just some thoughts

mnottertail -> RE: Poor me (8/16/2006 10:41:32 AM)
Hey, Crapster... Set yourself up as the bumpsenmeister to women wanting to get out for the day under the huber law, or whatever it's called in your state. When they go to workin' on your last nerve, you can get them cross-wise with the jailer without too much trouble. Ron

PlayfulOne -> RE: Poor me (8/16/2006 10:42:42 AM)
Crappy, Did you consult Delray and get an ok to create a venting post? On a serious note maybe the problem is that you are so ready. Relax , roll with flow, and things will take their course. K

proudsub -> RE: Poor me (8/16/2006 11:06:28 AM)
Maybe it's your name Crappy, no one wants a crappy dom.[:D]

michaelGA2 -> RE: Poor me (8/16/2006 11:17:46 AM)
isn't it odd how a Dom can express the same things a sub can and it's not whining...hmmm go figure, huh?

gooddogbenji -> RE: Poor me (8/16/2006 11:26:30 AM)
Maybe it's because he's a well respected poster already who's whining for the first time after 1100 posts? And it's still whining, but, I would think, knowing Crappy, slightly tongue in cheek. I will, however, whine that you're whining that his whining aint whining, but yours is whining. Yours, benji

michaelGA2 -> RE: Poor me (8/16/2006 11:27:42 AM)
but if whining is whining, then the whiner is whining as much as past whiners whine...LOL

happypervert -> RE: Poor me (8/16/2006 11:32:47 AM)
quote: I just don't get it, I am wiser, more experienced, more talented and stable than I was before. All of that may be the problem. I suggest that you forget what you know, read a few books by John Norman and then incorporate your newfound knowledge in all communications with the objects of your desire. Soon enough you'll be up to your eyeballs in babes, and you will owe me big time.

mistoferin -> RE: Poor me (8/16/2006 11:34:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: happypervert quote: I just don't get it, I am wiser, more experienced, more talented and stable than I was before. All of that may be the problem. I suggest that you forget what you know, read a few books by John Norman and then incorporate your newfound knowledge in all communications with the objects of your desire. Soon enough you'll be up to your eyeballs in babes, and you will owe me big time. Priceless!!!!

popeye1250 -> RE: Poor me (8/16/2006 11:34:54 AM)
Crappy, I think that if you want to be in this site as it IS a National site you have to be willing to travel. I stated in my profile that I'm available to travel anywhere in the country. Also that I'd be willing to split up half the time at my place, half the time at a submissive's place. You HAVE to be more flexable I think in this situation.

Bearlee -> RE: Poor me (8/16/2006 11:35:16 AM)
ROFLMAO... Now THAT was funny!!!

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