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tender spot - 8/27/2006 2:59:06 AM

mons

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greetings to all

i am not sure where and which forum i read this in but some of the master and dommes find it a thing to beat, pinch, hot wax a woman clitoris. i am lost on this on someone said their master raise the hood and beat it, please tell me why this is something many or any of you find ok to do i think it is such a tender place that beating and clothes pins are or will destroy the feeling there, i hope some of you will answer this for me. i am so tender i can not think of this at all makes my tummy turn

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RE: tender spot - 8/27/2006 3:28:11 AM

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Speaking for myself, I have no fetish or desire to torture this part of the female anatomy with the means you've detailed - I prefer more "conventional" methods of making the girl squirm from attention down there.

I'm confident most Dom/mes would respect a sub's hard limits so this'd proablably be one you should add to yours - if it concerns you that much.

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RE: tender spot - 8/27/2006 3:48:34 AM

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greetings focus

but i am not a submissive i am a domme it still gives me the chills to think of that did i write it in a way you may had thought i was a submissive i did not mean to make that mistake but thank you for you answer

mons

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RE: tender spot - 8/27/2006 4:30:43 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mons

greetings focus

but i am not a submissive i am a domme it still gives me the chills to think of that did i write it in a way you may had thought i was a submissive i did not mean to make that mistake but thank you for you answer

Lol, I didn't actually check your profile because from the phrasing of your question and that you don't use caps anywhere, I just assumed you were a sub.... My apologies.

Once again I'm reminded of life's certainties: death and taxes; death and taxes; death and taxes....

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RE: tender spot - 8/27/2006 4:52:15 AM

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Some girls are simply too sensitive to react in an enjoyable way, others, once they get turned on have almost an orgasmic reaction to various levels of pain applied to the area (By a flogger especialy).

I'm not a sadist, but I draw a lot of pleasure from a girls reactions. If I have a girl who reacts well then it is something I will readily indulge in for BOTH our pleasure.

As for desensitising. If it was being done overly regularly then I could see a problem. But occassional use in that manner, even quite hard use, isn't going to effect sensitivity so long as the duty of care is stuck to and no 'harm' is done (I.e. not an area I'm going to take a singapore cane to, but a heavy flogger, sure

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RE: tender spot - 8/27/2006 5:21:54 AM

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if i may comment? i am a submissive with an extremely sensitive clitoris and find clothespins and any spanking etc with hood retracted to be unpleasant and painful.... why do They do this? Sometimes torture is torture.

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RE: tender spot - 8/27/2006 5:57:50 AM

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But I thought that was the whole purpose of slappers and crops! No?

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RE: tender spot - 8/27/2006 6:00:40 AM

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Well I am one of those submissives who happens to enjoy clit torture. It is one of the most sensitive areas of the body. As a masochist I enjoy painful stimulation there. Also as a masochist, when I play it is normally with sadists. It would stand to reason that the most tender spot on your body would be a target to a sadist who enjoys inflicting pain. And no....it doesn't destroy the feeling down there.

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RE: tender spot - 8/27/2006 6:08:50 AM

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Ouch!.. all I can say is if I happen to hurt it in any way... I will certainly kiss it better.. *S*

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RE: tender spot - 8/27/2006 6:16:03 AM

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To be honest, I see it no different than cbt. Fine for some folks, not for others. Some girls are more sensitive than others. To some girls rubbing their clit is ticklish, not erotic, they need more intense sensations.

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RE: tender spot - 8/27/2006 6:28:20 AM

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This seems the most logical...fine for some, not fine for others.

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RE: tender spot - 8/27/2006 8:32:06 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Bearlee

But I thought that was the whole purpose of slappers and crops! No?

bearlee

Exactly especially when settling down to a peacful night.of watching a movie, tv, etc. Take a crop and start by lightly slapping the labia; progressing in firmness. Just before orgasm, stop, spread her labia, slap her clitoris and send her over the edge. The pain/pleasure paradox kicks in and she learns.

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RE: tender spot - 8/27/2006 9:14:44 AM

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The reactions when one uses needles in the area are interesting. But it's always best to use other means around the clit-too many important nerves there. Which is one reason that it's probably a good idea to study anatomy.

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RE: tender spot - 8/27/2006 10:05:42 AM

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The human body can withstand a heck of a lot more pain than the great majority of masochists will EVER experience.

You can put someone through a lot of torture in a lot of ways without causing lasting damage or pain if you know how.

Why would they do it? It's called sadism.

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RE: tender spot - 8/27/2006 10:08:15 AM

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I do not know what is so hard to understand, people have different sensitivity. Slapping me there does very little for me, pinching me or biting me drives me crazy. It is like any other play, each person has different taste. This would not work for you, but for others it is something they enjoy.

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RE: tender spot - 8/28/2006 4:47:39 AM

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De gustibus non est disputantum.

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RE: tender spot - 8/28/2006 7:48:01 AM

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Again this is one of those things which is good for some and not good for others.

For my pleasure: I get pleasure of watching a girl become uncontrolably aroused and sensitised by what ever I am doing. in order for this to happen, I need to know what things will do this to her. this is just gathering the right intelligence and not allowing a sub/slave to take control. Conversly, I also need to know what things will shut her down so that no matter what pleasuring happens later she is incapable of being aroused at that time. It is called knowing your sub or slave.

Torture (Especially Interrogations): Here I probably crossover to the dyed in the wool sadist with a dyed in the wool masochist but this also applies to real life no hold bared Inerrogations. I want to know all thet will humiliate a subject (male or female) what the subject is terrified of . What parts of the body is the most sensitive and where pain or the threat of pain will break down resistance and where the subject will little work on my part, will become complient as putty in my hands.......

Personally I have never got my jollies from torturing or "Hard" Interogating anyone and this was part of thje reason why I am so late comming tom BDSM (Too many memories of both recieving and administering pain in such a manner).

IB

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RE: tender spot - 8/29/2006 2:26:40 AM

mons

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juila dear

no where in my post did i mention i had this do no where! now i was asking a questions wonder why this is done, i am not telling anyone of the slaves who enjoy this to stop my question and remember this i was wondering why. i see you enjoy this it is ok i am not judging anyone for me i would not do it never had it done either. would not have it done. but i see with so many answer i understand now it is a part of kink we all have this is not for me. but you must has a stuff tender spot dear to handle it., go for it dear i am not judging you at all.

thank you al for writing and letting me know what you thought of it i see many like it and many do not thank you all

midearthtrainer and bear thank you for your answers

mons

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RE: tender spot - 8/29/2006 6:50:30 AM

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As a slave its your call. If your not into it.. Go else where.

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RE: tender spot - 8/29/2006 9:34:50 AM

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Peter if you check mons's profile you'll find that she is a Dominant Woman.

As someone mentioned earlier, it is simply a female version of CBT or genital torture. However there are other ways of attacking the genitalia of a female chained down legs spread and open for all. I have a preference for using feathers and either sable or badger haired artists brushes. they can be used with wicked precision around the clit and even nipples. It object is to bring the female to the pioint of but not including orgasm so that she is alternatively begging and screaming in frustration and demanding sexual release of orgasm.. Such sweet subnmissiion when she finally looses all control and her body overrides any previous attempts to control it and when you finally allow her to orgasm it is often so complete and explosive. What a delightfull parlor game to play when the rain is pelting down, chilled winds howl about your abode and you are warmed by a roaring log fire...... Even when unchained the girl is usually so helpless that she can not offer any resistance at all.. Well that has been my experience in ant case...

IB

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