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mentor - 1/1/2005 4:30:13 PM

myst

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i'm a 19 year old subbmissive and i'm wondering if there are any submissives with some experience would woudl like to be friends with me. I find i just need someone who i can chat to and get addvince off. Does anyone have any suggestions on how i find someone like this? all my attempts fail.

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RE: mentor - 1/1/2005 4:48:59 PM

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Watch people, in real life if you can. Online if you cannot. If you respect someone's opinions merely ask them. I'm sure most would be flattered.
Don't just ask or take anyone as a mentor though. It needs to be someone you respect.

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RE: mentor - 1/1/2005 5:51:50 PM

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Realize that you'll wade through a LOT of crap. Trust your instincts and that if you feel someone is being an idiot, they probably are.

Accept that people -will- be mean, and -will- call you names, especially if you have pricipals and stick to them.

And not to sound like a big loser or a troll or anything, but if you like, I'm more than willing to talk to you. I'm a youngun too (22 here) and have been invovled realtime since I was 17. I don't know everything, but I got some stuff figured out :) Drop me a line if you like.

EDIT:
Out of curiosity, why does your profile say you're 21?

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RE: mentor - 1/1/2005 6:49:54 PM

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Hi myst,
Thank you for asking this question, one of the reasons I joined this site was to find people to ask questions of and also people who I could discuss what was happening to me. I'm new to this too, but am coming in much older than you are. I was advised to read the message boards to see what different people say, it helps get a sort of feel for them. I hope we both can find friendships on here that help us out.

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RE: mentor - 1/1/2005 10:27:08 PM

myst

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thank you for your response.

My profile says i'm 21 because when i type in 19 i get rejected for some reason which i don't understand. I am legal to do this stuff in Melbourne, Australia.

i'm looking for more then just someone to answer questions i wants a friend.. someone to chat to and gossip and complain to ect.

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RE: mentor - 1/1/2005 10:54:50 PM

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Myst, i am an 18 yr old baby girl subby to the best Daddy ever. i have had a bunch of experience since i have been in the lifestyle since i was forced into it at the age of 14. it is a long story but i will be more than happy to help You out on whatever You need. i wouldn't say i know anywhere near to all the answers to questions You may have. all i know is that i am a very good listener and knows a thing or two about the lifestyle. email anytime!

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RE: mentor - 1/2/2005 11:44:35 AM

perverseangelic

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quote:

ORIGINAL: myst

thank you for your response.

My profile says i'm 21 because when i type in 19 i get rejected for some reason which i don't understand. I am legal to do this stuff in Melbourne, Australia.

i'm looking for more then just someone to answer questions i wants a friend.. someone to chat to and gossip and complain to ect.

Odd. Was just curious. There are some weirdnesses about this system, I've found, on occation. As far as I know it's hosted in teh US where 18 is legal. ~shrug~

Well, I still stand by my offer. :)

Best of luck in all your searches.

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