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tosubmit2u -> Shoe Worship (8/16/2006 8:15:31 PM)

I'd like to ask an opinion of the dominant ladies. I have a fetish to worship the shoes of dominant ladies. I have a foot fetish also, which I know is not too uncommon, but my shoe fetish is stronger. I don't desire wearing women's shoes, but desire to kiss and tounge clean all types of shoes, soles included. Is this an unusual desire? Also how do dominant ladies feel about having their shoes worshipped?  




Misstoyou -> RE: Shoe Worship (8/16/2006 8:32:04 PM)

My submissive is a boot bitch. I love the feel of his tongue through the leather. BUT he is so much more than that. It's safe to say that your fetish will not be enough to interest a lifestyle Domme. {shudders at the memory of having a cup of coffee with a shoe guy, having to repeatedly tell him to look *up*. lol}




formenteralady -> RE: Shoe Worship (8/16/2006 11:15:56 PM)

My experince is that this is a really common fetish.




IndigoDadesi -> RE: Shoe Worship (8/16/2006 11:26:07 PM)

Just dont STEAL their shoes...now THATS an undesirable fetish...

Id like a slave that was into cleaning my shoes for real...oh, and the other stuff you said.




LadyEllen -> RE: Shoe Worship (8/17/2006 2:52:40 AM)

Hi tosubmit

I think the answer is in your question - its not the shoes that interest you so much as the Lady who wears them? For instance, were they brand new unworn shoes in a shop, do they still motivate you - or would it be the image of the Lady who might purchase them I wonder?

In my experience, "vanilla" women hate the idea of a guy worshipping their shoes - but at the same time the amount they spend on them and the range they give themselves to wear, its pretty apparent that they know how important shoes are to many men. Its also noteworthy that they will welcome a foot massage. What this indicates to me is that even the most reserved women are aware of the power of their feet and shoes - they just dont want to think that they are the only reason you desire them.

My advice would be to worship the Lady first - you cant really go wrong then.
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Sylverdawn -> RE: Shoe Worship (8/17/2006 2:53:55 AM)

Very common... I had a guy wanted to *u*k my shoes.. rub his *o*k btwn them to orgasm... was a bit odd but not really offensive.




Nikolette -> RE: Shoe Worship (8/17/2006 4:17:14 AM)

Feet, most common in my opinion...

Shoes... somewhat less

Watching a slave lick the BOTTOM of my boots I have mixed feelings about... Like... I would probably only leave this to one of whom I felt like really degrading, and definitely save it for last so that his filthy tongue wouldn't touch my person.




TNstepsout -> RE: Shoe Worship (8/17/2006 4:52:30 AM)

I love shoes so it sounds great. Although some shoes don't hold up well to licking. I've been kidding around that I need a shoe slave to follow me through the store carrying my boxes so my hands can be free to try on more shoes.




littlesarbonn -> RE: Shoe Worship (8/17/2006 6:55:47 AM)

I could be submissive to a pair of shoes, but they'd have to be a really dominant pair of shoes. In my experience, most shoes tend to just sit there and stare back at me, almost giving off an air of indifference to me. Now, while some submissives may be into the whole indifference thing, the shoes that I worship need to interact with me in some way, and that means at least to bark out an order every now and then. But most won't. They're really stubborn that way, and they seem to believe that their way is the only way to serve them, and it just pisses me off. I mean, I'm willing to do anything for them, but all they do is just sit there and stare at me. I mean, I could go to Payless Shoe Stores and buy a similar pair of shoes (for half off), and they also won't interact with me, meaning that in order to really get my juices going, that dominant pair of shoes better be freaking dominant, or we're just wasting time here. Oh yeah, the black booted shoes think they got it all going and all that, but I'll let you in on a little secret: They aren't any more dominant than a submissive pair of fluffy shoes. It's true. I've tested them, and almost always (well, there was that one time when I hit my head and the fluffy shoes dominated me, but that's wasn't really consentual at the time) they're not interactive.

Now sandals do it for me. I mean these are the kind of shoes that just stand there and announce to all the world: "I'm a shoe, but I'm not covering up crap!" That's a dominant pair of shoes. But even then, it just ends up being more about looks, and if there's no personality to back them up, a hot pair of shoes just isn't going to fulfill my needs.

Just once, I want to meet a pair of shoes with a graduate degree, who listens to opera. That's the kind of shoe that could clearly own me. I'd say more but the nurses say I need to take my medication now.




MzTlaz -> RE: Shoe Worship (8/17/2006 7:14:15 AM)

*Chuckles*

Yes..it would be an extreme fetish to be into the unworn shoes I think...but hey, if that does it for you then it's really easy for you to be the happiest puppy on the planet.

I can enjoy having my shoes worshipped but the submissive doing the worship must really be into it, it can't be one of those "Mistresses are supposed to like this" deals.  And I do know a certain sub who gets into it enough that it turns me on....but that's all about the eye contact while he's doing his worship.




ShiftedJewel -> RE: Shoe Worship (8/17/2006 7:17:25 AM)

(fast reply)

When we bought this house we took the smallest bedroom and turned it into a walkin closet... and we took the closet in that room and put shelves in it specifically for my shoes, it worked out great for a while, now I either need to add more shelves or (perish the thought) get rid of some shoes....  I don't like cleaning them or anything like that... but does that equate to a shoe fetish??
 
Jewel




WhiteRadiance -> RE: Shoe Worship (8/17/2006 8:14:19 AM)

Hey tosub-
 
Yes a shoe fetish is fairly common.  My slave is a shoe/foot slut. 
 
While it is understandable to admire something that is beautiful, it is much more pleasing (for me personally) to know that I am the object of worship, moreso than an object. 
 
Otherwise, you could just get old shoes from any source and lick away to your contented delight. 
 
No Mistress wants a slave who is so inclined, IMHO.
 
 




Sylverdawn -> RE: Shoe Worship (8/17/2006 10:23:36 AM)

We have a rule in our house.. because of job situation we move frequently..My hubby refuses to carry more than three totes full of shoes out of the house.. so you buy a pair  you loose a pair.. I tend to have a lot of uhmmm.. storage shed shoes that I throw out and carry the extra totes myself.




MisPandora -> RE: Shoe Worship (8/17/2006 4:18:52 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: IndigoDadesi

Just dont STEAL their shoes...now THATS an undesirable fetish...

I just had a rather unpleasant Something About Mary moment with her finding out that Woogie was stealing her shoes.....LOL




joyinslavery -> RE: Shoe Worship (8/17/2006 4:23:02 PM)

I love to perform shoe worship - so long as they are 1 of 5 (designer) brands. 

Lamely edited to add the word 'designer'. 





tosubmit2u -> RE: Shoe Worship (8/18/2006 10:41:39 AM)

That was some really great insight, and you are 100% right, I don't feel much desire for a new pair of shoes in a store but rather when being worn. As a matter of fact, shoes with signs of wear attract me more than those looking brand new. Thank you so much for your insightful thoughts.




tosubmit2u -> RE: Shoe Worship (8/18/2006 10:45:54 AM)

I'd love to spend a weekend in that extra bedroom!




ShiftedJewel -> RE: Shoe Worship (8/18/2006 6:02:23 PM)

I'm not sure if you would... it's now a closet.. no windows at all... but lots of floor space... sort of.
 
Hey, someone wants to come and clean all my shoes and boots... who am I to complain... lol
 
Jewel




leatherlick -> RE: Shoe Worship (8/21/2006 6:58:06 AM)

I love to lick boots. I also like to be touched by leather gloves.  It is very similar.  The point is, I have actually talked about this in therapy,   it is a nintimacy issue.  You feel as though you are unworthy to touch the dominant person unless it is to bring them pleasure.  And what better way to experience your inferiority than to do something soo lowly as to lick the dirt off of their footwear, or better yet, to lick the dirt from the bottom of their footwear.

I get it. 




LadyAlexa -> RE: Shoe Worship (8/22/2006 3:58:28 PM)

Too funny.. Thanks for making me smile.  hmmm I do have blue fluffy slippers that are very Domly.  My sandals sometimes squeek but love the fresh breeze.

Alexa

quote:

ORIGINAL: littlesarbonn

I could be submissive to a pair of shoes, but they'd have to be a really dominant pair of shoes. In my experience, most shoes tend to just sit there and stare back at me, almost giving off an air of indifference to me. Now, while some submissives may be into the whole indifference thing, the shoes that I worship need to interact with me in some way, and that means at least to bark out an order every now and then. But most won't. They're really stubborn that way, and they seem to believe that their way is the only way to serve them, and it just pisses me off. I mean, I'm willing to do anything for them, but all they do is just sit there and stare at me. I mean, I could go to Payless Shoe Stores and buy a similar pair of shoes (for half off), and they also won't interact with me, meaning that in order to really get my juices going, that dominant pair of shoes better be freaking dominant, or we're just wasting time here. Oh yeah, the black booted shoes think they got it all going and all that, but I'll let you in on a little secret: They aren't any more dominant than a submissive pair of fluffy shoes. It's true. I've tested them, and almost always (well, there was that one time when I hit my head and the fluffy shoes dominated me, but that's wasn't really consentual at the time) they're not interactive.

Now sandals do it for me. I mean these are the kind of shoes that just stand there and announce to all the world: "I'm a shoe, but I'm not covering up crap!" That's a dominant pair of shoes. But even then, it just ends up being more about looks, and if there's no personality to back them up, a hot pair of shoes just isn't going to fulfill my needs.

Just once, I want to meet a pair of shoes with a graduate degree, who listens to opera. That's the kind of shoe that could clearly own me. I'd say more but the nurses say I need to take my medication now.





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