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The atraction of female Dominants. - 12/31/2004 5:07:13 PM

nella

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I have some feelings i can not realy understand. I am a woman, streight, and i have a wounderfull Dom and boyfrind. He has often talked aboute a desire to bring in a Mistress in the realationship, eventualy, as for npw we are in the learing face and not werry experienced. And i have a huge reaction to this. Somwere inside me i am werry atracted to serving a female Dominant. And i do not understand this. Is theese kinds of feelings normal or am i strange?

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RE: The atraction of female Dominants. - 1/1/2005 2:05:29 PM

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I wouldn't ever consider myself stranger persay. I mean, there are enough people in the world with various fetish's that nothing truly is strange. There are enough out there who share the same with you. Whether you know it or not.

I'd say you are probably just so mesmerized by female authority figures. Same thing as some women who are into uniforms. Well the list could go on and on.
Power is a huge turn on for a lot of people. I'd consider it a fantasy that can be lived out at some point when the two of you are ready.

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RE: The atraction of female Dominants. - 1/1/2005 3:27:12 PM

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Thank you for your answer. It was werry informative.

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RE: The atraction of female Dominants. - 1/1/2005 6:12:36 PM

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It's only strange if you want to serve by duct taping thumb tacks to your ass and sitting on balloons to pop them while wearing a gas mask.

And even then, people'd generally be accepting of it anyway. :P

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RE: The atraction of female Dominants. - 1/1/2005 7:05:06 PM

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ORIGINAL: Moleculor
It's only strange if you want to serve by duct taping thumb tacks to your ass and sitting on balloons to pop them while wearing a gas mask.

And even then, people'd generally be accepting of it anyway. :P

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

I have ½ a mind to draw that image! LOL

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RE: The atraction of female Dominants. - 1/1/2005 7:09:25 PM

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ORIGINAL: Moleculor

It's only strange if you want to serve by duct taping thumb tacks to your ass and sitting on balloons to pop them while wearing a gas mask.

And even then, people'd generally be accepting of it anyway. :P

Very funny, LMAO...
Dear Nella, I don't think it's strange, it's great you two can be open that way, so enjoy.
M

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RE: The atraction of female Dominants. - 1/2/2005 1:07:43 AM

nella

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Interestinge image, i am sure i could find somone that would like it

Anyway, again thank you for all your responses.

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RE: The atraction of female Dominants. - 1/2/2005 1:44:10 AM

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Hmmm i guess the poper BDSM way to do the duct tape and balloon thing would be to tape the tacks sharp point skin side to ones backside.......

Theres nothing strange about your feelings nella and you wont know until you try it whether it is what you want - give it a go i reckon :-)

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RE: The atraction of female Dominants. - 1/2/2005 4:20:28 AM

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ruby thank you for your answer. And i guess you are right, i would not know unthil i tried it.

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RE: The atraction of female Dominants. - 1/2/2005 10:55:53 AM

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Nuthin' strange about it at all. Go ahead and explore. You may find that serving a Domme rocks you. you may find that it really was the "fantasy" that did it for you. But ths is exactly what makes BDSM - the freedom to explore these sides of ourselves that society as a whole recoils from.

ave fun with it!

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RE: The atraction of female Dominants. - 1/2/2005 1:44:14 PM

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Our first power figure is usually our mother.. a female. It can be natural to accept a woman as a power figure even if they are not our sexual orientation. Add to the mix that you know it would please the man you serve, and I find it not at all strange that you would like to try the experience. Even if it was strange, it resonates in you. Do not live your life by what others think. As long as you're not damaging anyone else, live to make yourself happy.

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RE: The atraction of female Dominants. - 1/2/2005 3:00:11 PM

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I agree, and we are now currently looking for a female Dominant to bring into our relationship. Has to somone we can talk to thoug, but it will be realy nice if we find somone.

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RE: The atraction of female Dominants. - 1/2/2005 3:07:48 PM

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nella, Id be interested to know how you got on when you do find what youa re looking for and how it all goes.

good luck
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