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Any ideas for performance art? - 8/23/2006 11:28:13 AM

petwolf22

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Hi everyone,

I'm not on here much anymore but I did think this group might be able to contribute some good ideas.

I've been asked to do some kind of fetish show for the club I work at this weekend (it's their "Dominatrix Ball"--cheezy I know, but oh well), and I really want to play the submissive performer rather than the dominant one (everyone's going to be doing that, I want to be different).

What kinds of things beyond hot wax are good for a show like that? I don't think I can do the alcohol fire rubs (not experienced in it anyway) because of fire codes, but I want to do something that will really give the audience a sense of the submission (keeping in mind it's a bunch of guys who'd probably have to be hit over the head with a 2x4 to really get it)? If I was doing the dominatrix thing it'd be easy to just carry around a whip, like I said, I would like this to be different. I'm also doing this show alone, so it would have to be something like hot wax that I am able to do myself. I also can't do things that are really over the top sexual (no sex toys or anything like that).

It's short notice for me, so I do apologize for it being short notice here.

Also, any suggestions on music?

Thank you.

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RE: Any ideas for performance art? - 8/23/2006 11:50:15 AM

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1st: Don't do it alone. The guys aren't going to want to drip hot wax on themselves, are they? If you want to be the sub, Find a Fem Dom partner...although, it'd be much hotter to have volunteers from the audience who would like to "play". Audience participation and peer pressure can be fun. LOL

2nd: Once you have a partner, it's much easier to do things. Flogging, light bondage, spanking, to name a few. These can be done with no actual sex, but lots of sexual suggestions and they can be done lightly enough for anyone to enjoy.

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RE: Any ideas for performance art? - 8/23/2006 12:02:41 PM

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I don't have an option on the alone. I can get the guys to help out like dripping the hot wax on me...

I think I can get one of the bouncers to help out with leading me to the stage on a leash and collar, I also have the costume lady making a hood for me, so I can give it a very mysterious air, and really about the body rather than the face.

I kind of thought about making this about exploring submission alone, then finally finding that right one to submit to (maybe making it a member of the audience). So having various toys onstage, which I maybe explore myself (like having lit candles for the hot wax), getting the guys to try different implements, and then finally finding "the one" (like a storyline). Maybe it could be played out as a dream like state finally awakening to reality.

I wish I could do the dances like the Gorean girls do, but I don't think the guys would get it (I'm willing to bet that most certainly aren't Gorean) and I don't have that much time to prepare.

I'll keep thinking about it I guess.

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RE: Any ideas for performance art? - 8/23/2006 12:08:57 PM

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I think using differnt bondage equipment on yourself might be good. Maybe even spanking yourself (I know is sounds sorta lame...but the guy who gets off on the "kinky" girl might like that). Anything that you can tether your leash too might well be good for part of the act to, or having guys leading you by the leash (if that's allowable/safe).

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RE: Any ideas for performance art? - 8/23/2006 12:15:02 PM

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I'd say topping yourself is a little out of my range of things I've done so I'm not really sure what they;d like to see you do to yourself. I think maybe needles, rope bondage & breath play (if someone will spot you) would be other options that may make for a good show.
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RE: Any ideas for performance art? - 8/23/2006 12:22:16 PM

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I hate that this is such short notice but I get so few opportunities to play at all that I wanted to try and do something.

What would I do with breath play?

If nothing else I've got my ponygirl costume for the evening. I won't be one of the many "Dominatrix"-dressed people in the room.

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RE: Any ideas for performance art? - 8/23/2006 12:36:24 PM

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Hm.
If your nails aren't long, maybe grow them out and cut them to points for raking. It might be pretty if you omit a corset when you enter stage, then put one on and "lace yourself up" as a show (don't use a tightlacer by yourself, try a nice 4-6" reduced victorian or something similar).

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RE: Any ideas for performance art? - 8/23/2006 3:52:37 PM

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