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azfrnick -> Is the "rim job" test true? (8/29/2006 7:44:22 PM)
I once read in a kinky novel that once a man (usually) managed to have his salad tossed (vulgar expression, the nice one should be "had a rim job performed on him") by his partner, this meant that there would be no limit to whatever he could ask from this person. I had three of my sex partners perform this on me and for me it was true... Once this act had been performed on me, my partner was game for everything (game is the word). Is this how most subs feel and how does it work in your mind? Have you performed this act on most of your partners and what does it mean to you when you do it?

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Is the "rim job" test true? (8/29/2006 7:48:06 PM)
It's completely false. And beware the one who would make that assumption.

mistoferin -> RE: Is the "rim job" test true? (8/29/2006 7:52:53 PM)
Come on now, at the age of 37 ( I checked) do you REALLY think that one act done in a moment of lust or passion can define all of the parameters of that relationship from that moment forward?

angielouwhos -> RE: Is the "rim job" test true? (8/29/2006 8:01:53 PM)
I too doubt this is any real indicator of someone's limits. Those things are better spelled out than assumed. For instance I do not think "rimming" a partner is challenging at all. In fact, I find it both intimate and enjoyable.

alwayshis1 -> RE: Is the "rim job" test true? (8/29/2006 8:09:19 PM)
anything is an open word. i know, rimming is not that hard to do for lots, and its a far stretch from doing 'anything'. anything can even be death, a hard limit for most. just shakes my head,,,

chgosubmale -> RE: Is the "rim job" test true? (8/29/2006 8:10:34 PM)
Interesting theory, but it does not hold up in reality.

mstrjx -> RE: Is the "rim job" test true? (8/29/2006 8:15:36 PM)
I once read 'Man With a Maid'. Actually, there were three novels in the series and I liked them a lot. I know, I was young at the time. I've never heard the word 'snuggery' since. But it seemed cool at the time. Jeff

Lordandmaster -> RE: Is the "rim job" test true? (8/29/2006 8:16:06 PM)
Sounds like one of those high-school rules to me. Ohhhh, you rimmed Johnny? That means you have to do ANYTHING he says... quote: ORIGINAL: azfrnick I once read in a kinky novel that once a man (usually) managed to have his salad tossed (vulgar expression, the nice one should be "had a rim job performed on him") by his partner, this meant that there would be no limit to whatever he could ask from this person.

mistoferin -> RE: Is the "rim job" test true? (8/29/2006 8:18:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster Sounds like one of those high-school rules to me. Ohhhh, you rimmed Johnny? That means you have to do ANYTHING he says... LOL...that is exactly why I checked the age of the poster

xkittenishx -> RE: Is the "rim job" test true? (8/29/2006 9:28:20 PM)
I think, perhaps, the point you may (or may not!) be trying to get across is that rimming can be perceived as a very intimate act and therefore, because one does something to that intimate of a degree... they would be more open and willing to explore other things you might ask of them that they may not normally do in play.

formenteralady -> RE: Is the "rim job" test true? (8/29/2006 9:30:08 PM)
Wow..That's one of those things that does absoultely nothing for me, so I guess my answer would be "no".

sweetnurseBBW -> RE: Is the "rim job" test true? (8/30/2006 12:56:24 AM)
Nope never been the "thing" that made everthing else acceptable in my experience.

babysburnin -> RE: Is the "rim job" test true? (8/30/2006 1:10:45 AM)
I don't think there is any one sexual act that has so much power that anything and everything is fair game once "done".

sweetnurseBBW -> RE: Is the "rim job" test true? (8/30/2006 1:37:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: babysburnin I don't think there is any one sexual act that has so much power that anything and everything is fair game once "done". Agrees wholeheartedly

porcelaine -> RE: Is the "rim job" test true? (8/30/2006 5:44:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: azfrnick Is this how most subs feel and how does it work in your mind? Have you performed this act on most of your partners and what does it mean to you when you do it? I think the consensus on this as a hearty no. I find those that performed it did so because they wanted to or were curious about doing so. It didn't mean they would do anything my mind could conjure. What a pity. porcelaine

RavenMuse -> RE: Is the "rim job" test true? (8/30/2006 5:57:06 AM)
It is rather a silly question and I 'hope' it wasn't asked seriously. Just because someone will do one thing, doesn't mean they will do another. helen is squicked out by feet. she will happily do most anything I ask of her, yet if I told her to give me a foot rub she'd be too busy cringing to be able to comply no matter how hard she tried to be pleasing it is something close to impossible for her to do.

mp072004 -> RE: Is the "rim job" test true? (8/30/2006 6:43:47 AM)
Er, no--see above. However, I suppose that a person who agrees to perform one unconventional sex act is more likely to agree to other unconventional sex acts than a person who doesn't. So, if your partner agrees to perform analingus on you, he or she is also more likely to agree to tie you up than someone who keeps his or her sex life to lights-out missionary vaginal sex. Monica

MissDiandSirHugh -> RE: Is the "rim job" test true? (8/30/2006 10:33:26 PM)
Did you also know that if you are making funny faces and the wind changes your face will stay that way. Seriously What works for one pesrson and rings their Bell does not make it something that will Ring everyones or be a fact of life.

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: Is the "rim job" test true? (8/30/2006 10:42:00 PM)
There are no absolutes in the world!...none!..nada!...nope!...on a side note rimming squicks me out just like Ravens Helen with her feet squick..we all have things that we just try but sometimes cannot do ,,,but if you do, even though it is a squickable thing does not mean that you will always are up for anything anytime..look upon it as a loving gesture not something to be taken advantage of...Tempting

marieToo -> RE: Is the "rim job" test true? (8/30/2006 10:51:39 PM)
General Reply: depends on the person and on the act. Obviously to some people rimming might be easier than getting pissed, or swallowing cum, or whatever. Depends on individual squick factor. I mean... its not the most squicky thing I can think of. And even if youre squicked, alot of subs may do certain things anyway, simply to please. I dont take any of this as an indication that if they would do that, theyd do anything.

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