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Paladin9 -> RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? (7/19/2007 1:36:01 PM)
I enjoy beng naked, wish public nudity was not illegal. There is a town in France that the whole town is clothing optional. Thought that would be a great place to live, exc I dont like france.

Myshkin -> RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? (8/5/2007 5:40:20 PM)
I don't think exhibitionism necessarily has to do with feeling sexy, but it certainly can be one aspect of it. I on the other hand always kind of saw it as a form of power exchange. Exhibitionalism can simply be a Dom/me parading their sub in a public place. I've also thought of exhibitionism as a way to humiliate of degrade your sub, if that's your kink. From crawling on the floor to being suspended in front of an audience. It can really stretch out as far as your imagination goes.

LATEXBABY64 -> RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? (8/5/2007 5:51:41 PM)
its for those who like to do the shock value and just end up pissing off a lot of other people and then goto their senator's to draft new legislation that says thou shall not be naked on thy front lawn yep

Joyful007 -> RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? (8/5/2007 7:13:24 PM)
My Mistress has instucted me to be naked at all times whenever practical...often until the last possible minute in our home. It reinforces her authority and access to my body. Additionally whenever she has kink frinedly friends over it is understood i will be naked in front of them. Not all that uncommon in a femdom relationship. I certainly feel owned when naked.[:D]

FelinePersuasion -> RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? (8/5/2007 7:19:37 PM)
See, since I am all natural all day long by choice and I hate clothing, the true test of my obediance would to make me put up with clothing lol. I had a dominant once who wouldn't let me be braless till he felt like it and it drove me nuts, since I hate bra's. quote: ORIGINAL: Joyful007 My Mistress has instucted me to be naked at all times whenever practical...often until the last possible minute in our home. It reinforces her authority [:D]

maydo -> RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? (8/7/2007 9:33:39 AM)
i have to say, i think anything done to much becomes just boring and not at all arrousing. It might work in the begining because it's different, out of your normal behavior. But to be naked or cuffed regularly, It just becomes old hat, becomes the norm and does nothing for me sexually. Now, put me in a room of dressed men and tell me to disrobe for them?? Let them watch me strip to nothing and oh yeah.. that's arrousing.. brings out the submissive inside me. Allow them to see me in cuffs and collar and again it works fantasticly ... For exhibition to work, there needs to be an audience, at least one other person who looks and enjoys. When in this postion, i find myself feeling very vulnerable, very submissive. Which i think is the whole point for Dom wanting their subs naked for them. with respect to all

Joseff -> RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? (8/7/2007 3:37:05 PM)
Sometimes I have problems getting her to put clothes on. Joseff

PairOfDimes -> RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? (8/7/2007 3:47:17 PM)
I don't have nudist tendencies. I have exhibitionist tendencies. I don't especially like to be naked, however, it can sometimes be fun to play with consenting viewers around. I'm a bit of a showoff.

SubJordanTyler -> RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? (8/11/2007 3:39:48 PM)
It can be a few things............freedom is one of them. But humiliation is also part of it. Being exposed in front of a group of people and listening to them comment on my body can be very humiliating, depending on what they say. But it can also be a rush, like if I'm chosen at an auction to be used for sex specifically because of my body or my cock.........or whatever appeals to that person. So it can be a few different things.

ELUSIVE1 -> RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? (8/11/2007 4:06:47 PM)
I like being naked--I am comfortable in my skin--not sure there are any 'why's" to answer here--just a preference for me--and swimming naked--well that is a feeling of freedom unsurpassed...

milkmaid42dd -> RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? (8/12/2007 2:41:30 PM)
Ah! One of my biggest "rant" buttons! Does it turn you on sexually? NO! Do you feel sexier? Not at all. How does it make you feel and why do you like it? I neither like nor dislike it. After a bath or shower I might wander around my home naked awhile, just until I get around to picking something out to put on. It's no big deal one way or another. What are you thinking when you're walking around naked? "What am I going to wear?" What are you thinking when you're walking around naked because a Master told me to because he wants me to be naked all the time? "This is stupid." This is a kind of general rant/response/explanation I wrote in response to a series of correspondences with Doms all of whom were of the "my slave will always be nude at home" variety, who then did not understand why I was not interested in pursuing further correspondence with them: It's not that I'm body shy (hardly! LOL) but to me nudity is just... nude. You know... booooring. There is no eroticism, no sensuality, in nudity. No secrets to be discovered and explored, no anticipation. It's like the difference between bump and grind, and bellydancing. The difference between looking at the Playboy centerfold and looking at a Fredrick's of Hollywood catalog. It's the difference between sexual and sensual. And I am, first and foremost, a sensual creature. Yes, I know that as a slave, I of course will please my Master in any way he wants. But I have needs as well... deep-seated needs that have never been realized, never been brought to light, never been experienced. I WANT to experience them, I crave the erotic glances, sensual touches, whispered words. And... if having your slave nude all the time is what really trips your trigger, you can't possibly meet my needs, because you don't even understand them, or what it means to me. So, I want a Master who DOES understand what I mean, who is tantalized and stimulated by erotic exposure. And if you are thinking, "What is she talking about? Having my slave naked all the time to be available to me is erotic," that's exactly what I mean... you don't understand :( and my needs would then go completely unfulfilled, just as they have all my life. And therefore, you are not the Master I am seeking. --- Deb 360.yahoo.com/DebHerself

VadFarkas -> RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? (8/12/2007 6:34:48 PM)
Good Luck to you.

Melljo -> RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? (8/16/2007 8:35:48 AM)
Walking around the house alone naked is no big deal. I like the idea of being told to strip in front of my guy and let him get excited about watching me and telling me what to do. It would be very humiliating, to be in a room naked with a man that is fully dressed looking at you. With the anticipation of what I will be told to do next.

Celeste43 -> RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? (8/16/2007 10:20:08 AM)
I grew up on a clothing optional beach so it's normal for me. These days though I would have concerns due to body image, I'm not 18 anymore.

SeanPony -> RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? (8/16/2007 3:22:43 PM)
It's fun streaking down a busy street or a nature trail. but I am not going to do anything like that again Hah

SlaveSubtoserve -> RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? (8/17/2007 10:25:45 AM)
.......my former Mistress generally required me to be naked on weekends and whenever feasible--- and when other scene people visited- definitely added to my sense of vulnerability but not really exhibitionistic feelings unless others were around so ......

TheKernel -> RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? (8/17/2007 10:42:07 AM)
Its not purely to do with being naked or exclusively public. It could be as mild as a sub having a short skirt and flashing their knickers or wearing a seethrough top with a bra underneath. Even in private 1 to 1 or small groups. I agree with what has been said about it losing its edge if done too often if the sub enjoys it as part of humiliation play. If they dont view it as humiliating but just enjoy it then doing it as much as possible wont make any differnce to its potency.

subsue6 -> RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? (9/1/2009 9:19:53 AM)
Yes, this has been exactly my experience. I think that it is quite common in the lesbian domme/sub world. When I am at my Mitress' house, most often I am completely naked for the time, even when guests come over.

DesFIP -> RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? (9/1/2009 10:54:42 AM)
Gives me goose bumps and means he has to go outside in the below freezing weather to get the next log for the wood stove. I grew up on a clothing optional gay beach, as I tell people when they ask what it was like - "I have no modesty". Some people simply hated tan lines, others wanted to show off their bodies and attract attention. Me? I just hated wearing a wet, sandy bathing suit. Not something I would agree to unless we lived someplace much warmer. NY State isn't warm except for a couple of months a year.

CaringandReal -> RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? (9/1/2009 5:37:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LotusSong Popeye... It's a bitch when you are cooking bacon. Snort! That is very true! I hear the nicer doms let you wear an apron during those times. Open at the back, of course.

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