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MstrTiger -> A sound question. (8/28/2006 5:02:18 PM)
I was recently chatting to a slave and he asked me about using sounds and he was asking we where the best place to get them is etc which is a question I did not have a problem with until I discovered he only has a 3.5 inch penis. I have used several different sets of sounds on different slaves and although I did not measure them they all looked to be about 10-12 inches long which is fine when using them on a slave with an 8 inch penis though I was unsure about recommending them for a slave who does not. I just really wanted to know if there is anyone who can offer me any advice on the subject I think I remember seeing a website that sold 8 inch sounds though I would suppose even them might be too long for him?. If a sound is too long for a slave and is slipped out of the person who was holding its fingers does it just drop in and stop safely or is it liable to drop in and cause some sort of damage?. I have only had experience with slaves where it was the handle of the sound that stopped it from slipping in too far and not it hitting anything on the inside.

LotusSong -> RE: A sound question. (8/28/2006 5:05:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MstrTiger I was recently chatting to a slave and he asked me about using sounds and he was asking we where the best place to get them is etc which is a question I did not have a problem with until I discovered he only has a 3.5 inch penis. I have used several different sets of sounds on different slaves and although I did not measure them they all looked to be about 10-12 inches long which is fine when using them on a slave with an 8 inch penis though I was unsure about recommending them for a slave who does not. I just really wanted to know if there is anyone who can offer me any advice on the subject I think I remember seeing a website that sold 8 inch sounds though I would suppose even them might be too long for him?. If a sound is too long for a slave and is slipped out of the person who was holding its fingers does it just drop in and stop safely or is it liable to drop in and cause some sort of damage?. I have only had experience with slaves where it was the handle of the sound that stopped it from slipping in too far and not it hitting anything on the inside. I don't see that there is a reason to let the sound go from your fingers. Those little suckers can slide in deep and hit the bladder. How are you using them? Edited to add: You could measure how far you feel it is safe to insert the sound.. and wrap a rubber band at the point so it acts as a stop from gong in too far.

MstrTiger -> RE: A sound question. (8/28/2006 5:23:52 PM)
It will not be me that will be using them on him we were just chatting and he asked my advice, I told him he should try using a princes wand or some other shorter thing to insert since I was unsure about what to suggest. I was concerned about what might happen if the person putting it in has lube on their fingers and lets it slip or lets go of it for whatever other reason. There is also the fact that one of the main play elements about sounds is that they come in a range of different thickness’ and I was unsure what to suggest when it came to replicating that with other equipment.

LotusSong -> RE: A sound question. (8/28/2006 6:10:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MstrTiger I was concerned about what might happen if the person putting it in has lube on their fingers and lets it slip or lets go of it for whatever other reason. There is also the fact that one of the main play elements about sounds is that they come in a range of different thickness’ and I was unsure what to suggest when it came to replicating that with other equipment. OHHH! I had that happen.. Slave was on his back.. and the sound was all the way in.. my fingers were just too lubed- I couldn't grasp it. I started to panick.. Sllave had to do was sit up. Gravity takes over in that situation. I always started with the skiniest sound first..then went up. The highest he could tolerate was the 3rd size up from the smallest. Just make sure everythihng is as sterile as possible before you begin.

KatyLied -> RE: A sound question. (8/28/2006 6:12:12 PM)
Am I the only person here who will admit to googling this topic?

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: A sound question. (8/28/2006 6:28:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KatyLied Am I the only person here who will admit to googling this topic? Probably :) We've all asked at some point though.

LotusSong -> RE: A sound question. (8/28/2006 8:09:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KatyLied Am I the only person here who will admit to googling this topic? Sometimes people just want a first hand account. So sorry if this is irritating to you.. Tiger, if I can be of further help.. please email me here.

stockingluvr54 -> RE: A sound question. (8/29/2006 8:12:26 AM)
OK...another idiot here...what are sounds....???? Thanks

LotusSong -> RE: A sound question. (8/29/2006 8:14:40 AM)
http://www.extremerestraints.com/medical-toys_155/urethral-sounds_158/ A long metal rod you insert down a urethra to dialate it.

MissyRane -> RE: A sound question. (8/29/2006 9:02:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KatyLied Am I the only person here who will admit to googling this topic? No honey I'm with you on this one! quote: ORIGINAL: LotusSong http://www.extremerestraints.com/medical-toys_155/urethral-sounds_158/ A long metal rod you insert down a urethra to dialate it. erm okay OUCH are you putting this..in THERE? I mean even though I'm not a guy *******holds my crotch n whimpers*******

stockingluvr54 -> RE: A sound question. (8/29/2006 9:14:03 AM)
Thanks Lotus.... (I think...ouch!...lol) Was layed up in hospital yrs ago with a busted femur from a mc accident and they put a cathiter(sp) in me...don't remember it being painful and wasn't all that uncomfortable either....but that all changed when they removed it after 18 days....OUCH!!!!!!!!! Thread Hijack! And this "sound" is used for pain/humiliation on male sub....???

LotusSong -> RE: A sound question. (8/29/2006 9:37:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KatyLied Am I the only person here who will admit to googling this topic? Katy, I must apololize. I took your comment as that "he should have looked it up in the archieves before posting the question". I was in a mood yesterday and did a stupid knee jerk response. I'm so familiar with sounds that I didn't think that it was not common for all. I'm sorry for my post #7 here.

justheather -> RE: A sound question. (8/29/2006 9:39:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LotusSong quote: ORIGINAL: KatyLied Am I the only person here who will admit to googling this topic? Sometimes people just want a first hand account. So sorry if this is irritating to you.. Tiger, if I can be of further help.. please email me here. I think that all she was saying was that she did not know what sounds were and had to google it in order to understand what the post was even about.

justheather -> RE: A sound question. (8/29/2006 9:40:35 AM)
Oops, I see you just posted the very same idea. Never mind.

LotusSong -> RE: A sound question. (8/29/2006 9:40:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stockingluvr54 Thanks Lotus.... (I think...ouch!...lol) Was layed up in hospital yrs ago with a busted femur from a mc accident and they put a cathiter(sp) in me...don't remember it being painful and wasn't all that uncomfortable either....but that all changed when they removed it after 18 days....OUCH!!!!!!!!! Thread Hijack! And this "sound" is used for pain/humiliation on male sub....??? Yes.. for male play, although I know of those who use the very small ones on a female. It's the thought more than anything that creeps them out. The trick is NOT to go for the largest sound FIRST!.. After you have lubed it up.. you place the tip in the urethral opening while holding the penis upright. Let the weight of the Sound be the force which inserts it.. NEVER push it in.. There are sphincter muscles that it needs to pass.. and they will open gradually to allow the sound as he relaxes. It's a gradual increase and monitoring of the males responses that determines how high you go. I don't wreck my "toys".. I may want to play with them later :) I had heard one male say .."it's like getting f**ked in reverse"

KatyLied -> RE: A sound question. (8/29/2006 5:39:12 PM)
Lotus - yes my response was because I had no clue what "sounds" were. Then when I googled I thought "If I were a guy, I'd be crossing my legs and cringing!" [8D]

stockingluvr54 -> RE: A sound question. (8/29/2006 6:59:30 PM)
Thanks again Lotus.......

OriginalWench -> RE: A sound question. (8/29/2006 7:04:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stockingluvr54 Thread Hijack! And this "sound" is used for pain/humiliation on male sub....??? Some males reallylove sounds, and will ask for them to be used. We did a Demo of them at one of our play parties (I shouldn't say we, our leader and her sub did it), and most of the males were cringing and such. One of other guys did eventually try it, and found that he really liked them as well. I don't think they are neccessarily painful, although I would imagine they could be. I've never played with them myself.

LotusSong -> RE: A sound question. (8/29/2006 7:08:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OriginalWench quote: ORIGINAL: stockingluvr54 Thread Hijack! And this "sound" is used for pain/humiliation on male sub....??? Some males reallylove sounds, and will ask for them to be used. We did a Demo of them at one of our play parties (I shouldn't say we, our leader and her sub did it), and most of the males were cringing and such. One of other guys did eventually try it, and found that he really liked them as well. I don't think they are neccessarily painful, although I would imagine they could be. I've never played with them myself. They are only painful if you use one too large.. and then all you need do is go to the next size smaller. The pain is from the stretching of the urethra then. It can be a nice ride when taken slowly.

bignipples2share -> RE: A sound question. (8/29/2006 7:54:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LotusSong I had heard one male say .."it's like getting f**ked in reverse" Yes, and this would be the very reason I find it so entralling. Careful though, there are so many pleasure sensors on the inside of the penis (much more so, than on the outside) that some men can become addicted. From what I've been told by the partner, it doesn't hurt, maybe just a bit afterwards, when urinating. I've only played with someone who has been sitting up, not prone. I really don't know how to answer about the weight of the sound and his size. And for those of you just starting out, I can't stress enough, sterile, sterile, sterile. ~Big _____________________ ahhhhh I see sounds

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