shivvy -> RE: Say two things kind about yourself (8/17/2006 5:04:29 AM)
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ORIGINAL: RavenMuse Bluntly honest (Some don't seem to see this in quite as good a light, usualy when they have been on the recieving end of it) When someone is talking to me I LISTEN. Many people don't really listen, they tend to hear what they want to hear. Friends often find I've heard more than they think they said, understood their problem clearer.... because I don't just listen to the words, but how they are said, what their expression is, what their body language is saying, etc. Years of working with residents who couldn't communicate well with words means I don't just rely on words when I 'listen'. my mum says god give us 2 ears and 1 mouth for a reason... we are ment to listen twice as much as we talk... i'd like to think i woz a good listener, and pisces are often said to be the words best listeners[;)]
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