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Which is more Important


Being Truthful with a Dom/Master
  95% (42)
Pleaseing the Dom/Master
  4% (2)


Total Votes : 44
(last vote on : 11/14/2006 4:44:44 PM)
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Which is more Important - 8/23/2006 4:12:11 PM   
swtnsparkling


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Status: offline 		Which is more Important- especially if it is not possible to do both

< Message edited by swtnsparkling -- 8/23/2006 4:13:55 PM >

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RE: Truth or Pleaseing - 8/23/2006 4:13:45 PM   
MrDiscipline44


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Status: offline 		I would say how you wish to be treated is how you should act towards those your in a relationship with.

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Those who can, do. Those who can't, teach.

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RE: Truth or Pleaseing - 8/23/2006 4:13:47 PM   
Sasy


Posts: 1387
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From: Texas
Status: offline 		Truth has got to  be the most important without honesty there simply cant  be anything

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RE: Which is more Important - 8/23/2006 4:19:36 PM   
Estring


Posts: 3314
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Status: offline 		I would have to say truth wins out. I want my slave to be truthful to me, although the truth may not always be pleasing.

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Boycott Whales!

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RE: Truth or Pleaseing - 8/23/2006 4:20:15 PM   
sleazybutterfly


Posts: 2801
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Status: offline 		Truth, it has to be.  I love to please, to make Sir happy, but in the end.. if I haven't been truthful with Him, everything was built on a lie. 
 
I want something that will last and a firm foundation is the only way to get it.
 
~Butterfly

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Just when the caterpillar thought the world was over, she became a butterfly.
Life is not a popularity contest, it's better to be hated for what you believe, than loved for a lie.

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RE: Which is more Important - 8/23/2006 5:15:01 PM   
juliaoceania


Posts: 21383
Joined: 4/19/2006
From: Somewhere Over the Rainbow
Status: offline 		My Dom would rather have truth than be temporarily pleased

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Reality has a well known Liberal Bias ~ Stephen Colbert

Great minds discuss ideas; Average minds discuss events; Small minds discuss people. Eleanor Roosevelt

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RE: Truth or Pleaseing - 8/23/2006 5:15:06 PM   
masterhyyde


Posts: 57
Joined: 8/16/2006
From: Manhattan
Status: offline 		Truth and open communication are the most important aspects of the relationship to me.

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RE: Truth or Pleaseing - 8/23/2006 5:49:33 PM   
WayWardSoul


Posts: 869
Joined: 6/13/2006
Status: offline 		When I'm lied to it makes everything else sour.

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RE: Truth or Pleaseing - 8/23/2006 7:29:23 PM   
SweetSarijane


Posts: 3788
Joined: 10/7/2005
From: KC area Missouri
Status: offline 		Truth definitely.

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RE: Truth or Pleaseing - 8/23/2006 7:35:06 PM   
Littlepita


Posts: 1430
Joined: 10/6/2005
Status: offline 		Always the truth!

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“I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman.” – Anais Nin

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RE: Truth or Pleaseing - 8/23/2006 7:37:58 PM   
DiurnalVampire


Posts: 8125
Joined: 1/19/2006
From: Nashville, TN
Status: offline 		Pleasing me by lying to me is only going to bite you in the ass in the end.

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I will be your Dominate if you will be my submit - Fox

Snarko Ergo Sum
If you cannot change your mind, how are you so sure you still have one? -proverb

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VampiresLair

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RE: Truth or Pleaseing - 8/23/2006 8:10:46 PM   
kitty2MLoneWolf


Posts: 149
Joined: 8/19/2006
Status: offline 		hmmmm <ponders> lying gets you bitten in the ass.. <wonders if I should change my vote> LOL

(I voted for honesty)

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used to be jessieme but I got a life <grin>

Dont worry about what other people think....they dont do it very often!

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RE: Truth or Pleaseing - 8/23/2006 8:14:50 PM   
HarryVanWinkle


Posts: 1720
Joined: 5/8/2006
Status: offline 		Looks pretty unanimous to me.

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RE: Which is more Important - 8/24/2006 1:32:55 AM   
RavenMuse


Posts: 4030
Joined: 1/23/2006
Status: offline 		Without truth there can be no trust and without trust there is no relationship.
She can always be taught how to please.


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This above all: to thine own self be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Owner of metalmiss

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RE: Which is more Important - 8/24/2006 4:02:24 AM   
twicehappy


Posts: 2706
Joined: 2/5/2006
Status: offline 		Whether or not it pleases them to hear the truth it is going to really displease them to discover a lie. An unpleasant truth may be dealt with, a lie breaks the trust between you, something that is oft impossible to fix.

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The human heart is not a finite container but an ever expanding universe with all the stars contained there in.

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RE: Which is more Important - 8/24/2006 5:29:52 AM   
swtnsparkling


Posts: 1738
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Status: offline 		I'd Like to say Thank You to everyone who has answered.
and Forward  a Thank You  to anyone who may still answer



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Never make anyone a priority who treats you as an option 2003

Walk in Peace
A "No" uttered from deepest conviction is better than a "Yes" uttered merely to please



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RE: Which is more Important - 8/24/2006 5:35:06 AM   
michaelGA2


Posts: 1533
Joined: 4/26/2006
Status: offline 		Truth is more pleasing than deception.

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Are we having fun, yet?

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RE: Which is more Important - 8/24/2006 6:55:59 AM   
LaTigresse


Posts: 26123
Joined: 1/15/2006
Status: offline 		Always truth, lies will get you booted out of my life.

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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Which is more Important - 8/25/2006 3:33:10 AM   
swtnsparkling


Posts: 1738
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Status: offline 		I'd had  hoped  there would be more votes to this- but oh well

Thank You all who did answer <smile>

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