juliaoceania -> RE: Here is MY deal (8/19/2006 12:19:11 PM)
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So Denise what would you have done if you were slandered in a public forum? Sit there? I have been slandered before, I lived in a small town and as long as it did not affect my livelihood I learned not to care. Slander away, people who know me will not believe it, people who do I do not care about. I rise above such things, hold my head high, and I do not waste my energy. quote:
If a bully smacks you.....are you just going to take it? If I can stay away from the bully I am going to, if I can't I will defend myself. There is nothing about an online conflict that I need to escalate to defend myself. quote:
ME? I got over being SMACKED long ago. I snippered and hid like a dog getting kicked. Where the fuck did that get me? Absoluty nowhere. There is a difference between taking abuse and escalating a conflict. I am sorry that you mistake every conflict as something you have to stand up to rather than picking battles wisely. I share much in common with you.. I was abused by my spouse )physically, sexually, and emotionally), I suffer from PTSD, and I have a phobia. I am not a victim. I read you and you read like an angry victim.. PTSD, depression, anxiety are not only about fear, they are about anger and control also. You are exhibiting some control issues here..and that you are angry I have no question. I would think about why you are really reacting to situations the way you are, because on this and the thread in Gen Discussion, it seems that you are way more emotionally invested than I would consider healthy.
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