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SusanofO -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (8/24/2006 6:25:29 PM)

XGoddessX: Thanks for the replies - I appreciate hearing from a practitioner of this.
And from everyone else, too.



ownedgirlie -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (8/24/2006 6:25:33 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SusanofO

odinlove: Yes, it seems exy and intimate, but also seems like it could be somewhat inconevenient as a demand. I mean, if you want to go anywhere, you have to get dressed - go there - come home, get undressed. Poeple go out of their house several times a day (many people do - some don't I guess).

Picture someone doing gardening, for example, and having to get supplies from inside for a half hour, then go back outside, etc. I am thinking some Dominants must not monitor this demand that closely - or if they do, base how much they "require" as far as adherence on what is convenient for them to monitor. Of course, if one agrees to it, one is supposedly doing it, monitored or not. Which means thinking of possible scenarios beforehand, as someone mentioned.

As for agreeing to doing this correlating in any way with being "shared" with other Dominants - I don't see a connection.

- Susan


I don't see this as a problem, Susan.  I want to please my Master.  I have no issue at all with going out of my way to do so.  If dressing and undressing is that big a problem for me, then he is the wrong Master for me.  In my case, I am happy to do what I need to for him, so it is not a problem.



xGoddessx -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (8/24/2006 6:27:58 PM)

It was talked about and thought thru a lot by both of us.  It's like anything in bdsm, it might not always be the most convienent thing, or the easiest, but when you know your Master is pleased and it's part of the deal, you do it. 
 
It's just a part of life, you do it, you adjust, and most things just fall into place.
 
*G*



SusanofO -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (8/24/2006 6:28:14 PM)

ownedgirlie: I appreciate your reply. Thanks.

XGoddessX and ownedgirlie: Well, yes, convenience isn't a huge deal if one wants to please one's Master. I was more wondering if both talked through various cirsumstances and possible ramifications before starting to do this, and you answered that question (thanks). 

- Susan



Slipstreme -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (8/24/2006 6:29:05 PM)

I keep my blinds shut. Period. No one can see into my house, and I hate sunlight. So basically I keep myself in as dark a room as is practical. Yes, I tend to keep to myself, and don't entertain guests much, unless they are fur friends of mine.

As far as getting hurt and such, again, basic logic. If you might get hurt, protect yourself (ie wear clothes). Although as far as cooking goes, I have yet to have a problem cooking in the nude.



greysunnydays -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (8/24/2006 6:30:55 PM)

It's very simple. The Person I'm under consideration doesn't like me wearing clothes, most of his friends are in the lifestyle, and have seen me naked at a play party. No big deal there. I'm in a different state, so my mum doesn't pop by at random times. The heat is up to 77 during the day, so I'm not freezing. He lets me put on clothes infront of people that woul not be comfortable seeing lil' ol' me nekkie. But thus far bout 85% of the time I'm naked. So 24/7 ALL the time..probably very unlikely...but..most of the time..is highly likely.



MrDiscipline44 -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (8/24/2006 6:31:17 PM)

I can't see realistically doing this unless I lived in the middle of nowhere. Doing this in the city or town is just asking for trouble. Keeping her warm wouldn't be difficult. Just turn up the heat.

As for it being a "requirement" in someones profile, well, an unrealistic requirement like that just means they'll be looking all the longer for someone. Sooner or later they'll hear the popping sound of their head leaving their ass and change it.



Slipstreme -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (8/24/2006 6:32:39 PM)

I live in a trailer park with neighbors no more than 15 feet on either side, and they never see a thing. Now whether or not they hear anything, that is a different story. The walls are paper thin here.



SusanofO -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (8/24/2006 6:35:27 PM)

MasterFireMa'am: Yes, I was wondering if it's sometimes more inconvenient than appealing.
I can see where it would be sexy, and intimate to practice this. But, convenience for the Dominant is probably a definite consideration (I'd think) as well, so thanks for bringing that up.

Slipstreme: Thanks for the reply. Curtains and-or blinds would be a must for me in this situation (exhibitionistic tendencies or not).  

greysunnydays: I appreciate your reply - thanks.

Mr Discipline 44: Yeah I get the impression w/some profiles this is not a practice, but a fantasy (I don't know for sure). But - I know if someone couldn't answer my questions of how this would play out on a daily basis, I'd have an "issue" with it. It's not that I object to nudity (I don't). But, to me that would mean they'd probably not thought through what would be practical to expect or maybe good for their submissive or slave (and, I think that is their responsibility, if a Dominant). or, I'd think they'd never done it - which isn't a big deal, unless they are trying to make it sound like they do this all the time with submissives or slaves, when they don't.

Things like legality aren't (to me) "little" considerations. I am not sure about this even in my own area. Doing this does sound appealing in many ways. I am taking for granted you can be nude in your own house, but not sure about in front of non-curtained windows, etc., if someone could see in and it's a big window. Finding out answers to those types of questions is something I'd probably want to ask a (kink friendly) lawyer about. Neighbors can be weird. I have neighbors who get upset if someone's garbage can lid isn't on - I can just imagine the issue they might have with this, if their kid, for example, even accidentally, caught a glimpse of me nekkid. I'd just maybe want to know. I am just curious, at this point. I also live in a fairly conservative area.

Thanks for the replies.



ownedgirlie -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (8/24/2006 6:35:44 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SusanofO

ownedgirlie: I appreciate your reply. Thanks.

XGoddessX and ownedgirlie: Well, yes, convenience isn't a huge deal if one wants to please one's Master. I was more wondering if both talked through various cirsumstances and possible ramifications before starting to do this, and you answered that question (thanks). 

- Susan

Actually the initial talking was, "You are to be naked when home at all times except when company is over." and my reply was "Yes, Master."  It was only later when the other concerns were addressed.



BrutalAntipathy -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (8/24/2006 6:37:25 PM)

Nude while at home works, to a degree. People do get unexpected visitors at times though, so that has to be accounted for. Electronic shops such as Fry's usually carry security cameras and moniters that can be installed at the front door. They are not very high quality, but only run about $50 for the combination, and are servicable enough to give you a heads up as to if you need to dress or hide your slave. If it is a friend, I don't bother, as they know about my lifestyle.



greysunnydays -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (8/24/2006 6:38:25 PM)

Hum...I'm not a very modest person..and frankly if I'm in my own home..and people get nosy and feel the need to peek through my window..(Yup..the curtains are open at times..) they can have at it. People are too uptight when it comes to nekkieness. I love it!



SusanofO -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (8/24/2006 6:40:58 PM)

Brutal: I'd not thought of a security camera - that's a good idea.

- Susan



perverseangelic -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (8/24/2006 6:48:07 PM)

My Owner -likes- me to be naked. It isn't a rule, but it's a preference. The problem for me is that I get SO cold so fast. We're poor, so putting clothing on me is more practical the putting on the heater :)



SusanofO -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (8/24/2006 6:51:27 PM)

perverseangelic: Well, it is a potential energy cost saver, too.

- Susan



xGoddessx -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (8/24/2006 6:58:37 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

quote:

ORIGINAL: SusanofO

ownedgirlie: I appreciate your reply. Thanks.

XGoddessX and ownedgirlie: Well, yes, convenience isn't a huge deal if one wants to please one's Master. I was more wondering if both talked through various cirsumstances and possible ramifications before starting to do this, and you answered that question (thanks). 

- Susan

Actually the initial talking was, "You are to be naked when home at all times except when company is over." and my reply was "Yes, Master."  It was only later when the other concerns were addressed.


Lol, this is pretty much how our first talk about it went too.  The details were figured out at a later time.



SusanofO -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (8/24/2006 7:02:56 PM)

Well, I guess I wouldnt have a problem with details being figured out later, as long as circumstances that stick out like a sore thumb (answering the door naked for a delivery person, or anyone who'd be a potential victim of non-consensual nudity veiwing, for example) were addressed - as long as there were no legal ramifictions that could land us both in jail, and-or with a huge fine, if we did something as simple as walk in front of a picture window accidentally and some's kid happened to see it, for example. I am not sure about this, and now I want to find out about what, if any of these, might exist in my own area...my area (Nebraska) really can be weird as far as local "decency" laws. My sister might know (she's a lawyer).

- Susan



ownedgirlie -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (8/24/2006 7:04:29 PM)

Susan - that is where trust in your Master comes into play.  Mine would never compromise my safety.



SusanofO -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (8/24/2006 7:06:18 PM)

Yes, I'd definitely want a Master who I could trust to be concerned about these issues.

- Susan



mnottertail -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (8/24/2006 7:06:43 PM)

Yep. we got running water, toilets, shades, curtains, we got all that out here.  Somebody comes to the door, we are kink stupid for the most part.....oh most of my friends know.........and I don't share *you ain't ever read my profile have you, suse?......LOL*

anyway, if your cold, i mean, cold.....I can handle the sponge bobs on the feet and the little mermaid top, but barney is a hard limit, I mean I love that purple bastard, but not that way........

Ron



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