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RE: Do you have to be thin to be a good sub/slave? - 9/5/2006 8:15:49 PM

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ORIGINAL: ladylexington

Overweight is fine. Poor grooming is unacceptable. I am amazed at how many people post sloppy pictures of themselves online. I thought the idea was to creat a good first impression, not make people wonder how often you bathe.

I agree wholeheartedly, I would also like to add if you are going to take the time to post a pic make sure your week old dirty dishes, laundry, pile of papers is not in the background. Have a look behind you and make sure the wall in the pic does not have century old finger prints, or a poster from your youth 30 years ago.

Again, as suggested, first impressions make a good one or dont bother

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RE: Do you have to be thin to be a good sub/slave? - 9/5/2006 8:19:00 PM

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Have to be thin? No, course not. You HAVE to be obedient. You HAVE to be trainable, and polite. You HAVE to be willing to do what your owner wants. But somehow, thin never has made the have to list.

It might be some people's preference.. but then again some like big bodies to play with as well. it takes all kinds.

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RE: Do you have to be thin to be a good sub/slave? - 9/5/2006 8:33:58 PM

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ORIGINAL: cumbrianslave

Having not been a member of this site for not too long i cannot be judgemental (nor do i ever intend to be)

Oh...give it time.

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surely because someone is overweight it does not neccassarily make them a "bad" sub and simply disregard them because of this.

Correct. Half the nation is overweight according to the 'charts'. Doesnt make them bad subs, bad salesmen, bad lawyers, bad mothers, bad secretaries or whathaveyou. Just makes them overweight. I would think that if being overweight is a problem for you, then it will exude from you and perhaps be perceived as a problem for the potential dominant, even if he himself doesnt mind the weight. And yes, some people have a preference for a particular body type and those preferences sometimes rule out the overweight, or the short, or the skinny, or whathaveyou. Surely not all men will mind the weight. Maybe some will like it or even prefer it. In my opinion, it is first and foremost about how you view it. In other words, do you accept it, like it, try to change it? does it bother you? are you uncomfortable being naked in front of a potential dominant? If so, then work on the loss. If not, then work on finding someone who feels the same way you do about your body shape.

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i know it is always difficult searching for Mistress "right" but is there any subs/slaves or even Mistresses out there who have experienced the same dilemma?

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I cant say I have ever been passed over or otherwise rejected for my body or looks. I have been passed over because Im a parent and...Ive been kicked to the curb within minutes plenty of times because I have an attitude. Some like it, others dont. Same thing with body types. Lid for every kettle. :)

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RE: Do you have to be thin to be a good sub/slave? - 9/5/2006 8:42:16 PM

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When I told slave to remain unclothed for 10 days for the straw on the camel's back ... she did as she was told. When I told her to present herself for my ... vanilla guests, she did so. When one of my guests asked to touch her and I said 'yes' ... she panted like a dog for a bit, but held her presentation. She was 5 foot 3 inches and over 200 pounds. Large, yes ... obediant ... hell yes. On a diet, you betcha ... for her health. Big is okay, obese is unhealthy. It is My responsibility as her Mistress/Owner to make sure she is healthy and taken care of.

I don't care what size you start off with, I'll trim it down if it poses a threat to your health. If it doesn't ... so be it. I personally have never been impressed with the thin type. I'm not thin, I'm about average. I'm no beauty queen ...

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