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RE: What if he/she won't write? - 8/24/2006 5:41:15 PM

SoquilisGirl

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I have always preferred to communicate by writing. With my Daddy it has been a constant struggle for me to learn to express myself out loud and he is constantly finding ways to make me talk about my desires etc.

In the past little while though he has had me write a diary every day. It seems like back-tracking to me. I am just starting to get comfortable with talking and now he's got me back to writing. But I guess maybe it is useful to communicate in both ways since I might say different things in writing than I would if I had to say it out loud.

Aside from my marriage, my past relationships were almost entirely online and so all the communication was written. I guess I don't care how my man communicates with me as long as he is honest with me and can explain his feelings.

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RE: What if he/she won't write? - 8/24/2006 9:03:49 PM

TemptingNviceSub

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I have run across both...some who are comfortable with the written word others who wish to jump to phone..Personally I am good with both to a certain extent..I enjoying e-mailing but I do better with phone that way you can have a more flowing interaction with questions and impressions coming more smoothly and frankly more quickly..plus there is less chance for misinterpretation as you can get with the written word..I can say however I will avoid IMming like the plague!...I am a slow typist first off and Imming generally gives wankers a chance to squiggle under the radar for a brief moment in time and thus waste mine..soo..e-mail at first then phone is my generally accepted mode of getting to know if I wish to progress to R/L..face to face..Tempting

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