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appletonmale -> Session Starter (8/23/2006 5:27:05 PM)
Hello Everyone My sub and I are looking for a small trinket that I may leave out for her to know that I intend to have sessions with her that evening. Something small but meaningful that once seen laying out will let her know what is to be coming. Any ideas where we might find such a thing. Maybe a small bdsm figurine or collectiible, anything along that lines?

mstrjx -> RE: Session Starter (8/23/2006 5:31:55 PM)
Sort of an odd question. Hilarity might ensue from this. I actually have a serious idea. How about a audio tape. Of you. Saying.... something. Maybe what you intend to do. Something with your voice sounding like you mean business. Something sexy. Use your imagination. Jeff

Slipstreme -> RE: Session Starter (8/23/2006 5:36:37 PM)
Have you ever thought about maybe, leaving a collar out? I know it is a popular choice.

appletonmale -> RE: Session Starter (8/23/2006 5:38:07 PM)
we have thought about collar but are looking for something a little more discrete. There are often others around.

Slipstreme -> RE: Session Starter (8/23/2006 5:39:11 PM)
Ah, maybe a ring then? A ring often holds the same significance as a collar.

Invictus754 -> RE: Session Starter (8/23/2006 5:49:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: appletonmale Hello Everyone My sub and I are looking for a small trinket that I may leave out for her to know that I intend to have sessions with her that evening. Something small but meaningful that once seen laying out will let her know what is to be coming. Any ideas where we might find such a thing. Maybe a small bdsm figurine or collectiible, anything along that lines? I actually send a note by mail or taped to her door with what she is to wear along with a few hints of what may happen - but I never disclose the actual events of the evening. (One time I even made the note from words clipped out of the newspaper glued to a 8x11" sheet.) She is so excited from anticipation even before I get there that subspace comes quickly once I begin.

spankmepink11 -> RE: Session Starter (8/23/2006 6:05:28 PM)
Those are wonderful ideas!! I think a discrete figurine or something along those lines would be great. Maybe the two of You could go on an expedition together, find just the right thing that inspires you both? Invictus... I like the notes too. What lovely anticipation your girl must have experienced

DiurnalVampire -> RE: Session Starter (8/23/2006 6:14:48 PM)
I got my boy a glass angel (since thats the name I call him almost exclusively) Right now, it is a reminder for him, on his desk, that I am always with him. Eventually, it will be his marker that , asuming other people are around, that I expect something from him once company is gone. If you have a nickname for your sub, you might want to consider that as a jumping off point for a VERY subtle pointer. DV

MistressStchWich -> RE: Session Starter (8/23/2006 6:31:04 PM)
How about a copy of Lady Chatterley's Lover? Paperback is available for $5 on Amazon.com....no one would think anything of it being on the end table or the night table...but it would be clear to both of you waht is coming.

appletonmale -> RE: Session Starter (8/23/2006 6:37:45 PM)
these are some great ideas, what else does everyone do.

Yang4yin -> RE: Session Starter (8/23/2006 8:39:12 PM)
How about a special bracelet with charms that indicate what you have planned? Take a look at these: http://www.puretnt.com/charms.html

formenteralady -> RE: Session Starter (8/23/2006 8:39:20 PM)
well if you want a bondage themed figureine you can order some from j-list.com if you wanted to be funny you could hand her an ice pack and some tylenol. :D

GirlyDevil -> RE: Session Starter (10/9/2006 9:38:50 AM)
Those are awsome charms. I will definitly have to buy a couple for my slave.

BalletBob -> RE: Session Starter (10/9/2006 10:22:01 PM)
How about a simple Spoon? You know, like "GAG me with a spoon"? No one else would get it, except for you and your sub. Waiting for Halloween, BalletBob

nikkicd10 -> RE: Session Starter (10/10/2006 2:15:43 PM)
Really, anything can be left out, a note, a BDSM charm, a book, a wine glass, a collar, or perhaps a St Andrews Cross. Whatever it is all that is important is that to the two of you it has meaning. My Mistress has a handcrafted cane I made for her, it looks like a simple back scratchier she leaves out when she has special demands for me when she arrives home and i am to be on my knees as she enters.

MisPandora -> RE: Session Starter (10/10/2006 3:20:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: appletonmale we have thought about collar but are looking for something a little more discrete. There are often others around. Others? Like unmentionables?

MisPandora -> RE: Session Starter (10/10/2006 3:21:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: appletonmale these are some great ideas, what else does everyone do. Perhaps I'm missing the point of why you'd leave hints out about what you intend to do...especially if you're saying you need to be discreet and that there are others around. Me personally, I don't do that. If I wish to engage in play, I grab the boy and do what I feel like, or tell him. I don't need to leave cue cards or clues all over the world about it.

Archer -> RE: Session Starter (10/10/2006 3:24:51 PM)
A special candle stick just light the candle. The navy used to have a smoking lamp that was lit when it was permissible to smoke, why not have a fucking/ sceneing lamp/candle, LOL.

sunnydays -> RE: Session Starter (10/10/2006 9:54:00 PM)
the candle is a great idea.. everyone ( well almost everyone i know) loves incence or has a oil burner..if you have someone over for dinner and then you start to feel the need for a scene.. just light the candle in the pretense of to make the room smell nice.. with your guests not knowing that you subbie is getting wet with anticipation... would be funny to see just how fast said sub would get everyone out the door

asiandoll27 -> RE: Session Starter (10/11/2006 3:06:13 AM)
Like the idea of a ankle bracelet with the charms mentioned above - that is a definate reminder seeing that.

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