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RE: strange behavior - 12/31/2004 5:54:05 AM

LordODiscipline

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Thank you Strict -

Another of my personal irritants is the belief that:
1. Everyone behaves honorably (or, should)
2. We all define "honor, integrity, et al - ad nasuem" in the same way (Hey - Plato could not do it).
3. "Our" expectations of strangers should be, or, (worse) MUST BE adhered to by others (There is that damned "free will thing" - without that, you would ALL be my slaves!! Whaaa haaaa!)
4. Others should (or can) empathize that another's sensibilities are offended.

Personally -

I expect a lot of the people who are clse to me, or whom work for me.

Other than that - I expect little of humanity. I accept that which they (the collective) is willing to give, and take that with a gratitude that I have received as much.

This attitude allows the world to be surprisingly nice at moments... and, a lot less dissapointing.

~J

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ORIGINAL: EStrict
I'm sorry, but I don't see the person listing her having anything to do with *honor*, *honorable* or *integrity*. People online throw around these words as if they are magical ways those *worthy* all behave.

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RE: strange behavior - 12/31/2004 2:07:39 PM

proudsub

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i had noticed that he had added me to his favorites and for a reason i will not mention at this time, made me a bit uneasy.

Here's a post by one of our wonderful Moderators that may ease your worries:

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RE: strange behavior - 12/31/2004 4:12:27 PM

aiyla

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Hello i am aiyla :)
Perhaps He is new too and put you on His favorites list by accident and maybe just doesn't know how to take you off? This one would imagine that if He blocked you He realizes there is nothign between the two of you.

On another note.
Fragile? aiyla? lol This girl's heart might be a little fragile on occasion but as for the rest of it. There is a reason a girl keeps in good shape and learns how to 'go for the ****' lol

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RE: strange behavior - 12/31/2004 4:33:45 PM

lovingmaster45

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Get your panties out of a wad...do you react this way everytime someone winks at you in a public place? Get over yourself; you are not that special.

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RE: strange behavior - 12/31/2004 4:50:16 PM

shylittleheart

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for me personally if placed on someones favorite, Id be flattered, something about me must of wanted them to click that option,

Some just worry about the silliest things...........

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RE: strange behavior - 1/1/2005 9:33:32 AM

Jasmyn

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kyyara good luck... why they act like children is beyond Me.

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RE: strange behavior - 1/1/2005 8:36:14 PM

realophelia

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quote:

i had noticed that he had added me to his favorites and for a reason i will not mention at this time, made me a bit uneasy.

Hi kyyara :)

Welcome to the forums :)

I wouldn't feel uneasy about being one of someone's favorites. I know that a couple of people on my admirers list are people I've had to block for one reason or the other. But it doesn't really bother me. All they've really done (by listing me) is create a short cut to a public profile, and they have as much right to do that as anyone, IMO.

If you've had a negative experience with someone and find it unnerving to see their name on your profile, try collapsing the admirers list by clicking on one of the other options listed.

Take care,
Ophelia

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RE: strange behavior - 1/1/2005 9:34:56 PM

Nvernilla

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I'd think you'ld be proud to be favored its better than rejection right?...........

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RE: strange behavior - 6/26/2005 10:53:31 AM

HiTop

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I am new to this board but not new to the online life. That said, my experience is you find a lot of chaff in the community online while you're seeking wheat.
Don't take the other guy so seriously- as said, he has you blocked. Suffice to say, he doesn't want anymore to do with you than you him. All ready, I have read posts here concerning new associations where an offended party could only hope their nemisis has them blocked.

" Get over it, there are more serious issues in the world." --- allow me to echo an earlier response.

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