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RavenMuse -> RE: I'm Going Crazy! (8/22/2006 7:37:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RavenMuse To the OP. You submitted to it, stick to it... the fact that it isn't easy is part of what makes it enjoyable. Maybe focus on the pleasure you are bringing him will help you through. When the two of you are together, let it show, beg. If he doesn't want you to do so then he will tell you, but let him know just how difficult you are finding it... he MAY choose to do something about it... or he may just enjoy your struggle, either way you bring him pleasure [:)] [:D][:D][:D] I just LOVE synchronisity[:D][:D][:D] Less than 30 minutes after posting that I get a message from My girl complaining about being SO HORNY when Master is over 20 miles away[:D][:D][:D][:D][:D] I enjoy knowing it and even more enjoy the fact that it is My decision when or even IF anything can be done about it. My girl just made Me smile [:)]

Miseri -> RE: I'm Going Crazy! (8/22/2006 8:03:04 AM)
quote: This is a wonderful tool in discipline and focus if you take the time to develop the skills and stop dwelling on the physical discomfort. I have always experienced some form of sexual restriction and found great pleasure in doing so. I endure teasing on a daily basis at unsuspecting moments. But I take comfort in knowing that my angst brings satisfaction to someone else. When I find myself skittish or very aroused I merely center my thoughts and redirect them towards something less enticing. I always follow with a reminder that this is for him and envision his smile as well. You already possess the capacity to do these things. In life we learn that we cannot have what we desire when the mood strikes. Just apply the same theories and concepts to your situation and you'll be just fine. Good luck! porcelaine THANK you, porcelaine! This is the most thought out and useful answer so far. I had initially posted this on the first night when it was just horribly distracting, but it has gotten easier. I've gotten used to the fact that he will torment and tease me during a commercial break but that I have to focus on the movie when it resumes, or go to sleep or whatever it is he wants me to do. I am also focusing my efforts on really behaving and pleasing him because it is also a distraction. I really think it will do exactly what I was hoping: deepen my level of submission and his level of control, create a delicious tension between us and enable us to later on work on various forms of orgasm control. Thanks for the supportive words!

Miseri -> RE: I'm Going Crazy! (8/22/2006 8:04:29 AM)
Thank you twice happy!!! That helps also!

Miseri -> RE: I'm Going Crazy! (8/22/2006 8:07:00 AM)
Thank you so much Suzanne. I really do want to learn and grow for him, and you hit the nail right on the head. I have a really really really strong libido that could get me into trouble someday...seriously. I've masturbated in public restrooms, in my car in the parking lot.... so while this is really hard, it's really good for me, too!

Miseri -> RE: I'm Going Crazy! (8/22/2006 8:08:42 AM)
That sounds like a really bad idea, acting like I'm not turned on to force his hand. Topping from the bottom really pisses him off.

Mavis -> RE: I'm Going Crazy! (8/22/2006 9:06:14 AM)
i had a chuckle at the tease angle, bending in the right skirt.. i can just see Him taking you up on the subtle offer, and STILL not being allowed your own release! LOL [sm=ofcourse.gif] (file under: Be careful what you wish for, you might just get it.)

LotusSong -> RE: I'm Going Crazy! (8/22/2006 9:15:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RavenMuse quote: ORIGINAL: RavenMuse To the OP. You submitted to it, stick to it... the fact that it isn't easy is part of what makes it enjoyable. Maybe focus on the pleasure you are bringing him will help you through. When the two of you are together, let it show, beg. If he doesn't want you to do so then he will tell you, but let him know just how difficult you are finding it... he MAY choose to do something about it... or he may just enjoy your struggle, either way you bring him pleasure [:)] [:D][:D][:D] I just LOVE synchronisity[:D][:D][:D] Less than 30 minutes after posting that I get a message from My girl complaining about being SO HORNY when Master is over 20 miles away[:D][:D][:D][:D][:D] I enjoy knowing it and even more enjoy the fact that it is My decision when or even IF anything can be done about it. My girl just made Me smile [:)] Tell her you are now 25 miles away :)

Mercnbeth -> RE: I'm Going Crazy! (8/22/2006 9:34:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Miseri Any advice on how to deal with this or distract myself? Thanks! for this slave, self-induced orgasms are overrated. ever heard of PSAS(Persistent Sexual Arousal Syndrome)? google it, fascinating stuff!!!! pleasing Him is more gratifying than any number of self-induced orgasms. when this slave gave up her "right" to masterbate without permission it was for HIS enjoyment and pleasure, so, with that as the focal point, instead of orgasmic gratification, it hasn't been a problem.

Miseri -> RE: I'm Going Crazy! (8/23/2006 6:32:38 AM)
I just wanted to let everyone know that this training has already had its effect on me. Last night, Master teased my nipples until I buried my head in the blanket and squealed in frustration. He asked me if I thought I needed to come. I told him it would be nice, but I really wanted to do so at his hand and that I would wait until he wanted me to. He smiled and said, "I love you." It made me so happy to please him. Thanks for all the support and advice.

onestandingstill -> RE: I'm Going Crazy! (8/23/2006 6:43:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Miseri I just wanted to let everyone know that this training has already had its effect on me. Last night, Master teased my nipples until I buried my head in the blanket and squealed in frustration. He asked me if I thought I needed to come. I told him it would be nice, but I really wanted to do so at his hand and that I would wait until he wanted me to. He smiled and said, "I love you." It made me so happy to please him. Thanks for all the support and advice. Lol, funny but if someone teases my nipples I've always said it's like starting my motor. It takes hours to settle back down just from one lingering caress unless I have some release. Whew that's a tuffy for me too. I know exactly how you feel. Hang in there hon. We're all rooting for you to succeed and be a good girl for your Sir. Remember there's two sides to every coin. When you get so frustrated you ache just look at the other side of the coin and the different more lasting relief & pleasure in your choice to have your sexual behavior controlled by only him. Suzanne

Miseri -> RE: I'm Going Crazy! (8/23/2006 6:50:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: onestandingstill quote: ORIGINAL: Miseri I just wanted to let everyone know that this training has already had its effect on me. Last night, Master teased my nipples until I buried my head in the blanket and squealed in frustration. He asked me if I thought I needed to come. I told him it would be nice, but I really wanted to do so at his hand and that I would wait until he wanted me to. He smiled and said, "I love you." It made me so happy to please him. Thanks for all the support and advice. Lol, funny but if someone teases my nipples I've always said it's like starting my motor. It takes hours to settle back down just from one lingering caress unless I have some release. Whew that's a tuffy for me too. I know exactly how you feel. Hang in there hon. We're all rooting for you to succeed and be a good girl for your Sir. Remember there's two sides to every coin. When you get so frustrated you ache just look at the other side of the coin and the different more lasting relief & pleasure in your choice to have your sexual behavior controlled by only him. Suzanne Thank you Suzanne! I constantly find your words to be very encouraging and intelligent! Yes, nipple stimulation does drive me crazy. He loves doing it, he loves watching me squirm and he has done if every night this week. They are so sensitive, nice in a way, because every brush of fabric reminds me of him. I actually forgot to relate another 'milestone'. I have suggested to him that I am trying to be really really good so that he might indulge me with a heavy scene on Saturday. I told him I would actually love it if he would not give me release if he does a scene. Never thought such an idea would make it out of my mouth!

popeye1250 -> RE: I'm Going Crazy! (8/28/2006 8:18:12 PM)
That's why I like long periods of bondage with stimulation juuuuuuust short of orgasm. I'd have my sub have to ask my permission to masturbate as well. I like my sub to be in a state of constant arousal as well.

babysburnin -> RE: I'm Going Crazy! (8/28/2006 8:44:59 PM)
Oh ... just get yourself off .. He will never know!!! (It's a joke.)

Cutiepie74019 -> RE: I'm Going Crazy! (8/28/2006 9:53:55 PM)
as many others have said in different words you have made your bed and now you must lie in it , you should not be focousing on you own pleasures but instead be focousing on pleasing you master to the best of your abilities , he will reward you in the end

twicehappy -> RE: I'm Going Crazy! (8/29/2006 6:14:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RavenMuse quote: ORIGINAL: twicehappy until i get to the point where the door knob is starting to look like a sex toy, lol. [:D][:D][:D]Damn good job I had just finished My coffee just then young lady! That could have been messy and My keyboard isn't keen on caffine![:D][:D][:D] Sorry Mr.Very Bad Man......... quote: ORIGINAL: RavenMuse he MAY choose to do something about it... or he may just enjoy your struggle, either way you bring him pleasure [:)] I enjoy knowing it and even more enjoy the fact that it is My decision when or even IF anything can be done about it. My girl just made Me smile [:)] See this is why you and Scooter are very bad men(hmmm...need to add Jewel to this one) you enjoy this stuff way too much! Glad she made you smile, i have often done the same thing with the same results. PS, do not let us girls fool you; we whine about it but we love it as much as you Very Bad People do.......

MrrPete -> RE: I'm Going Crazy! (8/29/2006 7:03:35 AM)
Looks like you'll be on your knees begging a lot[:)]

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