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pahunkboy -> phrazes ppl say but +/-? mean game (8/28/2006 6:36:50 AM)

phrazes people say cos it is conventient. they may or may not mean it-- game.

"good morning"   


"have a nice day"


"we will have to do lunch"


"ill call you"




pahunkboy -> RE: phrazes ppl say but +/-? mean game (8/28/2006 6:48:01 AM)

"you havent aged a bit"




RavenMuse -> RE: phrazes ppl say but +/-? mean game (8/28/2006 7:01:17 AM)

In transactional annalysis terms a 'game' is exactly what those are most of the time. They are 'handshake' formalitys. Just a thing said to touch base, acknowledge the other person but keep a distance. Not ment, but no malace behind it. Nothing more than "I acknowledge that you exist, but you are not close to me and I have no wish to get closer. Thanks in return for acknowledging me".... hence, most of the time, whilst such 'pleasentrys' are worthles, we feel slighted if they are not returned, we percieve the other person as inpolite for not returning the 'handshake'




LaTigresse -> RE: phrazes ppl say but +/-? mean game (8/28/2006 7:03:37 AM)

"you do whatever you want"

aka........go ahead, do whatever you want but oh how you will payyyyyy!




RavenMuse -> RE: phrazes ppl say but +/-? mean game (8/28/2006 7:08:00 AM)

"Does my bum look big in this?"

AKA I want an argument! [;)]




SweetlyTwisted -> RE: phrazes ppl say but +/-? mean game (8/28/2006 7:29:16 AM)

"I'm sorry."
"I understand"
"How's school?"
"If there is anything I can do to help, just call."
"Take care" (they don't care)
"I'll be there for ya"
"I'm here"
Gggrrrr this is making me grumpy. People suck. I wish they would be real or be quiet.

~ST~




LaTigresse -> RE: phrazes ppl say but +/-? mean game (8/28/2006 7:40:58 AM)

"I am fine, really"




pahunkboy -> RE: phrazes ppl say but +/-? mean game (8/28/2006 7:50:41 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: RavenMuse

In transactional annalysis terms a 'game' is exactly what those are most of the time. They are 'handshake' formalitys. Just a thing said to touch base, acknowledge the other person but keep a distance. Not ment, but no malace behind it. Nothing more than "I acknowledge that you exist, but you are not close to me and I have no wish to get closer. Thanks in return for acknowledging me".... hence, most of the time, whilst such 'pleasentrys' are worthles, we feel slighted if they are not returned, we percieve the other person as inpolite for not returning the 'handshake'


VERY good point. When i want to make sure it is more then a pleasnatry i try  to look "into the persons soul", uniquely touch.

i live in a town of 5000. failing to say "hi" can trigger a grudge for YEARS here. and 12 yrs later someone will remember.

my siblings say all the time "let me call you right back"  i used to wait. now i dont. yet - if i say that to a local person, and dont, i had bettter have a good reason.

you make an excellent point here!!!  :-)




pahunkboy -> RE: phrazes ppl say but +/-? mean game (8/28/2006 7:52:40 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

"you do whatever you want"

aka........go ahead, do whatever you want but oh how you will payyyyyy!



ROFLMAO!

so many good replies here. :-)




twicehappy -> RE: phrazes ppl say but +/-? mean game (8/28/2006 8:27:20 AM)

Ok time for the classics;

I promise i will not cum in your mouth.

The check is in the mail.

I'll get right on it.




LaTigresse -> RE: phrazes ppl say but +/-? mean game (8/28/2006 9:45:02 AM)

It will only take a few minutes.

two hours later...........still waiting




justanotheclaire -> RE: phrazes ppl say but +/-? mean game (8/28/2006 10:00:49 AM)

We are seperated (well shes not here now)
I'm divorced (we row alot)
My wife just doesnt understand me (I want to shag around)
I love you (now lets get them knickers off)
I think your a wonderful person (please dont tell the wife)
Its not you, its me (thanks for the ride but I had better be going)




SohCahToa -> RE: phrazes ppl say but +/-? mean game (8/28/2006 1:24:28 PM)

I'll give this some more thought
I don’t know what I’d do without you.
I’d loose my head if it wasn’t screwed on.
How was your weekend? => Your weekend is over get back to work.
I didn’t see it from that point of view. => I didn’t want to either.




LaTigresse -> RE: phrazes ppl say but +/-? mean game (8/28/2006 1:29:17 PM)

No, I don't mind, really. = Yes I do mind and the only thing saving your ass right now is the thought of life in prison with lots of really scary looking women.




NastyDaddy -> RE: phrazes ppl say but +/-? mean game (8/28/2006 1:40:06 PM)

"this is gonna hurt me a lot more than it's gonna hurt you"
"you're preaching to the choir"
"I hear ya"
"I agree"
"you poor thing you"
"those bastards!"
"what nerve!"
"if it makes you happy"
"whatever it takes"
"you can count on me"
"they can't do this to you"
"they'll never get away with it"
"you'll have your day in court"
"your opinion means a lot"
"see that graveyard... people are just dieing to get in there"
"oh it is a big one"
"they look fine to me"

My all time fav:  "you look marvelous darling, simply marvelous!"




pahunkboy -> RE: phrazes ppl say but +/-? mean game (8/28/2006 2:36:25 PM)

oh man- the line i abolutely ----------------arghh--------------------------


"trust me"    = i con u every time but this time. ,/ my words not my actions.




wysiwygitsme -> RE: phrazes ppl say but +/-? mean game (8/30/2006 4:06:23 AM)

Ok, maybe I'm in the minority here.  When I say:
Have a good day --- I mean have a good day.  Have you ever met someone who planned on having a bad day?
Good Morning -- I mean good morning.  If I am not having a good morning, I will just say Morning.
See You later --- I mean I will see you later
Etc., Etc., Etc.

I'm one of those people that says what they mean/feel.   




SpankMuhButt -> RE: phrazes ppl say but +/-? mean game (8/30/2006 5:09:10 AM)

I have been known to use this one most frequently.....it just means stop questioning me mostly...I don't want to get into it now.....but it drives everyone in my life nuts...its the simple.....
*FINE, I am fine, I'm ok.....even when I'm not lol
*whatever
* How's the family? (stop lying  you don't give a crap about me why would you give a crap about my family

These lines and a few others are why many times I have done the head down...I don't see you, ignore me I will ignore you when you run into people you haven't seen in ages lol




Pimpernell -> RE: phrazes ppl say but +/-? mean game (8/30/2006 5:46:36 AM)

It's not you, it's me (that has standards)
Sorry, I forgot (to care that you exist)
Hey, haven't seen you since high school, great to see you again (and remember all the times I made your life hell)
You deserve someone special (so special they took the short bus to school)
You're cute (in the dark)
You're handsome (or at least your mum thinks so)
You're pretty (damn ugly)

At karaoke or other talent outlet:
That was very brave of you (you sucked so bad we can't even fake liking it)
You deserved to win (the boobie prize)




Kindred2Evil -> RE: phrazes ppl say but +/-? mean game (8/30/2006 7:22:48 AM)

*giggle*

Living in the South has shown me just how catty people can be.  I used to think Southern Belles were sweet, kind and gentle womenfolk.  HA!  My favorite thing to hear here is something like this:

You know little Alicia Ann is just as homely as a mud fence, Bless Her Heart, she can't help it though, her momma married ugly, God Bless Her.

It seems that in 97% of the cases here, you can just about anything you want as long as "Bless their heart, God bless'em" is in there somewhere.  And trust me on this one, they ain't sayin it to be kind.

Aren't you just too cute?! ---Aren't you just being an annoying little shit.
I just LOVE that dress on you, it takes off 10 years! ---If you're over 40 honey, mini skirts make you look like a hoochie.
No honey, those jeans don't make your hind end look big! ---I am saving MY hind end.
I'm sorry. ---I'm sorry I got caught.
I'll be there shortly. ---I'll be there when I get damn good and ready to be there.




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