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zumala -> RE: I'm Not Paying (8/31/2006 12:13:38 PM)

I had a credit card once, but they kept trying to pull little tricks to get more money from me.  I never kept much of a charge on the card, so I paid what I owed and cut them off.  I don't even have a credit card now.
 
On the other hand, though, pup does have credit card debts.  The interest rate charge by these companies is usary and should clearly be illegal.  They aren't even close to reasonable.  I also don't appreciate the bill collecters calling and asking me what my name is.  It's none of their business.  My name is not on HIS credit card.
 
zuma




Level -> RE: I'm Not Paying (8/31/2006 3:24:29 PM)

*Fast reply*
 
If you owe the money, THEN YOU OWE THE MONEY.
 
Don't blame anyone else.




LeMis -> RE: I'm Not Paying (8/31/2006 3:59:51 PM)

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ORIGINAL: arissa



Give collectors a break, they are just trying to do a job, just like everyone else, and they are NOT bottom feeders like you think, nor jerks. Given the chance ALL collectors are willing to work with you, as well as provide you all the information you need and/or want.




I think that making an absolute statement such as "ALL collectors are willing to work with you" is not entirely accurate as I have had the misfortune to receive a rude phone call (or two) from a collector who insisted that I meet the terms he described or I would be taken to court within a certain time frame, I asked (politely) if we could make some sort of payment arrangement (quite reasonable actually) and he flat out denied my humble request then repeated his demand of full payment.  I bid him farewell as there was nothing I could offer him as payment.

This was just my experience.

~L~





puella -> RE: I'm Not Paying (8/31/2006 5:07:40 PM)

er.... JohnSteed....

Are you saying that you ran up a debt, now refuse to pay it, are trying to massage the system so you do not have to pay it, and now are bitching because someone is trying to make you pay the debt you incurred?

If so.... are you honestly trying to pass yourself off as a dominant, if you can not even be responsible enough to pay your bills?  You are going to take possession of a person, and not your own finances?





juliaoceania -> RE: I'm Not Paying (8/31/2006 5:41:50 PM)

Why are you not honoring your contracts? It is one thing not to be able to pay your bills, declare bankruptcy, and to come across hard times, no one should fault that. I cannot tell you how badly it reflects on someone that they give their word and willfully and blatantly disregard that word. You are bragging about "screwing" someone out of money that you owe. Do you treat other commitments this way? As a submissive I look for dominants that bend over backwards to honor their word, not look for loopholes to negate their responsibility.




NastyDaddy -> RE: I'm Not Paying (8/31/2006 6:04:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: JohnSteed1967

In 2004 I had a car repossed because of my divorce, Now nearly 2 and a half years later I have a debit collector that thinks its his GD mission in life to harrass me even when I have told him that I will not pay.

I know per South Carolina law in March 2007 I will have officialy completed my three years of residency and by that state law the statue of limitations has run out on the debit. He and his fucking company are SCREWED.

When I have told him that I will not pay and there is nothing that will ever get me to pay, and that I have a brand new car so I don't need their credit. and Legally they can't take me to court and sue me over the debit. WHY won't they listen!


It sounds like the collector has six more months to harrass you as you await the coming of March 2007 and your anticipated freedom from this perceived obligation.

Why do you owe them money if they have possession of the car under obligation? Did you or your ex damage or destroy the car which was repossessed.

Don't tell me you also quit paying insurance on the car and wrecked it while auto payments were not being made... what's the rest of the story? 




pahunkboy -> RE: I'm Not Paying (8/31/2006 6:08:05 PM)

the OP can control himself- but has no contol over his ex.

things get messy when there is a break up




KatyLied -> RE: I'm Not Paying (8/31/2006 6:21:23 PM)

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the OP can control himself-


Bragging about defaulting on loan obligations is not a sign of someone who has control of himself.




pahunkboy -> RE: I'm Not Paying (8/31/2006 6:52:36 PM)

-- i get calls from India - trying to sell me junk. as many as 10 a day. the state and fed do not call list doesnt seem to apply.

as for my phone line- i pay the bill- it is mine. i dont like when someone crashes my space.

there is no law that says i must answere my phone. it his nerves were ratled i understand.  i dont have enuff details to pass judgement to the OP. i do know that there is an order of importance on bills- basics before non-necesities.

so lemme rephrase.  teh OP- has the capacity to control he himself-  and ex can not be controlled....a separate person. we dont have the other details on the mess.




juliaoceania -> RE: I'm Not Paying (8/31/2006 7:33:47 PM)

He can control how he talks about getting out of paying. When a person has a finger pointed out at other people, he has three pointing back at himself. His exwife maybe a complete bitch, who knows, who cares. The point is he is responsible for how he posts about his debts and taking glee that he cheated the system and screwed his creditors. I do not respect that, and most other people that work for things do not respect it either.

Not being able to pay your lenders is one thing, bragging about never paying is quite another.




gardenia100 -> RE: I'm Not Paying (8/31/2006 8:03:05 PM)

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If so.... are you honestly trying to pass yourself off as a dominant, if you can not even be responsible enough to pay your bills?  You are going to take possession of a person, and not your own finances?


Thank you puella, I was thinking the same thing as I was reading through all this mess. 

Barbara




pahunkboy -> RE: I'm Not Paying (8/31/2006 8:10:15 PM)

He ASSUMES he "won"-  this asumption is premature.

there are legal remedies to legal remedies.===etc.

I think you are being hard on the guy. A phone call mean very little. A summons to court, now that is an inquiry.

A wage attachment- is an inquiry.   a pesky phone call is like a commericial.  noise.




Termyn8or -> RE: I'm Not Paying (8/31/2006 9:37:42 PM)

There are some pieces of this puzzle missing.

Could've been Steed's ex who ran up the debt. When you put someone on your credit card they are jointly and severally liable for the debt, all the debt. As such the only way you can get them off of it is to close the account, which means to pay it off. If you are unable to pay it off your choices are limited.

Lam, they just recently passed legislation that will indeed allow private collection companies to collect for the IRS.

Now if you know anything about the IRS, it's not hard to figure out they are only going to commission these next party collectors for debts that are seen as uncollectable. The ones they figure they might find some hidden assets or something, they will most likely keep them to themselves.

Now I have mentioned elsewhere that there are legal things you can do to become a non-taxpayer. I don't want to go into that right now, but one thing to consider it to offer to pay the original tax and explicitly refuse to pay any interest or penalties. This has been done, and the good thing about it is you don't have to go to court. The agent usually just has to talk with the supervisor and it can happen right there. I'm not saying it'll work every time, especially if you have considerable assets or if you attempted tax fraud or borderline tax fraud. If they are convinced that your non-payment was due to inability you can do this without a lawyer. At least you could in the past, I see no reason for it to have changed.

See there is a basis in Law for refusing to pay interest and penalties to the IRS. Again, not right now. I'll give you this one little tidbit of advice though, if you owe them and cannot pay, do not file. If anyone expresses an interest in the subject I'll start a thread on it.

Now, we hve banks. So you owe them say $5,000 on a credit card and can't pay. You are not costing society. Let's take a trip back in time. Remember Silverado ? The President's brother screwed that bank big by loaning all that money out to his friends. They knew they were going to default, but they also knew that they would have control of the money long enough to make a bundle.

What I'm going to do pales in comparison.

Why would I screw banks ? To return the favor of course.

Now, I get a big laugh out of people sometimes. Things they do.

Look at the TV commercials. First come the lawyers. They ask if you been hurt whatever and "Call the law offices of . . . ". Then they allow their clients to take an annuity or structured settlement as payment for whatever tort.

Then comes a company like JG Wentworth. "Are you recieving a structured settlement or annuity and need cash now ?"

Let me get this straight, you win say $1,000,000 but then you take about $5,000 a month for 20 years. They tout that you are actually getting more money this way, but that is a misstatement in their favor. It at least qualifies partly as an out and out lie. Indeed you are getting a greater number of dollars in that period, but you are not getting more money. By the time the annuity runs out $5,000 per month will probably be the poverty level for a family of three. You might get food stamps, probably over $1,000 per month by then.

So now you need cash because being on a fixed income you did pretty much nothing. You blew it but then those payments will keep rolling in for X months. You go down to the nice man on TV and he's going to give you a lump sum. Let's say you have 100 months left at $5,000 each. Do you think your getting $500,000 ? Hell no, YOU are paying for the TV commercials and the chair the guy was sitting in, among a whole lot of other things. A simple reverse amortisation tells him how much to give you.

Now you have been screwed three times. First of all I would fire a lawyer who recommended a structured settlement. I want all my money now so I can spend it. Now. It only goes down in value, with $1,000,000 I could have real estate that is paid off, real assets, tools, machinery, collectables. I could easily make money with that kind of money.

The second time you are screwed is by the defendant, who really doesn't have to pay the money. They might lose control of it for the 20 years but they get it all back, albeit at a lower value in most cases. You think because the money is out of their control your payments will be secure as the solvency of the entity that lost is not an issue. Thing is, these things are sold like mortgages and other debts, sometimes they do it to raise cash for expansion or who knows. In this country though, there is quite a bit of foreign currency speculation going on.

You did not get that, neither did you get full protection from loss from the FDIC if you had actually been payed in a lump sum after winning the lawsuit. You think it says up to $100,000 so alot of people would think, hell, I'll just open ten seperate accounts. Doesn't work like that, even at different banks. Each depositor is limited in total compensation.

It may be unlikely that more than one bank would become insolvent, I mean to qualify for FDIC coverage. Truth is all banks are technically insolvent anyway, but that is a subject for another time. But really, it could happen. With the trends in the economy I can see the possibility. But then that could happen to a company that is administering your settlement. Money you don't yet have is of course not yet insured anyway.

The FDIC is a wonderful thing, it allows banks to loan out all kind of money they don't have, and if they get caught really short, the taxpayers bail them out.

This government should've been overthrown when they demanded the Citizens turn in all their gold. I am not kidding. If I had been alive at the time I would've certainly tried. And I certainly wouldn't have traded my gold for their useless paper.

But now comes today. I can see various collection methods, I mean by phone. One is the threatening almost, the rude etc., that might get them to get a caller ID or change their number. If you are collecting by phone this is obviously not productive. Your job is done at that point, unsuccessfully I might add.

I don't know about you, but I would try to get them to talk to me by telling them that I want to help them restore, repair or maintain their credit rating. I would explain to them that they don't have to pay it, but everytime you you go to buy a house or a nice car you will pay more for it. It behooves them not to let it go to court for a garnishment or or other later stages of collection.

After the mini miranda "What is it that's killing you financially if I may ask ? You used to be able to pay, what happened ?. . Did some unexpected expenses befall you, or did part of your income disappear ? Don't answer if you don't want to, but I am trying to help. If we succeed, everything you buy on credit in the future, like a house, boat or a nice car even, will cost you a bit less "

You are then gathering information. First of all you can update their employment info if needed. You might also find some problems. Do they have 7 cellphones for a family of four ? Is their cable bill like $300 a month ?

You still must operate in the best interests of your employer, but actually reasoning with people and being nice is really doing just that. If they won't talk to you and just cuss you out and hang up, how far will you get ?

However, if you can convince someone to stop buying their kids $150 tennis shoes and a $75 video game every week, you might make some progress. Cut down the cable, why are you paying for TV when you are not home ? Go to Blockbuster, take the kids. Get out of the house.

Who else is on their ass for money ? If it's tuition or prescriptions don't fuck with it. store bills etc., but suggesting that they pay everybody, I must make the case to pay us first.

"Take it one at a time. If you could send us $___ a month I can help you out. None of this goes further, you will be on the path to repairing your credit and saving countless dollars on interest in the future".

And you know they rake you over the coals if you got bad credit. I know someone who had to pay $1,000 a month for a $100,000 house. Average round here is more like $700. Principal, Insurance and Taxes didn't eat up that $300 a month. Interest did.

A thirty year note is 360 months, 300 X 360 = 108,000. That's $108,000 on a $100,000 purchase. Is that wise ?

Now, is good credit an asset ? Yes.

Is good credit expendable if you can make it worth your while ? Yes.

There's the acid test. Do it or don't. Would I ?

Would you ?

T




bignipples2share -> RE: I'm Not Paying (9/1/2006 12:22:50 AM)

*Fast Reply*
Anyone else hear and remember where they heard it, your car insurance is higher if you have bad credit? I guess they put you into different risk range. Not sure.  I wonder how many other companies do this.
If you work with money, finances, you might not get the job. How can they expect you to handle their money if you can't even handle your own. If you're doing that bad, how inclined might you be to kinda 'borrow' their money..hmmmm
I don't like credit cards and would rather have the interest money coming back into my own pocket, so I can spend, or save it. That's just like getting a paycheck, cashing it, taking dollars off the top and throwing it onto the ground. I'm sure the guy behind me would be happy, but since I don't know him, I'll just put those $$ in the bank for a rainy day.

Termyn8tor, yes. Please post the thread for IRS interest thing. Info like this can be like gold for some people.
Look at how many people who were able to lower the interest rates on their credit cards, just by calling the companies and asking. So many people who were able to do that, they just didn't know they could, until recently.
Got anything for property taxes????

~Big




TreSwank -> RE: I'm Not Paying (9/1/2006 6:58:08 AM)

You need to start answering this asshole's inquiries in Dr. Seuss format.  For example:  

              "I will not pay you in a house
               I will not pay you with a mouse
               I will not pay you in a box
               I will not pay you with a fox.
               I will not pay your fucking cash
               And I hope to God, you get a rash"




pahunkboy -> RE: I'm Not Paying (9/1/2006 10:41:21 AM)

hmm- then there is the S-L crises of teh 80s, and the still swept under the rug gutting of pensions these days.




arissa -> RE: I'm Not Paying (9/5/2006 7:29:05 PM)

These “nasty calls & iffy tactics” are the job of the 3rd and 4th party collectors, but again, that does not give them the right to talk the way they do nor threaten someone who IS trying to work with them. There is this little things called the FTC (Fair Trade Commission) as well as FDCPA (Fair Debt Collections Practice Act) I don’t care what party collector you are, it IS the LAW to follow the FDCPA laws and regulations. Albeit some folks just flat out refuse to pay a bill, those are the ones who make it bad for those who do want to work with them, perhaps come to a settlement,
Maybe I was wrong in saying ALL collectors will work with you, but let’s face it; there are a ton of dodgers out there.
Yes, some can be taken to court, depending on the amount and what it is for; ALL will have an R9 mark on their credit, the worst mark ever. Some will just have a judgment put against them, in fact, most agencies do have a legal department that does just that, files for a judgment, and/or goes to court.
My thinking is this, you made the bill, you signed your name on the dotted line, much the same as giving your word, so, now pay it. Even if your bill is currently with a collections agency, did you know you can call the original company to whom you owe the debt and work out some sort of deal? They would much rather have it then having some third or fourth party agency get it, hell even a second party agency for that fact.
Keep in mind, first party collections are ALWAYS from the original loan or finance company, ALL companies have in-house collections. If you make an arrangement with them it never goes further, that is IF you live up to that second agreement. Yes, sometimes the interest is higher, but that’s because you have already defaulted on the original agreement. So how is that un-fair?
As for these unscrupulous credit card companies that do indeed extend credit to people they know for a fact will either not pay, or have a hard time paying, again I say, read your agreement before activating it, it is ALL spelled out in black & white.
You made the debt, pay it, how hard it that? As many have said here, what happened to living up to your word? Hell, been there done that, my ex screwed me big time, but I paid everything, even crap I did not really owe, because my name was on it as well.
Little know law, if you are an authorized user, you CAN and will be held liable, a co-signer, same thing. If you can’t pay it, don’t get it. sheesh, if you DO owe it, pay that flippin thing. You CAN ask for proof of debt, ask for it, then work something out, but damn, pay the bill, put the 2nd, 3rd, and 4th party collectors OUT of work if you hate them so much. Keep in mind thou, they are just doing a job.
I am just thankful my friend's feel "I talk to people the way I want to be spoken to", they are not rude nor ignorant, but they do expect folks to PAY THE BILL.




arissa -> RE: I'm Not Paying (9/5/2006 7:41:41 PM)

One more comment, and I know this fact because it happened with me as well. When you have a car that is reposed, they will sell it for blue book value or just slightly higher. If that does not cover the remainder that was owed on YOUR contract then you ARE legally liable for the remainder of the debt. If the car has been damaged in any way, that takes away form the value, if there is more miles then should be (this is worked out with again, the blue book value) then that too lowers the re-sale value, if there are any problems with the car, such as it needs brakes, new tires, tune up, that too takes away the re-sale value. Read the repossession papers, it is outlined. Also, within two weeks of repossession they send you a certified letter explaining your options that includes how the re-sale value will be calculated. After the vehicle is sold you are then sent another certified letter outlining how much it sold for and what you are still legally responsible for. They also give you the option to
1- Settle the amount prior to being sent to a collections agency
2 – Come to a re-payment agreement in order to keep it in-house and avoid any further marks against you or your credit
Yes, they will allow you to make payments on what is owed, yes, the interest rate will be higher, but think about it, you have already reneged on the original agreement, they have to recoup their money some how.
If people in collections want to really avoid those nasty calls and iffy tactics, then work the original company, it really is best that way




arissa -> RE: I'm Not Paying (9/5/2006 7:52:28 PM)

Some divorce settlements do seem more than a bit excessive and one sided. Almost a charter for women to behave badly ! Am I right ladies ?

Seeksfemslave: No I don't and can't agree with that, my ex screwed me big time, he got almost everything, I got the bills and the kids, and no, he did not pay child support for our son who was NOT 18 yet, after 6 years we are still fighting about that, well the lawyers are. I will admit, he is smart, got remarried and put everything in her name, he just forgot one little thing, as did I till recently. Military law out weighs state law when it comes to divorce, so starting next month the military is seeing to it the my son get's what is coming to them. lots of past due child support even though my son is now 22 and in the military himself. Hell, he decided he is going to buy a car and pay on it with that before he even returns to the US. So, divorce is not always worse for the man, and better for the woman. Sometimes even we women get the crappy end of the stick.




arissa -> RE: I'm Not Paying (9/5/2006 7:55:57 PM)

You can report them for disclosing HIS debt to you, that is not at all legal, and this is per the FDCPA law.




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