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withthesewings -> Is this Topping from the bottom? (8/26/2006 11:18:12 AM)
This question is for the Male Dom's and Master's. Okay...first off. Personaly I'm a very sexually "vocal" submissive. Meaning and more to the point...I moan, yell, cry out, whimper..all of it. And when I'm very caught up in the moment of intense pleasure I've been known to bite, scratch. (which I've been told has been a turn-on) In short. I'm VERY responsive. So my question is this...during such times, I've been known to let my partner/Top know what I like. How what he is doing at the moment feels to me, and ask...if I want a certain thing done to me. In your opinion..is this Topping from the bottom? I've been told yes and no.

TopCurious0 -> RE: Is this Topping from the bottom? (8/26/2006 1:26:01 PM)
In my opinion, no, you are being vocally responsive. I personally like lots of feedback [;)] I think the real question is how you communicate, and how it is part of the dynamic. Do you tell or ask? Do you expect him to do what you say you want, or just hope he does? Who really is deciding what is going to happon next?

MstrTiger -> RE: Is this Topping from the bottom? (8/26/2006 2:10:59 PM)
I would say you are being interactive which in my opinion is always good, I would not say that you are attempting to treat your Dom like a biiiatch.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Is this Topping from the bottom? (8/26/2006 2:16:36 PM)
Nope. You're informing them, you're making requests- nothing in that suggests you want to manipulate them to get what you want.

babysburnin -> RE: Is this Topping from the bottom? (8/26/2006 3:17:15 PM)
Did your post get your desired results (attracting horny Doms?) [sm=mrpuffy.gif]

fyrescq -> RE: Is this Topping from the bottom? (8/26/2006 3:51:58 PM)
If the desire is put in the form of a request, not a demand, then it would not be Topping from the bottom, IMHO> Master Ray

MstrssPassion -> RE: Is this Topping from the bottom? (8/26/2006 7:40:18 PM)
no... you're having sex but the only person who can truly answer this would be the person you're having sex with... so long as this person does not view it as such... what does it matter what the rest of the world thinks.

LTRsubNW -> RE: Is this Topping from the bottom? (8/26/2006 7:48:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: withthesewings This question is for the Male Dom's and Master's. Okay...first off. Personaly I'm a very sexually "vocal" submissive. Meaning and more to the point...I moan, yell, cry out, whimper..all of it. And when I'm very caught up in the moment of intense pleasure I've been known to bite, scratch. (which I've been told has been a turn-on) In short. I'm VERY responsive. So my question is this...during such times, I've been known to let my partner/Top know what I like. How what he is doing at the moment feels to me, and ask...if I want a certain thing done to me. In your opinion..is this Topping from the bottom? I've been told yes and no. I say, as long as you're nekkid and sweaty....it works.

Homestead -> RE: Is this Topping from the bottom? (8/26/2006 11:07:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: withthesewings This question is for the Male Dom's and Master's. Okay...first off. Personaly I'm a very sexually "vocal" submissive. Meaning and more to the point...I moan, yell, cry out, whimper..all of it. And when I'm very caught up in the moment of intense pleasure I've been known to bite, scratch. (which I've been told has been a turn-on) In short. I'm VERY responsive. So my question is this...during such times, I've been known to let my partner/Top know what I like. How what he is doing at the moment feels to me, and ask...if I want a certain thing done to me. In your opinion..is this Topping from the bottom? I've been told yes and no. Are you asking, or demanding?

Wolfie648 -> RE: Is this Topping from the bottom? (8/27/2006 2:56:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: withthesewings So my question is this...during such times, I've been known to let my partner/Top know what I like. How what he is doing at the moment feels to me, and ask...if I want a certain thing done to me. In your opinion..is this Topping from the bottom? I've been told yes and no. It's definately about what you want. That's for sure. D (owner of j).

shadevarr -> RE: Is this Topping from the bottom? (8/27/2006 11:02:54 AM)
If it is outside of a scene, then it is good communication. In a scene, I'd reach over and grab the duct tape :)

withthesewings -> RE: Is this Topping from the bottom? (8/27/2006 11:38:44 AM)
Do you consider asking questions or wanting to get opinions, desiring to attract attention? Everyone else, I thank you for your input and thoughts!!! quote: ORIGINAL: babysburnin Did your post get your desired results (attracting horny Doms?) [sm=mrpuffy.gif]

FangsNfeet -> RE: Is this Topping from the bottom? (8/27/2006 1:38:37 PM)
Just because he hears what you like does not mean that he has to do it. If he's having to do it because you say so, then you're topping from the bottom. Most doms want to know what there subs like so we can do them as rewards for good behavior and such. Most doms want there subs to be happy in the relationship as well. The communication of known what each other like is important.

withthesewings -> RE: Is this Topping from the bottom? (8/27/2006 2:37:54 PM)
Oh, of course not. And it's not expected at all. I'm merely voiceing what I like, it's never done in a "demanding" way at all. quote: ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet Just because he hears what you like does not mean that he has to do it.

Estring -> RE: Is this Topping from the bottom? (8/27/2006 2:43:06 PM)
Technically, it might be, but honestly, who cares? I doubt your Dom is worrying about it.You shouldn't either.

imthesimpleone -> RE: Is this Topping from the bottom? (8/31/2006 3:11:12 PM)
The answer is inside your mind. If you ever get upset or feel less pleasure if he doesn't do what you ask then you are topping from the bottom.

SirDarkside357 -> RE: Is this Topping from the bottom? (9/1/2006 12:25:09 AM)
Hi wings, Not to me. I actually prefer my slave to do most of what you mention. Why would I want a slave that just lays there, unless of course I have told her to do that....WEG...and yes I have done that, the agressive ones hate it, well, maybe not . Darkside

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