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Steelriven -> RE: Something I just HAVE to say... (8/25/2006 5:15:38 PM)
Heh, thanks everyone... I'm normally very thick skinned, but hell everyone has something that just gets to them. And for me this is it. Oh, I've gotten much worse than "ick," but these I generally just give the finger and send them on their way back to the dark ages. Acceptance? Yeah, know what? Yeah... I am looking for that. Isn't everyone on some level? There is not careing about what a stranger yells at you across the street. And then there is careing about what your neighboor says. I just want some good friends that don't mind what I enjoy. I mean doesn't everyone deserve that? Oh, and you can't be thinned skin and be a female online heh. No! I am not trying to start an argument, just speaking from experince. As far as my experince with diapers... Ah, well. Yeah name it and I've probably done it, or at least thought about it. Sorry if I have seemed like I am whining. But this is how I feel, and I'm always honest about my feelings.

Wolfie648 -> RE: Something I just HAVE to say... (8/26/2006 2:58:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Steelriven Warning this thread is about age play, adult babies, and diaper lovers.... Why did I put a warning in? Because, I am so sick of hearing "That's so taboo," or "....Ick." I don't enjoy scat play, but instead of saying the first thing that comes to my head, I stop and say. "Not something that I enjoy, but if you do all the more power to yeah." I'm not ranting here... I just want to explain something. Perhaps I can clear things up a bit for some... ABDL (Adult babies and or diaper lovers) is an off shoot of BDSM. Just like pony play, or wax play can be. Example... Submissive has been told to have dinner on the table by nine. For some reason or another she/he doesn't. Her/His Dominant decides she/he will be punished... Adult baby was told to not to throw toys, for some reason or another she/he throws toys. Her/His Dominant decides she/he will be punished... Same concept... This is the simplest example I could come up with. Anytime some one says "...Ick." Or "That's just taboo." Even though it's normally online it still feels like some one punched me in the chest. Comments, questions, bullets to dodge? You haven't asked a question. That would be my comment. D (owner of j)

indigo302 -> RE: Something I just HAVE to say... (8/26/2006 7:16:00 AM)
Homestead and agirl - Thank you! While it's not something I've done yet - it's something I've thought about...and actually had a Dom who made me go buy the diapers once. (That was embarassing in itself). For me, while the comfort may come as you've both stated, it's more the fact that he would have that much control over my actions. I'm not sure about the more than peeing part, it kind of makes me shudder (okay so it skeeves me on some basic level), I think still the idea that I would trust him enough to know even after that or perhaps becase of that, he would still accept me, and perhaps enjoy my torment... Okay, nuff of that, i'm getting all squirmy... indigo

Homestead -> RE: Something I just HAVE to say... (8/26/2006 8:10:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: indigo302 Homestead and agirl - Thank you! While it's not something I've done yet - it's something I've thought about...and actually had a Dom who made me go buy the diapers once. (That was embarassing in itself). For me, while the comfort may come as you've both stated, it's more the fact that he would have that much control over my actions. I'm not sure about the more than peeing part, it kind of makes me shudder (okay so it skeeves me on some basic level), I think still the idea that I would trust him enough to know even after that or perhaps becase of that, he would still accept me, and perhaps enjoy my torment... Okay, nuff of that, i'm getting all squirmy... indigo But that's exactly it indigo. It's EXTREMELY tormenting and humiliating to have your adult control removed at such basic levels. Because in the long run, the diapers WILL win out. It's just a matter of time. I do most freely admit to a great deal of sadistic satisfaction in waiting for a woman's body to overcome her will. The expressions on the face as the cramps hit are truly priceless. And it's absolutely effortless for me-all I have to do is observe. One if the most interesting things I have found about the whole process, is the mindset needed to submit at this level. It's certainly not something an average bottom would allow to happen. So I have fouind it an excellent method of filtering out those who claim to want to "serve". (Yes, service means I get to service the "do me", yawn.) There are very sound reasons that I don't mind wiping a bottom after something like that. [:D]

sissibaby -> RE: Something I just HAVE to say... (6/18/2013 11:38:21 AM)
It is very easy for someone that has no experience to see things as odd. That however is more insight into that persons experiences than to the notion of ab/dl play being odd or too extreme. Fetishes run along many lines and it is only recently that people are beginning to express and acknowledge that they have them and they are not indicators of some weird psychiatric disorder but just the full course of human experience. When we stoop to labeling something ICHY, odd, extreme or even weird and sick or perhaps "target behavior" we are just allowing ourselves to become part of that whole society which chooses to condemn those that are different. This is fundamentally what drives biggotry, racism, sexism and even xenophobia (which even has a nice psychiatric ring to it). When we make value judgements about others they should be on basis of the persons character and ethics and the manner in which they treat all living things not just those characteristics which are alien to our world of experience. What I happen to think are very beautiful elements to humans which make up the spectrum of life should be cherished by all people not delegated to some notion of extreme behavior. Is Red a better color than Blue, think about it?

VideoAdminRho -> RE: Something I just HAVE to say... (6/18/2013 11:39:15 AM)
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