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RE: pushing buttons - 8/22/2006 9:03:21 AM

Mercnbeth

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Has anyone out there ever deliberately pushed a limit/rule/whatevername you have for it? And the only reason for doing it was to see what happened? ...

No. we take obedience pretty seriously. we discussed, at GREAT length what Master's rules would be and the consequences for non-deliberately breaking them(shudders at the thought).
Now, deliberately breaking them would be tantamount to game-playing, or "testing" Master, which He has little, if any, patience for.
Why on earth would this slave enter into a consensual Master-makes-the-rules-and-His-slave-follows-them relationship BEFORE understanding what the consequences of breaking rules would be? to this slave, it would be like skipping first base and going straight to second just to see if this slave would be called out at first..

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RE: pushing buttons - 8/22/2006 9:40:40 AM

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(pretend this is posted under another name, because i really don't want to own these words..)

Yes, i've done a bad that wasn't just play-testing, i was poking intentionally to get the root response instead of the metered response. i needed to know if He would change into wicked-Man once set off kilter, or Dom-barrassed.

Example.. i'm supposed to be quitting smoking. (i read there is a thread on that, i'll go look it up) i smoked right outside the building, knowing full well He knew i was toting smokes and was likely to walk out the door any minute and catch me red handed. Which He did, of course. He only commented calmly, "you didn't really think i didn't know you had those did you?" and let it drop, leaving peer pressure of my friends to deliver the actual "discipline".

When i asked about it later, He said He knew if i was really who i am supposed to be at heart, a big display wasn't needed, my own shame would kick in, and He trusted i was who i claim to be.

Extrodinary really, that a test i set out to see if He is who He claims to be turns into His way of showing His trust in ME. For some reason, that knowledge doesn't free me up to be "more bad", it freed me to be more good.

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RE: pushing buttons - 8/22/2006 6:53:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: prdslave

Has anyone out there ever deliberately pushed a limit/rule/whatevername you have for it?
And the only reason for doing it was to see what happened? Im curious, and bored, and I cant sleep, and I have to go to work soon.

Just for an example - X says always put the remote on the right side of my chair, and you put it on the left. (it was all i could think of :p )

Yes i have pushed buttons. Also lived to regret pushing those buttons and did not push them again.

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RE: pushing buttons - 8/23/2006 6:40:19 PM

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Sub speaking...
I used to belong to a man who would push my buttons, to test me, see how I would act. He mostly did it when I was down. Or after a violent scene and I was spaced.

It was mean.

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RE: pushing buttons - 8/28/2006 12:48:15 AM

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LOL yes you will get it back ten fold "I'll get you my pretty" (done in my best wicked witch of the west voice)

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RE: pushing buttons - 8/28/2006 1:10:45 AM

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as long as the maturation time is like that of a government savings bond

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RE: pushing buttons - 8/28/2006 11:17:42 AM

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I am hoping that it will be even longer than that

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My Falcon now is sharp, and passing empty; And, till she stoop, she shall not be full gorg'd, For then she never looks upon her lure. Another way i have to man my haggard, to make her come and know her keeper's call. Wm. Shakespeare

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