jamesthehumanrug
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dear raking,
first :,to be a perfect sex object; try loosing your ego ;
it is cumbersome when you try to be the universal best slave sex object ,IN BED.A STICK - SHIFT MAY BEAT YOU OUT OF YOUR PLACE....IN BED! YOU DON'T WANT THAT;do you?
SECOND :, IF BASIC NEEDS ARE NOT FILLED FIRST; no higher motives are possible; like love ;sacrifice; etc,so try feeding him,or making sure there's food; transportation; money ;privacy ;clothes;etc
*most of all: it's,so funny how you dare ,to say"train a top"?, &, " a 24/7 domme ? ? ";
i really think you mean a ridgid -top who never switches;a top don't have to be there 24/7(long-story)....
There's a book called:
dealing with negative people ,in the self-help ,and psychology-sections ,of the book stores ;ask the info.- desk,or customer service.
personally:
i would find out first ,
then dump them,
way before a serious S and M- relationship ;
you're excused ,if you were "desperate" ,of course;any port in a storm;
there's a saying:
2 people can tell the same joke, but ,it's all in the 'DELIVERY';
so......NEXT TIME SOMEONE RECOMMENDS A TOP SAY: "GOT DELIVERY"?
( or ya ',but .... is it the kind ,with no DELIVERY?)
,ANYWAY: it ,may also be ,inexperience ;
SICKNESS,
or general dislike ....
lack of repsect for you ,especially as a "slave"CAN BE DELIVERED 2 WAYS:
THERE'S LACK OF RESPECT EXPECTED FOR ONE who is THEORETICALLY ,always READY ;WILLING ,AND ,able ; liking ,to be cuckold ,and humilated; insulted ,in constant intimate terms (24/7)which is a matter of implied or given mutual-CONSCIOUS- consent, between adults;
but ,if it's:constant dump on you, as something less, than a slave ,with a rep. ,and, an image ,as a prized ;owned; kept - slave ;who is being devalued, in the slave-role;AND PATRONIZED ;trust me:it IS illegal;
you have rites ,as a slave ,or a person,
NOT TO BE PATRONIZED!....its even written in the human bill of rites some place
my educated opinion is:
well -
you can always say:
fuk -a'-uuuuuuuuuu!!!!!!!!!!!,and, i'm outta' here! ,
CAUSE:, if you're no slave ,that's no g.d. top, EITHER!;
why waste time, with a clumsy; no-delivery type;so-called top? ,thats not un- LIKE A CONSTANT HEADACHE ,AND, CONSTANTLY CHOOSING NO ASPRIN ,OR REMEDY.
STAY ,W/abusive mates, that can't deliver ,on a good day?! ;
life IS short;
there's a suffering top out there ,without the perfect slave to be laid under;
who ,maybe ,going to jail ,cause, basically:they did'nt pick a slave, to deliver to, or ,at least one, that consented.
there's a huge world full of potentials ,with too little time;....even simple mathmatics can tell you the infinate possibilites ,and, the very finite-time ,in more realistic;more logical terms. 
< Message edited by jamesthehumanrug -- 8/23/2006 5:30:34 PM >
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