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New Lesbian...no longer a slave?? - 8/22/2006 4:53:32 PM

wipmebeetme100

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Wow....a lot has changed in my life the past couple of months. I asked the Master i was serving in AZ for release. I fell in love with a woman 15 years my junior. I moved back to CO...while she moved to MI.
I was not looking for "love"...as a matter of fact if someone would have told me that i would fall in love with a woman, i would have laughed at them.
Since meeting her i have never been happier. I do plan on joining her in MI next month.
She is not involved in WIITWD. Since i consider myself to be a service based masochist pain slut slave....i find myself worrying a bit when i think of "long term". The service aspect, no problem. Spankings...no problem. But i know that the edgier things that i have enjoyed in the past will not be a part of this relationship.
Right now....i am fine with that. I wonder though as time goes on if i will feel a void in my life.
Has anyone else experienced anything like this???
Does anyone have any suggestions or advice???
Thanks,
Peace,
cathy

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RE: New Lesbian...no longer a slave?? - 8/22/2006 4:57:29 PM

MrDiscipline44

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Welcome back to Colorado, wipme. See you around the scene.

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RE: New Lesbian...no longer a slave?? - 8/22/2006 5:13:45 PM

porcelaine

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quote:

ORIGINAL: wipmebeetme100

She is not involved in WIITWD. Since i consider myself to be a service based masochist pain slut slave....i find myself worrying a bit when i think of "long term". The service aspect, no problem. Spankings...no problem. But i know that the edgier things that i have enjoyed in the past will not be a part of this relationship.
Right now....i am fine with that. I wonder though as time goes on if i will feel a void in my life.
Has anyone else experienced anything like this???
Does anyone have any suggestions or advice???

It is said that what we resist will persist. If these things are of meaning to you and sincerely bring pleasure to your sexual relations, they are bound to resurface eventually when the newness of the relationship has worn. This might be a wonderful opportunity to educate her and allow her to become acquainted with your edgier desires without the pressure of compliance at present. It could also be an opportunity for the open exploration of shared interests as well.

I typically push my partners and have commonly introduced new themes and fetishes. I found that even when they did not share the same desires, they were more than welcome to indulge me because I enjoyed them. The most important part of this was the fact that I didn't hide them or halt discussion when we were intimate. Roleplay could possibly be the entrance you can utilize to bring them into your bedroom. Regardless keep in mind this person loves and cares for you. You'd be surprised what people are willing to do for those three words.

Congratulations on the move and the new relationship. Best of luck to you both.

porcelaine

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RE: New Lesbian...no longer a slave?? - 8/22/2006 5:51:30 PM

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ORIGINAL: porcelaine
It is said that what we resist will persist.

Porcelaine, I have admired and loved your posts since you arrived.

With this, I'm in forum awe- I'd never thought I'd see another poster use this phrase and understand it. Thanks for sticking around.

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