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lovebottom -> Definition of a Daddy Dom (8/21/2006 1:08:53 PM)
Hi! This is my first post here, so I hope I'm doing this right. I realize that there is no one correct answer, but when you hear the term "Daddy Dom", what comes to mind for you personally? I ask because I am looking for a Daddy Dom, but there seem to be some very divergent ideas on what that means. I've also heard that some very caring, nurturing Doms whom others might classify as a Daddy quite dislike the label. Thoughts? Thanks!

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Definition of a Daddy Dom (8/21/2006 1:14:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lovebottom Hi! This is my first post here, so I hope I'm doing this right. I realize that there is no one correct answer, but when you hear the term "Daddy Dom", what comes to mind for you personally? I ask because I am looking for a Daddy Dom, but there seem to be some very divergent ideas on what that means. I've also heard that some very caring, nurturing Doms whom others might classify as a Daddy quite dislike the label. Thoughts? Thanks! Daddy/Mommy roles in relationships carry with them a very specific sense in relation to the other person. Being nurturing and caring does not automatically make someone into a parental figure/figurehead in a relationship. I know I'm certainly not a mommy or daddy. http://www.collarchat.com/m_546688/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#546972 Another daddy dom question http://www.collarchat.com/m_541638/mpage_2/key_daddy/tm.htm#541832 How does a dom decide to be a daddy ? http://www.collarchat.com/m_540044/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#540129 Daddy's Girl http://www.collarchat.com/m_278285/mpage_2/key_daddy/tm.htm#278992 What exactly is a daddy dom? http://www.collarchat.com/m_259176/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#259184 Are there any daddies here? Daddy/Daughter Roleplay Daddydoms and Babygirls Daddy? Daddy/little girl Hiding Daddy's Belt Daddy doms Daddy's little girl Daddy? (2)

lovebottom -> RE: Definition of a Daddy Dom (8/21/2006 1:20:23 PM)
Lucky Albatross, thanks for all of those links! Wonderful. As an aside, why is there a vanilla ice cream cone beside my pic??? Is it just because I'm new to the forum discussions? Hope so!

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Definition of a Daddy Dom (8/21/2006 1:41:35 PM)
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Littlepita -> RE: Definition of a Daddy Dom (8/21/2006 5:26:01 PM)
^^^^^^[:D] You are so awesome LA!

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Definition of a Daddy Dom (8/21/2006 6:56:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Littlepita ^^^^^^[:D] You are so awesome LA! And by awesome you mean "droll, pompous and predictable?" :)

Kinkypupper -> RE: Definition of a Daddy Dom (8/21/2006 7:01:59 PM)
A dom type who will use u to yout fullest and then cuddle afterwards

DiurnalVampire -> RE: Definition of a Daddy Dom (8/21/2006 7:09:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kinkypupper A dom type who will use u to yout fullest and then cuddle afterwards I dunno, there are plenty of Doms that do that that dont consider themselves Daddy doms... Im sure theres a lot more to it than that. I know better than to give my definition again, since last tmie I got guff for being the wrong gender and all. DV

juliaoceania -> RE: Definition of a Daddy Dom (8/21/2006 7:14:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross quote: ORIGINAL: Littlepita ^^^^^^[:D] You are so awesome LA! And by awesome you mean "droll, pompous and predictable?" :) You say that like it is a bad thing...predictable is kinda reassuring.

Littlepita -> RE: Definition of a Daddy Dom (8/22/2006 7:06:50 AM)
You're right Julia. Plus I like to wonder how you do it LA. Do you collect every threads URL and put them in catagories just waiting for that next poster to spring them on? [:D]

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Definition of a Daddy Dom (8/22/2006 7:26:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Littlepita You're right Julia. Plus I like to wonder how you do it LA. Do you collect every threads URL and put them in catagories just waiting for that next poster to spring them on? [:D] Mentally, yes. There are times when I've searched for a thread or a person's words and have thought "I KNOW there was a post around this time of the month about this..." and gone hunting. How my memory works is perfect for research/pulling threads, which is part of why I do it- it's fun and easy for me. But really it's only the first time that takes awhile. After that, in two weeks when the next person brings up the same topic, you just have to find the last time you posted the links, copy them onto the reply, add on the last thread and you're done.

lovebottom -> RE: Definition of a Daddy Dom (8/23/2006 2:27:40 PM)
I see that you're well-loved around here LuckyAlbatross! Thanks for your kindess. And I see that my question has largely been answered in other threads. Having read some other posts, I wonder if I am limitimg myself by saying outright that I am looking for a Daddy Dom? I am pretty sure that's what I want, but maybe HE doesn't know that's what he is!

juliaoceania -> RE: Definition of a Daddy Dom (8/23/2006 2:36:10 PM)
Well if he is squicked by the word Daddy, then knowing what one is isn't going to change his feelings about being called that. I found a Dom that liked being called Daddy, and I liked him so well that I was willing to call him that to see how it felt. It turned out well for us. Some people just are freaked out by the implications of Daddy/girl relationships. I have received hate mail over my profile about how vile I am for age playing and encouraging someone demented and it made me mentally ill. We do not age play. It is about vulnerability and tenderness. If the honorific ""daddy" is not what you are looking for, but instead it is the dynamic you are looking for, it may not hurt to take the word off and put a description of a daddy dom in its place. If you really want a dom you can call "daddy", leave it the way it is?

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