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Can someone tell me about petplay? - 8/20/2006 9:46:16 PM   
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i am extremely new to this, ive only been actively seeking this stuff for a few days.....i didnt even know there were message boards until someone just told me about it lol.  about two days ago, someone told me about petplay and like being kept like a puppy or kitty or pony.  when she told me about this i like became obsessed with the idea, but i like dont know anything about.  can someone tell me about petplay and stuff?  im really really interested in it now and i just want to learn more because before i joined this site i did a lot of research but i never came across something like that.  thank you!
 
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RE: Can someone tell me about petplay? - 8/20/2006 10:06:26 PM   
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Petplay - http://experts.about.com/e/p/pe/Petplay.htm

Wiki Petplay - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Petplay

Collarme thread about apparel - http://www.collarchat.com/Pet_Play:_Tails,_Paws,_and_other_useful_items%25%25where_to_find_them%3F/m_267471/tm.htm



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RE: Can someone tell me about petplay? - 8/20/2006 10:07:12 PM   
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Sure! My former sub and I used to play "Kitty."
She'd dress-up like a sexy feline in stockings, garterbelt, high heels, half bra, some cat's ears that she had from a costume shop, and a "tail" that was a butt plug with like a fabric tail superglued to it.
She'd get on all fours and start rubbing up against me and we'd go over to the couch and and "Kitty" would start licking me all over.
"Gooooood Kitty"

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RE: Can someone tell me about petplay? - 8/20/2006 10:11:30 PM   
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Hi!  There's a great site about petplay called humanfauna.com.  I think that you'd like it.  There are message boards and more.  It's good stuff.

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RE: Can someone tell me about petplay? - 8/20/2006 10:25:31 PM   
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Hi, I commented earliar about a great site (humanfauna.com), but forgot to actually give pet play info.  Pet play generally involves the sub taking on the role of an animal, and the Dom/me taking on the role of an owner/trainer.  It can be sexual or non sexual, and BDSM doesn't have to play a part.  I see myself mostly as a kitten in regards to this kind of play.  Hope this helps!

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RE: Can someone tell me about petplay? - 8/20/2006 10:42:47 PM   
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thanks for all the sites, ivee been reading them.

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RE: Can someone tell me about petplay? - 8/21/2006 1:43:07 AM   
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Pet play can also be a more casual thing without costumes or specific animal identification. While I've had several "pets", we've never used any costumes/accessories or even specific animal attributes. The identification of puppy or kitten was more of a mental point of view for my girls, but the behavior was simply about them curling up at my feet, being led around on a leash on all fours, being caged at times, drinking from a water bowl, that sort of thing.

So when people list pet play as an interest, they may mean anything along that spectrum from just curling up at master's feet occassionally to wearing a saddle or eating dog food off the floor at every meal. Be sure to clarify which end of the spectrum you're both looking for before you move in with someone

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RE: Can someone tell me about petplay? - 8/21/2006 2:41:00 AM   
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Sure! My former sub and I used to play "Kitty."
She'd dress-up like a sexy feline in stockings, garterbelt, high heels, half bra, some cat's ears that she had from a costume shop, and a "tail" that was a butt plug with like a fabric tail superglued to it.
She'd get on all fours and start rubbing up against me and we'd go over to the couch and and "Kitty" would start licking me all over.
"Gooooood Kitty"


And this cat is a predator. *grins*

Actually pet play can simply range from someone who likes the gear or the idea, who may not put much acting as an animal into it, to someone who fully takes on the personality of being an animal, be they a cow, horse, pig, dog, cat. Said person can be a temporary pet to even a full time animal, one hundred percent in how they eat, how they sleep, how they behave etc. Usually they are a domestic animal, ie: an animal who is tamable and trainable, something that belongs to a human Master.

Pet play is usually a very open form of play with a lot of relaxation as opposed to more defined Master/ slave rules. After all, you are taking care of not a human, but an animal who will occassionally slip up and disobey. I haven't heard of a Master punish his pet severely, however I would not be surprised in sadistic circles if this doesn't happen. I know in my eyes, I could not punish my puppy or kitty severely. 

So what goes into acting like an animal? Basically how pet play happens and what goes on, will most likely be directed by the Dominant, unless the submissive has already had the urges and behaviours of an animal instilled in them. Ex: Feline. I sniff things, snarl and hiss, bite and scratch, usually scratch first, bat at anything string like dangled and waved over my head including floggers. This makes for interesting whip play. These are acts that come second nature to me. I have always done them. For many animal play types, they have always had a deep seated desire to be a dog, or be a cat, and so took on their behaviors and mindset at an early-ish age. (Look into Theriantrophy and Furry, they are slightly related to pet play and pet play tends to be somewhat popular among the subcultures) 

Otherwise, observe the animal you wish to be, or you wish your sub to be. Watch them closely and figure out how much of that you want to instill in your or his/herself. How will you mould them? How would you punish them for wrong doings? Watch how pets are usually treated. Do you want a show pony? Look into pony shows and cart pulling. There is a lot of information out there for pony play specifically and quite a bit for puppy play. Pony play is usually more structured than puppy play, and may include the use of a pony groom (he makes the pony pretty and tends to her well being and may help in training her), a trainer who may also be the Master, and the Master himself. However, it doesn't have to be. Pony play can also be an act done with a team: a group of friends who also have ponies. There are human puppy and pony shows out there, usually tied into different Leather lifestyle events. These can and often do include contests, similar to real dog and pony shows.

Pet play usually is more mental than physical. After all pet gear is limited. You are lucky if you can find anything costume like for cats and rabbits. Good luck finding anything out of the ordinary like dragon or wolf unless you go to a fursuit designer. More fursuit designers are designing for the purpose of BDSM play, but they are usually booked and overwhelmed, especially when most of their commissions are coming from the furry community, and many fursuiters I know want their new suits by the next con they are going to if possible. Pet play gear is also incredibly Expensive, unless you make it yourself. Collarchat has had a few good sites on how to make it, and I can pull up some pony sites from the ponyOATS yahoo group I am part of. 

Don't forget there are Dominant animals too. Usually the Dominant dog is the most common. And, coming from the furry community, I am a Dominant Sabretooth. Games to play might be something akin to Alpha of the pack, or top dog when mating and such.

Dominant animal gear is really hard to find. You might have to make it yourself.

Ultimately though, pet play is what you and your Dom make of it, when you make it, and how you make it. Have fun.

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RE: Can someone tell me about petplay? - 8/21/2006 5:53:00 AM   
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There are more kinks around than you can shake a stick at!
Pet play. It can run the gamut, from just lying about, being petted and caressed, much as one affectionately pets and caresses a cat; all the way to theriantrophy, where one person wears a costume and "becomes" that animal. I've seen this type of way take both sexual and nonsexual pathes of expression. The wonderful thing about this lifestyle is, you can take a kink and work it out your own way, reshape it to fit you and your needs.

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RE: Can someone tell me about petplay? - 8/21/2006 11:39:20 AM   
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theriantrophy, where one person wears a costume and "becomes" that animal.


I have seen very few therians who also do costuming. I think you are thinking of fursuiters, as in the furry thread.

Theriantrophy is a spiritual belief that one is in some way or another, an animal. Many therians are also furs. But not all furs are spiritual, or take it to the level of most therians. Therians are typically more interested in the quadrupedal model than the bipedal anthropormorphic model of animal and tend to be rather shamanistic or at least, seem to be a bit native american like about their beliefs.

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RE: Can someone tell me about petplay? - 11/13/2007 8:58:50 AM   
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allthough this discussion has long been done I'd like to thank you all for your input and information. I was about to make a post somewhat similar to this and remembered to try and search first and voila. thank you all :)

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RE: Can someone tell me about petplay? - 11/13/2007 11:42:47 AM   
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I'm a real bitch if that counts.......

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RE: Can someone tell me about petplay? - 11/13/2007 11:47:55 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Prinsexx

I'm a real bitch if that counts.......


LMAO....yeah, thats about where my pet plays stops too....LOL


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RE: Can someone tell me about petplay? - 11/13/2007 1:21:59 PM   
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And of course, human pet play is nothing new... Shakespere, in A Midsummer Night's Dream, had one of the female lovers talking about how she wanted to be treated as her beau's "spaniel." Also, Ceasar Tiberius, in retirement on the Isle of Caper, kept both human ponies, and several human hounds as a part of his entourage of about 300 slaves, culled from all over the empire for their sexual "gifts." Aristotle, 300 years even before that, was ridden by his mistress as her horse.
The earliest verifiable instance of recorded humans being kept as pets were in the caves of France. Several of the paintings on the walls there show people in the tribe (possibly conquered members of other tribes?) being used as pack animals in the hunt.

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RE: Can someone tell me about petplay? - 11/13/2007 4:30:27 PM   
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http://www.collarchat.com/m_335382/mpage_1/key_pony/tm.htm#335382
pony play

http://www.collarchat.com/m_287571/mpage_1/key_pony/tm.htm#287571
pony boys and girls

http://www.collarchat.com/m_213090/mpage_1/key_pony/tm.htm#213090
pony???

http://www.collarchat.com/m_200986/tm.htm
I wanna be a ponygirl

Act like a cat/kitten?
http://www.collarchat.com/m_77009/mpage_1/tm.htm#77197

Cat play???
http://www.collarchat.com/m_689002/mpage_1/tm.htm

Pet Play: Tails, Paws, and other useful items..where to find them?
http://www.collarchat.com/m_267471/mpage_1/tm.htm#267471

kitty play outfit
http://www.collarchat.com/m_19057/mpage_1/tm.htm#19057

Cat-Girl
http://www.collarchat.com/m_210121/mpage_1/tm.htm#210121

http://www.collarchat.com/m_155779/mpage_1/key_puppy/tm.htm#155779
Puppy play

http://www.collarchat.com/m_101437/mpage_1/key_puppy/tm.htm#101437
Puppy Girl Training?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_85740/mpage_1/key_puppy/tm.htm#85740
puppy play

http://www.collarchat.com/m_426244/mpage_1/key_puppy/tm.htm#426275
puppy (kitty) training?

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RE: Can someone tell me about petplay? - 11/15/2007 12:03:36 PM   
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The thing I love about pet play is, you have the ability to create a scene (and perhaps a more fulltime atmosphere) that is relatively comparable to animal life because training a submissive/slave as a pet is similar to training an animal. A strong, consistent and strict Owner is what makes pet play all the more exciting. Being degraded and dehumanized is an amazing feeling, one that I’d never want to give up. I like a causal environment rather than dressing up like an animal, but instead I prefer just living like a puppy; being crate/cage trained, eating out of bowls, furniture restrictions, bathroom restrictions, etc.

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RE: Can someone tell me about petplay? - 10/10/2008 2:31:32 AM   
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I am Ressurecting this topic...

as I, myself, am into Pet Play, and need some more up to date information, such as groups, sites, forums and the like, if you have any, please let me know as it would greatly appreciated.

if anyone thats into pet play sees this also, please contact me as i'd love to have some online pet play buddies (to talk about stuff, not necessarily do things unless that floats your boat of course)

Cheers,
Voshra
*i did note the Human Fauna site so don't worry about that*

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RE: Can someone tell me about petplay? - 10/10/2008 3:38:09 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Prinsexx

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There is no need to brag.......

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