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LTRsubNW -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/22/2006 7:04:19 AM)

It's a wonderful thing :)

More please :)



Littlepita -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/22/2006 7:04:25 AM)

I don't much like it. It shocks and humiliates me and makes me want to either get mad or cry. It is effective when were role playing. He hasn't done it much and it's never been very hard.



truesub4u -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/22/2006 7:07:44 AM)

Nope... not happening... if by chance it does... call the paramedics... because he's gonna need them. 



SusanofO -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/22/2006 7:22:09 AM)

Brutal Antipathy: It's not personal, he. I just think punching someone sounds well, extreme.

- Susan



BrutalAntipathy -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/22/2006 7:30:45 AM)

I couldn't imagine punching a slave or sub. Slapping doesn't bother me so long as it doesn't draw blood, but my personal view is that punching is an inherently violent act. To each their own, but that isn't my thing.



SusanofO -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/22/2006 7:34:41 AM)

Good to know. I thought for a minute it might catch on. I wouldn't do it to a guy, much less a girl. But, apparently sone out there think it's fine. I am not going to criticize someone's kink (guess I just did, but I've never, ever heard of that before - punching someone like a punching bag) - but it's just not for me.

- Susan



ninella -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/22/2006 7:40:08 AM)

face slapping - always a surprise, but only during the session.
mostly when my cat (my slave) makes something i don't want, like avoiding when i'm tickling him.



MrDiscipline44 -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/22/2006 7:42:23 AM)

Most punching I've seen tends to happen between small dommes and their larger subs/slaves. Not my thing.

I will do face slapping though and for the most part it's something I enjoy with a sub/slave that enjoys it. It's always discussed during the initial stages of a relationship in the least and usually throughout the relationship. I start off light, so that you both get a feel for it and if she can handle it, we get heavier. Most all of it is done during sex but the few massos I've had enjoy it outside of the bedroom and always by surprise.



Lashra -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/22/2006 7:52:21 AM)

My sub loves for me to slap his face, the only problem is with his being so much taller than I am, I have to really reach up to do it. [:D] It puts him into a highly submissive mode and turns him into putty in my hands basically.

~Lashra and slutjack



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/22/2006 7:56:09 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SusanofO
Good to know. I thought for a minute it might catch on. I wouldn't do it to a guy, much less a girl. But, apparently sone out there think it's fine. I am not going to criticize someone's kink (guess I just did, but I've never, ever heard of that before - punching someone like a punching bag) - but it's just not for me.

- Susan

A lot of people in the scene are into punching and kicking.  It's more common than you think.  There really are "extreme edge players" out there. 



SusanofO -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/22/2006 7:57:05 AM)

Ouch ouch ouch!!! Okay, just not for me.

- Susan



Bearlee -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/22/2006 8:20:30 AM)

Let me start by saying MISS THE EARS!  My brother’s ear drums were broken by my mother’s repeated ‘cuffing’ of him.  That was pretty painful for him and made a mess of his shirts for awhile, when they got infected and puss dripped down his neck.  Yeah… miss the ears!
 
So, now you have an idea of what my childhood was like.  Yup, we all got slapped in the face; noses bloodied, etc.  I figured I’d NEVER be game for face-slapping.  Especially since one early bad-boy boy-friend slapped me unexpectedly and dislocated my jaw and I couldn't clench my teeth for days! 
 
I agree with MSS…you only need a little bit; like a garnish.  And…there’s a right way to do it.  HOLD THE JAW!  Put one hand along the side of the face to be slapped, sort of cupping it, if you will.  And slap the other side with the other hand!  This holds the head and jaw stable and prevents any serious and unintentional injury.  It also allows you to hold the person’s attention; look into their eyes and tell them “why” …or “to focus” …or “are you paying attention to me?”  <swoooooon!!!>
 
First time it happened to me, in a D/s setting I was more than shocked, IMMEDIATELY settled and became wayyyyy more submissive…and found it’s a lot like humiliation; I like it!  (shocker of shocks!!!)  LOL
 
It’s also kind of like ‘punching’…ya have to understand it to enjoy it.  And I do!  LOL   But the kind of punching I’m talking about is much like flogging…deep, controlled hits on well-muscled body-parts.  It’s rather more like a massage…though repeatedly doing so will leave delicious bruises.  Shocking, huh?  <WEG>
 
beverly




juliaoceania -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/22/2006 8:26:26 AM)

fast reply,

I have read several people think that face slapping is no different than having their behinds swatted. I just thought I would add my two cents for what it is worth from the perspective of someone that is having it done to them. It is far more intimate to take a blow to your face than to your behind, and I would remind you to think back to the times you were hit in the face to remember what that was like. We are geared to protect our face,  so when I suppress the urge to strike back or put my hands up I am submitting something almost primal inside, it is not like having my ass bruised. I like it, actually I love it, but there is a primal thing about it.

The first time Daddy did this he tied me up so I would not hit back, because he understood that reflexes will force someone to just respond on that level. Then I would flinch sometimes when I thought a slap was coming, again, reflex action. The last few times it has happened I just let it happen, no reflex to grab his hand, no impulse to block my face, although I will tense up sometimes. It puts my headspace entirely somewhere else instantly.

I think what you are reading as far as subs having trepidation about this form of play is normal, the limit is normal. I have had fantasies of being slapped in the face since childhood, so this was something I really wanted to try since I first heard about it.

It can be dangerous also, and head and neck injuries (especially head injuries) are nothing to compare to a bruised ass also. It does not take much force to properly face slap someone, and it is not something one should do without reading up on it



sleazybutterfly -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/22/2006 8:45:28 AM)

I love it.  There is nothing like the feeling of the hand going across the face.  Sometimes I like it a little hard, but then there are other times that bruises are exactly what I need.  The knock you off balance, hit the floor type of hit, is often times just what the doctor ordered to get me like nothing else.

I am not sure what about it I love so much, it's very hard to explain.  It gets me wet, it makes a slight evil laugh come out of my mouth, the sting, the hurt, the sound, the primal feeling it gives.   

I don't care when it comes, but it must come.  I know that this is one part I cannot do without.  I kiss the fingers of the hand that can give me what I need in this way, because nothing else can compare. 

This is one of those things that just IS. 

~Andrea



edited because of typo 



Mercnbeth -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/22/2006 8:50:24 AM)

waaaaaaaaaay back in the before time, face slapping, as well as punching, would have been a HARD limit...and would still be if this slave had not surrendered everything to Master and was only submitting to the things that she personally enjoys or isn't absolutely squicked by.
 
this slave was trained in unemnetionable-hood to stand still, arms at sides and take the face slapping that was dished out as punishment.  if you flinched, cried or moved your arms or body in any way to "protect" yourself, you got it again, and again, until you could maintain your composure--no matter what.  before Master, the only time anyone ever slapped this slave's face was then, or in a fight with some chick who "fought like a girl" and could only pull hair and slap.
 
this slave had never fantasized about it in an erotic sensual way, until Master graciously gave her positive experiences with it.  it is, as is many things, something Master might do with His slave that has nothing to do with her personal enjoyment of the particular act, but because it happens in the context of surrrender to Him, becomes mutually fulfilling. 



LotusSong -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/22/2006 9:24:47 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: popeye1250

I've seen this on many profiles in here.
I've never done it before and if a submissive wanted me to do it we'd have to sit down and talk about it.
For those of you who like having your face slapped how hard do you like it slapped?
Do you like to be "surprised" by it or "plan" for it?
How does it make you feel?
For how long do you like to have your face slapped, an hour, a few minutes?


I've done it.  And no.. I didn't warn him. I kept it a medium hit.. nothing to make him real.  but damn..the boy lost the first coin collar I gave him.. He has not lost the second.



popeye1250 -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/22/2006 9:26:04 AM)

Well, it's not something I've ever done but I would consider it if a sub was interested.
Now "Punching", that does sound a little brutal!



Bearlee -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/22/2006 9:36:55 AM)

Popeye, it’s not brutal, truly!  As I said above:  “… ‘punching’…ya have to understand it to enjoy it.  And I do!  LOL   But the kind of punching I’m talking about is much like flogging…deep, controlled hits on well-muscled body-parts.  It’s rather more like a massage…though repeatedly doing so will leave delicious bruises.” 
 
It’s very controlled; it’s not about hitting in the face or stomach.  Often times the sides of the hands are used in an almost ‘drumming’ manner high up on the shoulder blades; but balled-fisted punches into the buttocks is heaven for really deep work.  It’s not at all violent.  Think of how a martial-arts guy can make a gee (the white jacket they wear) ‘pop’ without even coming into contact with the person wearing it…THAT is the kind of control I’m talking about; but of course, there IS contact.  <grinz>  It’s like a dance…and it’s really wonderful.

beverly



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/22/2006 9:38:48 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Bearlee
Popeye, it’s not brutal, truly! 

Well it CAN be, it depends on what you're going for.



Bearlee -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/22/2006 9:45:35 AM)

 
Well...good point, LA.  I keep forgetting not everybody plays with folks who don't want to actually 'do damage'...anymore than 'all' folks like edgy play, but not to the point of needing first aid. 
 
Thanks,
beverly



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