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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 8:02:57 PM

SusanofO

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The road of the truly selfless is long - and sometimes unpityingly fraught with a lack of recognition of true greatness, as you know. Keep up the good fight, LTRsubNW. God is watching, and many are counting on you...hang in. Peace.

- Susan

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 8:03:18 PM

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ORIGINAL: LTRsubNW

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popeye: Thanks for the reply. Yeah, I am thinking that some lingerie might actually be sexier, although some Dominants seem to be fascinated w/the idea of 24/7 nudity. I am still wondering if the appeal wears off due to this for some who require it. If anyone out there can answer this, please do.
Diurnal did - thanks, Diurnal.

- Susan

Susan, as a male allow me to be the first to say, even if 24/7 nudity (of my Domme) ever did become redundant or wore off, I for one would be willing to suffer the torment of discovery on that one.

In fact, I would willingly avail myself for a test on this very subject. I have a very large home near Seattle on acreage. I submit that we get roughly 10 - 15 remarkably attractive women to come stay with me for the next 6 weeks (for scientific purposes of course) all naked, 24/7, and I promise (and I do this entirely selflessly, kinda "taking one for the team" you might say) to write down everything on a daily basis in a report for everyone here as to my psyche and how it all came together.

When it's all over I will provide copies of this for anyone who, like me, wants to gain knowledge and grow as a human being.

(I think sometimes I simply give too much of myself).

LOL....very altruistic of you.....

....To the OP...I tend to dislike flapping about the house nude..being in the menopausel state of life..My temperature varies in ever widening ends of the spectrum..so for best purposes I walk about in T-shirt and panties..that way I am not toooo cold nor tooo warm but just right!..Just call me goldilocks!..*wink*...Tempting

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 8:05:46 PM

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Tempting: This is something to consider, as soon I will be in that stage of life. Good to know.

- Susan

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 8:12:01 PM

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And as another poster said it would be fun to have a sub nude on your table with a plate of food on her stomach for you to eat!
Or better still on her back on the table with her legs spread and the plate right between her legs!
The more that I think about it the more I like that "two days naked" option! The sub would "know" that she had to be totally naked for two days a week but not know which days in advance!
I like that!

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 8:12:54 PM

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If nudity is commonplace, it ceases to be a cue for sexiness.

I don't have that problem. Nudity was never a real turn on for me. For me it was like, oh, its another naked person. Whooptido. There has to be sexual intent in the nudity for it to be exciting for me. Other than that, it is natural.

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 8:24:34 PM

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Slipstream, yes that's true. But, it would be nice to have a naked sub waiting on you.
For me anyway, lingerie would get the fires stoked up more quickly.
I wonder what the sub would get from it? Being made to be totally naked all the time I mean.
Susan, what are your feelings on that?
Would you prefer 24/7 nudity, a few hours a day nudity, or just a few days per week?

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 8:30:35 PM

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popeye:
I'd need to think about it more. I've never done this, so it's hard for me to say.

It sounds intriguing, but I tend to come from the "less is more" school of thought as far as it staying intruiging, if done all the time. I just don't know. - Susan

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 8:35:43 PM

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Ah, ok, it could be a fun thing to do though.
Maybe some of the other subs will answer.
Great topic though!
When I first saw this after returning from my bike ride earlier I didn't think I'd be interested in it but as I started to read it I thought this could involve a lot of things. Interesting!

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 8:37:25 PM

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In my case both me and my slave will be naked together, save from cuffs and collar so she would have nothing to whine about :P

Hell, put us both in the same room, have us doing some of the same activities (ie: sipping coffee, typing on the computer, being flogged, or doing the flogging), and it would be hard to tell who is Master and who is slave. Wonder if it is because we are both libras. lol

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 8:48:06 PM

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I am almost tempted to ask my boy his opinion on serving nude. I never really discussed it with him, since it isnt something I really get into. I had one girl way back when, and she loved being naked, so I alowed her to be. It really didnt do anything for me, and after a while, it just got dull. Too much of a god thing, I suppose. And she was amazing to look at. So, I decided I wasnt going to let it happen again.

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 8:57:53 PM

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Susan,

Around our house the rule is "naked after 8pm". Her family lives close so by 8pm no one is likely to come over and everything is pretty much settled for the day.

K

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 8:59:26 PM

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Thanks for the reply, PlayfulOne. That makes sense.

- Susan

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 9:11:40 PM

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As I stated before I live in Michigan so it really makes "nude all the time" impossible. I have spent alot of time nude as weather permitted....or time alone allowed. Of course, when raising young 'uns it puts a lot of limits on nude time. I believe that my times nude were a bit more special because it WASN'T an all the time thing. We would often spend evenings...or weekends...with me being nude. Nude housework and chores. One time I even had to shovel snow nude...well almost nude anyway...I got to wear a hat, gloves, boots and band aids with cotton balls over my nipple rings. It didn't help that I was being pelted with snow balls either. Now that was exhilarating!!!! Warming up was a lot of fun though.

Even earned me a hot chocolate with marshmallows!!!

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 9:14:00 PM

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I am not sure really what I "get out of it", so to speak. It's something that I can be a bit insecure about at times, so knowing that my Daddy is pleased with me about it, makes me feel really good. I also get the sexual part, because to him, when he looks at me, it gives him some wicked ideas.

There are also times of variety in being nude. I can wear stockings, heels, garters,etc. There are ways to keep things spicy, it's just allowing yourself to be open enough to explore them.

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 9:23:07 PM

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What I get out of it: Freedom. I am in my house and feel like I can do anything I darn well feel like here.

I also think it is because I have had to look at my naked form, a form I used to be disgusted with, that has finally prompted me to start changing my appearance, to become what I envision myself being. It has also led me to accept parts about me I can't change (without drastic and unnecesary surgery) and become more comfortable in my own skin, seeing that there is something underneath all the fat that is attractive, and to finally feel like me, even though I am staring at a body that in my eyes, is the wrong gender. Looking in the mirror after S&M scenes led me to see the beauty in physical damage, to stare back over one's shoulder in wonder at what you did and went through. That is what being nude has done for me.

If I still wore clothing all the time, I don't think any of that would have happened, for I would have been too shamed at my own body to let it.

Sometimes I look back at my own masochism and wonder if I did it out of hatred for what I am, but I am realizing more and more, it is because I am learning to love myself and the inner hatred and disgust has gone away, that I am letting it happen. That I am letting myself feel my body at it's most alive.

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 9:46:53 PM

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Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand?

In my domicile it is custom for any female serving me to be completely naked. She is likewise not allowed to use any furniture. She will sit or lay on the floor as a dog would, opulent rugs and large floor pillows lay about for her comfort. She is often collared and sometimes chained to the bed when I leave on errands. This is quite commonplace in what I do, and thus far the Seraphim of the Almighty have not thrown open the doors and shown their terrible light upon my evil ways.

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 10:03:54 PM

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Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand?

In my domicile it is custom for any female serving me to be completely naked. She is likewise not allowed to use any furniture. She will sit or lay on the floor as a dog would, opulent rugs and large floor pillows lay about for her comfort. She is often collared and sometimes chained to the bed when I leave on errands. This is quite commonplace in what I do, and thus far the Seraphim of the Almighty have not thrown open the doors and shown their terrible light upon my evil ways.

Ok, I know this is a stupid question and Im sure youve thought of this, but I just have to ask. What if theres a fire? She's alone and chained?? Is there a key nearby? You never know what kind of emergency could arise. Do you think its prudent to leave someone in a position of helplessness when you're not there? And ...ok...its just errands....but what if theres an accident on the road and you are stuck for hours in traffic and cant get to her and something goes wrong? Or what if you get injured and taken to the hospital when youre out. Ok I know its remote, but what safety precautions to you have in place in case something like that should happen?

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 10:08:29 PM

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Ok, I know this is a stupid question and Im sure youve thought of this, but I just have to ask. What if theres a fire? She's alone and chained?? Is there a key nearby? You never know what kind of emergency could arise. Do you think its prudent to leave someone in a position of helplessness when you're not there? And ...ok...its just errands....but what if theres an accident on the road and you are stuck for hours in traffic and cant get to her and something goes wrong? Or what if you get injured and taken to the hospital when youre out. Ok I know its remote, but what safety precautions to you have in place in case something like that should happen?

Intense, isn't it?

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 10:09:27 PM

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I would not mind doing this if no one was expected to come by and we were alone in the sense that our family and vanilla friends were not about, or delivery people. He isn't into nonconsensual kink, so it isn't an issue between us. I have a hard limit with involving people nonconsensually into my kink...so does he.

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/24/2006 10:14:11 PM

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Depending on the weather and roommate situation, my place is clothing optional year round.
The heater is crappy so we usually have to cover up in winter time.
I do like having blinds on the window to block the view from the street.

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