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using ice cubes on my sub - 8/22/2006 1:45:19 PM

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i thinking on using ice cubes on my sub any avice on it

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RE: using ice cubes on my sub - 8/22/2006 2:19:24 PM

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I personally wouldn't put them into orifices other than the mouth and I'd have the rest of the room a bit warm so it melts nicely. I don't think there is great risk of it burning too much but why take the risk if you can avoid it by doing it when its warm.

I love holding one in my hand and letting it drip out a bit at a time -- also keeps me cooler.

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RE: using ice cubes on my sub - 8/22/2006 3:08:27 PM

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There's always the condom water-balloon dildo thingie. Just add water and freeze. (All right, so there's a little knot-tying in there somewhere.) You could rub it against him (I'm assuming it's a him), and threaten to insert.

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RE: using ice cubes on my sub - 8/22/2006 3:11:29 PM

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One thing about the condom-in-the-freezer method is that the material of the condom itself isn't strong enough to keep the water from sagging, so you'll end up with a frozen phallus with a big bulbous head.

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RE: using ice cubes on my sub - 8/22/2006 3:44:45 PM

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One thing about the condom-in-the-freezer method is that the material of the condom itself isn't strong enough to keep the water from sagging, so you'll end up with a frozen phallus with a big bulbous head.

and there is something wrong with that? :) LOL

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RE: using ice cubes on my sub - 8/22/2006 3:49:52 PM

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i thinking on using ice cubes on my sub any avice on it

Several things you can do:

do a bit of wax play first, then alternate with the melting ice cube. They respond a lot the same way.

once the sub is bound sufficiently: take a cube of ice, slowly move it to your lips, do a bit of seductiveness with your tongue, move it to the subs lips then drag it over their nipples and genitals, sides, feet etc. If they are blindfolded....

you can purchase plastic forms which can be frozen that are different shapes and filled with water.....insert them into a condom if round, freeze them, then lube and have fun. Other shapes...well use your imagination.

Now I can't believe you don't have any imagination not to think of ways to use ice cubes on anyone. Sometimes you just have to start and then go from there.

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RE: using ice cubes on my sub - 8/22/2006 3:52:11 PM

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One thing about the condom-in-the-freezer method is that the material of the condom itself isn't strong enough to keep the water from sagging, so you'll end up with a frozen phallus with a big bulbous head.

and there is something wrong with that? :) LOL

Yes, that was my first response.

But in all fairness, I just did what I described. I ended up releasing a little bit of water, tying the knot, and placing it sideways in the freezer. The tip didn't even fill out that much. It appears as if it will be slightly thicker than an average size buttplug shaft, but far more than what the average man could take, if inserted.

Now my problem is that it could be months before I can share my little contraption with someone, unless I bite the bullet and a) throw it away, or b) well, you know....

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RE: using ice cubes on my sub - 8/22/2006 6:02:26 PM

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You can also make a plaster-of-paris cast of a real penis, use that to make a mold, and fill the mold with water and freeze. That's basically how they manufacture dildoes.

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RE: using ice cubes on my sub - 8/22/2006 6:29:53 PM

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Although I enjoy it immensely, I'm always careful with ice play. As TammyJo mentioned, there is a risk of damage, especially if you place the ice in the lower orifices. A glass phallus that sits in the fridge overnight provides a similar sensation with less risk. Add a condom, and you've got a great insertion toy.

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RE: using ice cubes on my sub - 8/22/2006 8:36:55 PM

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i thinking on using ice cubes on my sub any avice on it

Is this a hypothetical sub, or one that you've obtained in the past 20 hours since your post that you were new and wanted to learn before you got a sub? I'm confused!

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RE: using ice cubes on my sub - 8/22/2006 8:39:03 PM

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i thinking on using ice cubes on my sub any avice on it

Is this a hypothetical sub, or one that you've obtained in the past 20 hours since your post that you were new and wanted to learn before you got a sub? I'm confused!

Pandora I just love how you state it like you see it!!!!!

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RE: using ice cubes on my sub - 8/22/2006 8:41:37 PM

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i thinking on using ice cubes on my sub any avice on it

Is this a hypothetical sub, or one that you've obtained in the past 20 hours since your post that you were new and wanted to learn before you got a sub? I'm confused!

Once again, You really come through.

To the OP, I'd just make sure they were cold.

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RE: using ice cubes on my sub - 8/22/2006 8:46:41 PM

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i thinking on using ice cubes on my sub any avice on it

Is this a hypothetical sub, or one that you've obtained in the past 20 hours since your post that you were new and wanted to learn before you got a sub? I'm confused!

Pandora I just love how you state it like you see it!!!!!

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I'm serious. I think that's going to change how I answer, yanno? It wouldn't be responsible of me to suggest someone who has zero experience doing anything before they understood fundamentals.....like making sure the glass is clean before you put the ice in it, etc. Or heavens forbid, making sure they understand that ice cannot be used on cyber slaves because it shorts out the computer on the domina's end LOL

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RE: using ice cubes on my sub - 8/22/2006 9:23:39 PM

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haha...Pandora...that's great.

They do make these cool vibrators/dildo's you can fill up with hot or cold water...and the pyrex/glass toy thing is another great suggestion for insertion... You can put them in the fridge/freezer long enough to get cold, and they will eventualy heat up to body temp.. and with hot, well honestly just drop one in some warm water...
You don't need things to be frozen, or boiling hot for this kind of play, because the human body will kind of automaticly compare the temps and make the hot seem way hoter or colder they actualy are.

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RE: using ice cubes on my sub - 8/22/2006 9:51:20 PM

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to mix hot and cold...

put the ice cubes into a ziplock, provides a barrier so less risk of skin burn from too cold ice cubes, and no wet sheets
take a bowl and fill it with hot water , whatever temp you would shoer under, and let whatever sit in there
alternate between them as you choose

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RE: using ice cubes on my sub - 8/23/2006 6:29:11 AM

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MisPandora i am meeting my sub in person real soon my ?? didnt have anything to do with a cyber slave

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RE: using ice cubes on my sub - 8/23/2006 12:25:10 PM

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mispandora i ask a ?? there was no need for you sarcastic answer good lord i have seem some of your answer on other peoples ??? i am sure you are not the goddess of doms sheeeseeeeeeeeeeeeeee

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RE: using ice cubes on my sub - 8/23/2006 12:36:08 PM

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Ooooooh you are new aren't you.

Dommes and Doms are very strong people with strong oppinions. Being sarcastic and disrespectful is not going to get you a possitive response. Remember that if the have been Domme for any length of time they know a lot of ways to make some one 'pay' for disrespect.

I would have taken her comments as a fun way of asking you to clarify your position.

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RE: using ice cubes on my sub - 8/23/2006 12:45:49 PM

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i would think doms would not be disrespected or sarcastic towards each other i would think they would try to help if someone ask for help

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RE: using ice cubes on my sub - 8/25/2006 2:05:37 PM

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Some subs really enjoy it.
I've found that for some it's highly erotic, and some it's nearly torture.
I use them in the sub's rear.... either way it's very intense.

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