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bringing up Daddy - 8/22/2006 11:36:05 AM

sugarplumfairy

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hiya,
i've been an ageplayer on and offline loooong time as welll as sub and i have found a potential new Master on collarme who likes the idea of being a Daddy but really needs to learn how to do it and any couples who are Daddy / lil girl and with experiences in training others would be useful in helping u out as though it's only been a week even if He doesn't end up with me He should be a Daddy.
Please send private messge to sugarplum (my chat name)
Tank Y/yous
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RE: bringing up Daddy - 8/22/2006 12:05:33 PM

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knowing him for only one week you really shouldn't be thinking of him already as someone who could be your potential master. Building a a bdsm relationship takes time. Hell getting to know them to decide if you're even suitable to be D/s takes time.

That said being a daddy is highly personal and subjective what works for my idea of a daddy won't nessisarily work for him. You can discuss things and think of things with others, but that's about all other Daddy lil girl couples can do. nobody else can teach someone how to be an effective daddy, that has to be learned by the person in question.

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RE: bringing up Daddy - 8/23/2006 9:59:56 AM

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Thank you Feline, that's helpful. i like to think that W and i will be around a while and even if He isn't that i can teach him the security and protection side of BDSM to work with another adult little girl as He makes such a good Daddy. W/we connected first time when i was chat in a bad wa and looking for protection and He knew how to ract to this.
This is a question for You Feline, when in ageplay and Daddy wants a blowjob do You find yourself returning to adult mode to give it?

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RE: bringing up Daddy - 8/23/2006 11:04:52 AM

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ORIGINAL: sugarplumfairy

Thank you Feline, that's helpful. i like to think that W and i will be around a while and even if He isn't that i can teach him the security and protection side of BDSM to work with another adult little girl as He makes such a good Daddy. W/we connected first time when i was chat in a bad wa and looking for protection and He knew how to ract to this.
This is a question for You Feline, when in ageplay and Daddy wants a blowjob do You find yourself returning to adult mode to give it?

Not all of us with Daddies are into age play

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RE: bringing up Daddy - 8/23/2006 12:37:57 PM

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...when in ageplay and Daddy wants a blowjob do You find yourself returning to adult mode to give it?

If you are "bringing up your Daddy" as you say, then as a teacher I would expect you would be in your adult mode.

My question would be what mode is the Daddy who is "being brought up" operating in, if he is not in fact status quo as the adult dominant?

Another question would be have you read any of the numerous other recent "Daddy" related threads before starting yet another?

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RE: bringing up Daddy - 8/23/2006 6:47:59 PM

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sugarplum I don't view my age play as a game or something taken lightly, When I regress I truely do so and it's to a very young and very tender age. Since it's a real thing to me and not lets make belive or pretend I am regressed, I don't do sex stuff, he would have to wait untill I wasn't emotionally underaged if he wanted to play. I can't switch from regressed to adult any old time I want, the regression has to wear off by itself.

all though on the rare ocasion I was feeling sexual he might just get one with some sillyness and giggling and other "age immature" trappings like me making it dance lol.

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ORIGINAL: sugarplumfairy

Thank you Feline, that's helpful. i like to think that W and i will be around a while and even if He isn't that i can teach him the security and protection side of BDSM to work with another adult little girl as He makes such a good Daddy. W/we connected first time when i was chat in a bad wa and looking for protection and He knew how to ract to this.
This is a question for You Feline, when in ageplay and Daddy wants a blowjob do You find yourself returning to adult mode to give it?

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RE: bringing up Daddy - 8/24/2006 8:33:57 AM

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perhaps i didn't get my point across, i don't view it as a game and in fact i can go so deep into it that i can mentally respond as an adult and switch it off and on, i should have referred to it as being an inner child, it's a psychological and emotional need for me not a game. Maybe that was how we have coonnected so fast, he found me when i was in a pretty mental unstable state and gave me the care i needed. I've investigated a lot into age regression and find it brings me also to a more deep and beautiful place than anything a subspace can get (possibly because subscape experienc is limited).

As for how the teaching happens, i find my adult side advises him which site to look at and where to go to,

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RE: bringing up Daddy - 8/27/2006 11:40:03 AM

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It's a game and role play to some. I didn't say it was for you, I said for me it's not something I can decide at will.

I have decided a few times I need to regress cause I was cranky or stressed though lol. Regression is my medication of choice when I need to chill lol.

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