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LotusSong -> RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingerie for females? (8/21/2006 7:31:23 AM)

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ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant


About the only thing I won't allow is the long night shirt and socks, unless the submissive is not feeling well.  That is a real good indicator that she would really prefer that nothing happen and, in fact, it might be better for my health (due to her contagious nature) to plan on sleeping wayyyyyy over on my side of the bed.


Damn..you're a tough one!  I ALWAYS wear sox!  Those stripped knee sox with the little toes are soooo sweet :)  LOL!  (just  kidding.. However, I do insist on the Micky  Mouse ears )




stockingluvr54 -> RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingerie for females? (8/21/2006 9:36:46 AM)

My favorite subject! Here goes....  Not a big fan of much of anything Victorias Secret has to offer (zzzzzzzzzz). I like a woman to dress up in garterbelt/stockings....REAL stockings....no phony thigh highs or lace tops! RHT or Full fashion stockings are the sexiest.....period! (imho)

I'm pretty biased on underwear cause it's a fetish for me. I like it to look like underwear (whites and tans or black)....something that's NOT supposed to be seen....unlike fuckerwear or sexy lace stuff which is supposed to be seen...??? The excitement for me is to be teased by maybe catching just a glimpse of a tan stocking top held up with a white garterbelt when that skirt gets hiked up abit? To see something that you're not supposed to see? Does that make any sense? Kinda like the old timey stuff from 50's....more underwear than lingerie?

Also like the rest....sheer teddies,babydolls, girdles, skimpy sheer panties,etc. but gb/stockings is my #1 fetish and I'd crawl on my hands and knees thru hot coals and eat broken glass and then stand on my head and stack BB's  for a woman that actually ENJOYS wearing the stuff! YEEEOOOW!

Don't mind wearing the stuff too once in awhile.... lmao!




PairOfDimes -> RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingerie for females? (8/21/2006 11:00:09 AM)

Speaking as a woman who likes women, show me a really good pair of black stockings with seams and opaque heels, and I'm not sure I'm going to look much farther.

Otherwise, I like opaque fabrics with visible structure, sometimes with lace overlay or detail. Many vintage pieces, corsets, and longline bras fit in here. For current stuff, maybe Agent Provocateur's Kabaret bra? I'm not quite sure what to do about panties--I like a fairly full, mid-rise cut with a high leg opening. Some of the new 'tanga' shorts fit in here, I guess, but I would rather they weren't made of lace.

I love chemises and gowns, too, but so many of them don't have seaming to accentuate the waist, so on women with full breasts and narrow waists, they frequently hang loose from the chest down and camouflage, rather than cover, the torso. They also tend to offer very little support to the breasts--if anyone knows of a tailored gown with a bra of sorts built in, let me know!

Monica




LaTigresse -> RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingerie for females? (8/21/2006 11:19:18 AM)

Interesting topic, near and dear to my little black heart. Partially naked women in expensive bits of silk and lace.

My first girlfriend had a way of looking wicked sexy in shorts and a itty bitty tank top with her hair in a pony tail. She could go from total scrubbed jeans and tshirt look or drop dead sexy silk charmeuse slip dress and heels with nothing on underneath but perfume, and every thing inbetween. Lots of pretty bits of lace and silk. Her body was very petite, 5'2" and curvy, usually around 110# of sassy wench. Everything looked wonderful on her.

My second was tall, 5'10" very thin and a model. Sometimes too thin. I often prefered her in things that had more horizontal lines to add visual substance, especially when she was doing runway work. Fortunately she loves pretty things and has great access to the best.

For myself, I love sexy things when I have reason to wear them. Unfortunately my life being what it is now, I tend towards comfort and function. I love Victoria's Secrets but their bras do not fit me, only the undies. If I want pretty lacey bras I have to get them special order because of my size. If no one is going to see them, no sense in spending the $$.




LaTigresse -> RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingerie for females? (8/21/2006 11:20:27 AM)

I hit the wrong damned button.




Vancouver_cinful -> RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingerie for females? (8/21/2006 11:50:15 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

To the guys:

After we get all dressed up and in the fantasy lingere... about how long do you estimate it stays on  us once you spot it :)?


My first dom used to make me so annoyed. I was just getting into buying and wearing sexy lingerie, and I'd buy something, and be excited all week to show him...

I'd get to his place on the weekend, strip down to my beautiful new sexies, and he'd glance at them, say "That's nice...Now, take it off."

Then my pretty new things would lie on the couch for the rest of the weekend, ignored. I'm an exhibitionist. Showing it off is all part of what makes me happy.

I like lingerie, feel sexy in it, spend more than I should on it, and just for 5 seconds of enjoyment? [:@]




CreativeDominant -> RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingerie for females? (8/21/2006 12:38:34 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong

To the guys:

After we get all dressed up and in the fantasy lingere... about how long do you estimate it stays on  us once you spot it :)?

There are soooooooooooo many answers to that, Lotus.  [&:]




CreativeDominant -> RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingerie for females? (8/21/2006 12:43:53 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Vancouver_cinful

quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong

To the guys:

After we get all dressed up and in the fantasy lingere... about how long do you estimate it stays on  us once you spot it :)?


My first dom used to make me so annoyed. I was just getting into buying and wearing sexy lingerie, and I'd buy something, and be excited all week to show him...

I'd get to his place on the weekend, strip down to my beautiful new sexies, and he'd glance at them, say "That's nice...Now, take it off."

Then my pretty new things would lie on the couch for the rest of the weekend, ignored. I'm an exhibitionist. Showing it off is all part of what makes me happy.

I like lingerie, feel sexy in it, spend more than I should on it, and just for 5 seconds of enjoyment? [:@]


Yeah...but sometimes those five seconds are the longest in your life as a dominant right then because you've bought an outfit that makes all the hidden parts that much more enticing...so enticing that the dominant wants to get to them now. 

Of course, in all seriousness...the sadistic part of me could think of ways to make the submissive want all that stuff gone and it just...stays where it is.  [&:]

Or there is just the nice simple appreciation of...and use of the submissive in...the worn lingerie. (see...I can be sweet)




popeye1250 -> RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingerie for females? (8/21/2006 1:24:00 PM)

Oh yeah, long black stockings, high heels and leather garter belts are WAY up on my list of favorite things!
I also like different color stockings as well, dark blue, red, white, purple, etc.
And half bras that hold the breasts up but allow the nipples to be visable are very nice too.




QuietDom -> RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingerie for females? (8/21/2006 1:31:56 PM)

One class of sexy lingerie that hasn't been mentioned yet is the dirt-cheap class.  You know, flimsy, poorly constructed stuff from the discount store, that can't stand up to more than a couple of washes.  It can be sexier than the classy, higher-quality stuff for one specific purpose -- it can be cut off or torn off the wearer without hesitation.




SusanofO -> RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingerie for females? (8/21/2006 2:20:13 PM)

Good point, QuietDom!

- Susan




popeye1250 -> RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingerie for females? (8/21/2006 2:30:21 PM)

Quiet Dom, yes the cheap "3 for $5" panties can be worn for that "Floozie" look and be ripped right off! lol




SusanofO -> RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingerie for females? (8/21/2006 3:14:37 PM)

LotusSong brought up knee socks with toes in them. That makes me wonder if there are Doms out there who think some underwear or night clothes are sexy that maybe nobody traditionally thinks of as sexy. The man's shirt might be an example, but too many men love that look to consider it off-beat, I think....

- Susan




popeye1250 -> RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingerie for females? (8/21/2006 4:10:01 PM)

Susan, yes there's those form fitting stretchy pajamas that are nice I think. They're "form fitting" like a dancer's outfit is the only way I can describe them. They outline the ass in a very nice way.




SusanofO -> RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingerie for females? (8/21/2006 4:11:44 PM)

Well. Okay, now we know. Personally, I like men's t-shirts, too, as well as their dress shirts. They are comfy. My first Dominant thought they were sexy (probably because they were his)...

- Susan




DiurnalVampire -> RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingerie for females? (8/21/2006 4:13:31 PM)

Personally, I like a girl in tap pants, or a matched panty/camisole set.  Depending on the legs, I like thigh high stockings, but I detest pantyhose.  they are just so unattractive
Strangely enough, I like boys in the same outfits... but thats for another thread

DV




popeye1250 -> RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingerie for females? (8/21/2006 4:17:46 PM)

Yes, men's tee shirts too and wearing a pair of panties under them!
That's a very sexy look for wearing around the house too!




obis -> RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingerie for females? (8/22/2006 1:40:01 AM)

In the category of "offbeat", i think a girl wearing long flannel underwear with a trap door could be mighty sexy around the fireplace. And the trap door would be handy [:)]

The rainbow socks with toes can be good in the right "student staying after to talk to teacher" kind of way.




SusanofO -> RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingerie for females? (8/22/2006 1:47:35 AM)

You know, obis, I've seen and heard about these "trap door" flannel jammies for years now...in cartoons, and references to them in books, etc. - but I've never seen a place that actually sells them. If you know of a place, or find one by chance, would 'ya tell me? I am serious - they do sound kind of sexy to me, too.

- Susan




Kedicat -> RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingerie for females? (8/22/2006 1:55:35 AM)

Although the fancy lingerie is wonderful a lot of the time.
I think My favorite outfit is a just a bit short Tshirt. A little above crotch and ass cheek level. With or without panties. I don't include thong as panties. Either nothing or nice silky or white cotton panties that have the nice diagonal line curving along the cheek.

When lingerie is worn....stockings, garter, panties, no bra or just the under the tit bra that lifts and offers but does not obstruct much.

Colour optional, but white or red is good.





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