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twicehappy -> RE: Excuse me. (8/20/2006 3:55:01 AM)
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ORIGINAL: justheather
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Why would a Domme want to give someone she really likes or loves, pain?
Because for some people, the giving over of oneself/taking of another in such a manner is a form of lovemaking
Beautifully put, yes, lovemaking, how simply yet powerfully true.
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ORIGINAL: cynthiamarie
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Why would a Domme want to give someone she really likes or loves, pain?
Because we like the sound of the impact of floggers or paddles on their skin?
Because the marks look beautiful...leaving our mark can provoke passionate thoughts
The heat rising up off the skin is nice to touch and absorb?
Because the flinching is almost hypnotic?
The changed breathing is like music?
Because that drugged look of subspace really gets to me?
Because if he cares for me and wants to give something of himself to me, it becomes a spiritual thing, not just a generic topping/bottoming scene.
With someone I care for, when I left welts on him from upper back to almost his knees, I felt much more bonded with him. We both felt pride in his marks and were rueful when they disappeared 3 or 4 days later.
Am i the only one who needed a cold shower after this post?
You describe the connection and deeper levels of this sort of mental and physical intimacy in an almost hypnotically erotic fashion.
For all of us here in this house this connection, this love, this heat is what drives our M/M/s physical encounters. I could not imagine Jewel reaching for or touching some one she did not have this bond with, she must trust and care for, if not love the one she shares her passion with. As for Scooter i can honestly say he would not scene with some one he did not love. It is the look in my eyes, that helpless loving devotion, that melting of my emotions that drives his arousal, not hyper active genitalia.
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