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marieToo -> RE: Do you have to be thin to be a good sub/slave? (9/5/2006 8:33:58 PM)
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ORIGINAL: cumbrianslave
Having not been a member of this site for not too long i cannot be judgemental (nor do i ever intend to be)
Oh...give it time.
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surely because someone is overweight it does not neccassarily make them a "bad" sub and simply disregard them because of this.
Correct. Half the nation is overweight according to the 'charts'. Doesnt make them bad subs, bad salesmen, bad lawyers, bad mothers, bad secretaries or whathaveyou. Just makes them overweight. I would think that if being overweight is a problem for you, then it will exude from you and perhaps be perceived as a problem for the potential dominant, even if he himself doesnt mind the weight. And yes, some people have a preference for a particular body type and those preferences sometimes rule out the overweight, or the short, or the skinny, or whathaveyou. Surely not all men will mind the weight. Maybe some will like it or even prefer it. In my opinion, it is first and foremost about how you view it. In other words, do you accept it, like it, try to change it? does it bother you? are you uncomfortable being naked in front of a potential dominant? If so, then work on the loss. If not, then work on finding someone who feels the same way you do about your body shape.
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i know it is always difficult searching for Mistress "right" but is there any subs/slaves or even Mistresses out there who have experienced the same dilemma? .
I cant say I have ever been passed over or otherwise rejected for my body or looks. I have been passed over because Im a parent and...Ive been kicked to the curb within minutes plenty of times because I have an attitude. Some like it, others dont. Same thing with body types. Lid for every kettle. :)
Edited for a typo
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