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Beginner needs help - 9/1/2006 2:02:52 PM

PtitChienchien83

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Hello all
I'm a 19 years old french man, and I'd like to fulfill my need to belong to someone, to be owned by a goddess...I don't really know where and how to begin...I'd need your help please.
Thanks in advance!

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RE: Beginner needs help - 9/1/2006 2:04:45 PM

LuckyAlbatross

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My advice for Novice Female Submissives

Newbie!

At a loss

I'm a new domme seeking advice

Does a slave also have to be a fool?

sub: totally new concept

Questions for other newbies

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Request for Advice

Advice please: Relationships, bdsm, love and boundaries

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Brand new life

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RE: Beginner needs help - 9/1/2006 2:09:44 PM

thetammyjo

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Start slow and get lots of experience before you hand yourself over to someone for an hour, a day, a week, or longer.

Knowledge and experience will make you more certain of what you want, help you chose better partners, and probably increase your attractiveness to tops and doms.

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RE: Beginner needs help - 9/2/2006 1:52:52 AM

porcelaine

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PtitChienchien83

Hello all
I'm a 19 years old french man, and I'd like to fulfill my need to belong to someone, to be owned by a goddess...I don't really know where and how to begin...I'd need your help please.

I just posted this on another thread, but I'll repost it here for your benefit. The following urls are specifically related to men seeking dominant women:

Profiles for those subs seeking a Domme or Mistress:
http://www.collarchat.com/m_556178/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#557287

No Mistress does NOT want:
http://www.collarchat.com/m_541014/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#541211

Good luck on your search.

porcelaine

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RE: Beginner needs help - 9/2/2006 8:44:51 AM

LadyAlexa

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PtitChienchien83

Hello all
I'm a 19 years old french man, and I'd like to fulfill my need to belong to someone, to be owned by a goddess...I don't really know where and how to begin...I'd need your help please.
Thanks in advance!

You've recieved some very good advise already. One thing to remember...it's not about you but about the Woman that decides to allow you the honor!

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GLBT approved.

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RE: Beginner needs help - 9/2/2006 12:20:26 PM

DivaDuchess

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I take a different view ... In any good relationship either BDSM or Vanilla ... building the relationship is about both of You/you, regardless of your 'station' in that person life. Begin slowly, don't rush things. The journey is worth it.

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But rather the judgement that,
Something else is more important than Fear.

The Brave may not live forever,
But the Cautious do not live at all.

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