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DelRey -> RE: Meeting my first domme tomorrow - give me some advice on how to act. (8/16/2006 8:25:11 PM)

Make sure your skirt is not tucked in your underwear



cloudboy -> RE: Meeting my first domme tomorrow - give me some advice on how to act. (8/16/2006 9:42:41 PM)


Try to pattern yourself after Otter in Animal House.

[in the supermarket vegetable section]

Eric 'Otter' Stratton: Mine's bigger.

Marion Wormer: [looks questioningly at him]

Eric 'Otter' Stratton: My cucumber. It's bigger.

Eric 'Otter' Stratton: I think vegetables can be very sensuous, don't you?

Marion Wormer: No, vegetables are sensual. People are sensuous.

Eric 'Otter' Stratton: Right. Sensual. That's what I meant. My name's Eric Stratton. People call me Otter.



Arpig -> RE: Meeting my first domme tomorrow - give me some advice on how to act. (8/17/2006 12:52:52 AM)

Say please and thank you.



SusanofO -> RE: Meeting my first domme tomorrow - give me some advice on how to act. (8/17/2006 12:56:30 AM)

Yeah, that's it. What cloudboy said (what a great movie. A true classic).

You could also be Benjamin, and she could be Mrs. Robinson...

Benjamin: "Are you seducing me, Mrs. Robinson?"

Mrs. Robinson: "Yes, Benjamin, I am"

...actually, I forget what exactly Mrs. Robinson said after Benjamin asked this question - But - we all know what she did, don't we?...and that's what really counts - have fun![:D]

- Susan 



Angrylibrarian -> RE: Meeting my first domme tomorrow - give me some advice on how to act. (8/17/2006 9:25:32 AM)

 I suggest.

"Back to back drop it down real low
I'm such a lady but I'm dancing like a ho
Because you know what, I don't give a f***
So here we go!"
Lyrics: Fergie - London Bridge [Artist Lyrics]




NastyDaddy -> RE: Meeting my first domme tomorrow - give me some advice on how to act. (8/17/2006 11:41:44 AM)

If you are in a vanilla setting, dress and act to blend in as you discuss your personal involvement privately.

Relax and just be yourself... demonstrate to the Domme what you have to offer.

Observe courtesy and don't forget to turn your cell phone off during your meet.

Pick up the tab, tip well and don't overly flirt with the server.

Good luck





darkinshadows -> RE: Meeting my first domme tomorrow - give me some advice on how to act. (8/17/2006 11:48:41 AM)

Just be yourself - don't try and just impress but be true to yourself and just treat it like any other 'date' or meeting.
 
Peace and Rapture



soldierfunuk -> RE: Meeting my first domme tomorrow - give me some advice on how to act. (8/17/2006 1:11:28 PM)

Don't be late !!!



MisPandora -> RE: Meeting my first domme tomorrow - give me some advice on how to act. (8/17/2006 5:06:08 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ABeric

Well, I'm having my first ever meeting with a domme tomorrow at a local cafe/bistro type place. I'm totally clueless on how I should handle it - should I handle it like a blind date? Like I'm just meeting a friend? Should I bring up the sex stuff right away, or talk about other parts of out lives first?

Any advice would be appreciated!

She's the dom.  Allow her to drive the meet.

Clearly, blurting out sex in a bistro, much less doing it there might get you a punch in the face or the non-consensual introduction to a cop's handcuffs.  I generally advise against that on a first date LOL



popeye1250 -> RE: Meeting my first domme tomorrow - give me some advice on how to act. (8/17/2006 5:17:44 PM)

LOL, he's probably tied to her bed right now getting the 'Be-Jasus beaten out of him with a cane by this Domme!
LOL "Hit me with that rythem stick!"



Sunshine119 -> RE: Meeting my first domme tomorrow - give me some advice on how to act. (8/17/2006 5:20:19 PM)

Ok, a few tips that I always thought were important:

Don't bite or pick at your nails

Make sure you use the proper utensils for your food

Chew your food with your mouth closed

Use good manners

(BTW, these are some of the things I looked for in my vanilla relationships as well.....they can be instanteous turn offs)





mnottertail -> RE: Meeting my first domme tomorrow - give me some advice on how to act. (8/17/2006 5:23:46 PM)

LOL, you guys kill me...........

He is meeting her and been there for awhile now, now you come out with the big guns.....don't pick your ass and shit.........

Gawd, Del........I hope he don't tuck his diaper in his skirt.......(that was valuable advice)

Ron



mons -> RE: Meeting my first domme tomorrow - give me some advice on how to act. (8/18/2006 1:07:32 AM)

greetings
 
now she is a woman too as well as a domme my gosh man woman love flower, perfume candy chocolate mmm no lord no now sex toys you moving to fast. honey be you and bring someone she would like what did you say it would be remember be you the person she spoke to the one who is taking in consideration as her submissive and relax she will like the shy part of you something small rose are nivce but no sex toys that would be crazy oh there will be a chance to bring that soon enough now good luck
 
mons



Chloelicious -> RE: Meeting my first domme tomorrow - give me some advice on how to act. (8/18/2006 2:10:52 AM)

ABeric

Nothing more to say that what almost everyone told you, treat it easy  like a  friendly meeting.

I hope that the "domme" will not being  as perverted as Mine when i met Him. We (as you will do ) met in a bistro in my City, it was my first dom/sub encounter.i've answered before meeting my "BDSM list". We were going through it and everytime the waiter passes us by, He (my master) was shouting words like: Sucking, whip, etc it was very embarrassing, so embarrasing that after this meeting I thought about now seeing Him NEVER EVER but a few weeks later, i gave Him a second chance and Now we are together (i m collared) since 4 years.Happy ever after.

All this not to worry you about this meeting (if i did worry you , it was not my point) but to tell you that even if it s going not as well as you wish, it s not a very big deal, let it settled for a while before making your final decision.

Tell Us how it works and good luck
Chloé



LotusSong -> RE: Meeting my first domme tomorrow - give me some advice on how to act. (8/18/2006 6:53:34 AM)

SO HOW DID IT GO?????



twicehappy -> RE: Meeting my first domme tomorrow - give me some advice on how to act. (8/18/2006 8:48:21 AM)

Show up!



gooddogbenji -> RE: Meeting my first domme tomorrow - give me some advice on how to act. (8/18/2006 9:27:09 AM)

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!
Felt good to get that out.
 
Yours,
 
 
benji



wandersalone -> RE: Meeting my first domme tomorrow - give me some advice on how to act. (8/18/2006 9:41:33 AM)

hmmmmm no sign of Aberic, wonder how the meeting with the Domme went. Did either of them get celery stuck between their teeth or decide to discuss politics only to find that they have diametrically opposing beliefs? Please put us.... well ok, me.... out of my misery, post an update.  I do hope it went well for you.

wanders who is wondering.... grins



cybergoddess -> RE: Meeting my first domme tomorrow - give me some advice on how to act. (8/19/2006 8:40:38 AM)

 i   know  a  true  subissive when they already  have a  envolope with nice  card  and     complenting the  mistress. + it' is customary to  also  have   the  mistress;s  trubute placed  in the   card as  soon  as  possable.   hopfully the surprizing  the  mistress before   any  questions  are  asked  .   a gift is  resonable  gift is also  a compliment to your mistress . with  this  advise i can almost garrentee your session  will be  a succesful 
let me kmow if  my  training  helps 
with  all   respect
cybergoddess



Owned1 -> RE: Meeting my first domme tomorrow - give me some advice on how to act. (8/19/2006 8:42:48 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: cybergoddess

i   know  a  true  subissive when they already  have a  envolope with nice  card  and     complenting the  mistress. + it' is customary to  also  have   the  mistress;s  trubute placed  in the   card as  soon  as  possable.   hopfully the surprizing  the  mistress before   any  questions  are  asked  .   a gift is  resonable  gift is also  a compliment to your mistress . with  this  advise i can almost garrentee your session  will be  a succesful 
let me kmow if  my  training  helps 
with  all   respect
cybergoddess


He did not mention anything of meeting a Pro Domme.  There are those who are actually in this not just for the money but for the relationship and possibility of the future together

Owned



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