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master or mistress - 8/30/2006 9:23:11 AM

JamieTS

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I have been with a mistress for short term training. I have started to think about training with a master. What I would like to know is, do masters look at me as a sub female or as a sub male. I have had some tell me they have no use for me due to not being able to get hard or cum anymore. I would think that would be more easy for them to think of me as a female.

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RE: master or mistress - 8/30/2006 9:41:04 AM

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We will simply not be able to answer this question once and for all for you as it differs from person to person. you'll have to ask each person you talk to. Some will be like me and see you as you identify gender-wise, thus, to me, you would be female. The dangly boy parts are simply parts.

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RE: master or mistress - 8/30/2006 9:45:19 AM

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You ain't going to get a generic answer. People are individuals some Masters will see you one way, others won't, same with Mistresses.

Personaly, you ain't what I'm looking for. Another Master, you might be exactly what they are looking for. Stop looking at ALL Masters being the same and you might actualy get somewhere with the individuals!

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RE: master or mistress - 8/30/2006 9:51:18 AM

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Jamie, how do you view yourself? How do you WANT masters to view you? To add to what Master Fire shared, maybe you need to find those who will respect the gender you most identify with. As long as you are sure of yourself, it makes it easier for others to accept you. If they accept you great, if not, then move on until you find the one that does.

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RE: master or mistress - 8/30/2006 9:56:47 AM

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I do thank all of you for your replies

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RE: master or mistress - 4/2/2008 8:40:37 AM

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quote:

I have been with a mistress for short term training. I have started to think about training with a master. What I would like to know is, do masters look at me as a sub female or as a sub male. I have had some tell me they have no use for me due to not being able to get hard or cum anymore. I would think that would be more easy for them to think of me as a female.

I can't speak for every dominant male. For myself, I would strongly prefer that the TS not get erections. It does help highlight their feminity.

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RE: master or mistress - 4/2/2008 12:08:17 PM

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For me, I'd accept you as a girl if you dressed like a girl and made an effort to be like a girl in every other way, speech, manerisms, body language, make-up, scent, hair length and style, etc. You don't have to be so good that I cannot tell the difference, but you have to be good enough that I can 'suspend disbelief', I must get no incontravertible messages that you're male.

But hairy arms or legs, (though I can cope with a women who is naturally hairy and doesn't shave - but then there are other cues she's a woman), a loud AND deep voice, clothes that shriek 'tranny slut', striding around like a guardsman; those things just trigger "wrong" and it all goes limp.

But we're all very different! But I hope that helps anyway.

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RE: master or mistress - 4/2/2008 3:38:05 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: raiken

Jamie, how do you view yourself? How do you WANT masters to view you? To add to what Master Fire shared, maybe you need to find those who will respect the gender you most identify with. As long as you are sure of yourself, it makes it easier for others to accept you. If they accept you great, if not, then move on until you find the one that does.

heartily agreed.

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RE: master or mistress - 4/2/2008 3:55:31 PM

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Isn't it irritating when someone makes the newbie mistake of dredging up a post that has been dead for close to two years

*Points to the date on the posts prior to masterMR5's*

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RE: master or - 4/2/2008 4:34:41 PM

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Hello and anyone to chat with me and my name is sandra

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RE: master or - 4/2/2008 4:45:02 PM

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