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Aubre -> RE: OMG! I'm not a real Domme!!! (9/6/2006 6:34:03 AM)
Maybe they should have in their profile "Don't expect me to talk or communicate with you."

Kahri -> RE: OMG! I'm not a real Domme!!! (9/6/2006 6:51:18 AM)
Ah yes, I love that attitude. I was recently told I was "not confident enough" to dominate a particular man because we had a casual first meeting a few blocks from his office where his co-workers might see us, and I gasp treated him politely and with respect while we talked. Of course, a true Domme's goal is to get her slave fired so he will have more time to spend on hands and knees with his tail up in the air. LOL Occassionally I find myself trying to "rehabilitate" (as I call it) a person like this. I'm always sorry, it never works, and I usually get insulted for my efforts. I'm doing it with one right now and wondering every step of the way "Don't I ever learn?" But I am getting better at rejecting them quicker, and in my own defense, at least this person can use complete sentences.

Najakcharmer -> RE: OMG! I'm not a real Domme!!! (9/6/2006 8:31:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kahri Ah yes, I love that attitude. I was recently told I was "not confident enough" to dominate a particular man because we had a casual first meeting a few blocks from his office where his co-workers might see us, and I gasp treated him politely and with respect while we talked. Of course, a true Domme's goal is to get her slave fired so he will have more time to spend on hands and knees with his tail up in the air. LOL See, you're not a REAL DOMME because you didn't wear 6' high heels and a latex corset to your first public meeting, and you didn't tie him up and whip him right there in the restaurant before marching him back to his office and forcing him to suck your giant strap on dildo while wearing women's panties in front of his boss and co workers. Shame on you. You lose your REAL DOMME card. Everybody knows that's what a REAL DOMME would have to do. [8D]

Vendaval -> RE: OMG! I'm not a real Domme!!! (9/7/2006 12:14:28 AM)
Well, ya know, a hood and ball gag and gimp outfit sounds just about perfect for that looser. Plus shoving a feather duster up his ass and a tazer to chase him around the house. Consider the possibilities at least, go for cheap live entertainment and charge for the web-cam show! [sm=idea.gif] Vendaval

MistressMarielle -> RE: OMG! I'm not a real Domme!!! (9/7/2006 12:42:21 AM)
Having communicated with very many male submissives/slaves here and elsewhere, textually, vocally and face to face I will say that such a response is, more often than not, a clear sign of someone with a personality disorder. I have dealt with some crazies here from mild to maniacal. The mild ones seek to create chaos in some form because the edges of their identities are fuzzy and in order for them to really feel like they exist they must have some form of strong emotion or response to bounce their psyche off of. It is common for such people to move you from the position of Angel to Devil in the same breath. It is all a matter of what brings them the response that they are looking for. I happen to get the most stimulation by slipping to the "boring them into fleeing" mode. They don't know what to do with how I calmly and reasonably I respond, allowing their heated barrages to float right by me. I do not say that this is the case with all insult mongers, but I would certainly say it is with many.

GoddessDustyGold -> RE: OMG! I'm not a real Domme!!! (9/8/2006 1:34:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Najakcharmer quote: ORIGINAL: Kahri Ah yes, I love that attitude. I was recently told I was "not confident enough" to dominate a particular man because we had a casual first meeting a few blocks from his office where his co-workers might see us, and I gasp treated him politely and with respect while we talked. Of course, a true Domme's goal is to get her slave fired so he will have more time to spend on hands and knees with his tail up in the air. LOL See, you're not a REAL DOMME because you didn't wear 6' high heels and a latex corset to your first public meeting, and you didn't tie him up and whip him right there in the restaurant before marching him back to his office and forcing him to suck your giant strap on dildo while wearing women's panties in front of his boss and co workers. Shame on you. You lose your REAL DOMME card. Everybody knows that's what a REAL DOMME would have to do. [8D] Oh, this has really made Me laugh! Here is My REAL DOMME card! Lady Morgynn! I am so disappointed to hear that you won't be relocating until the spring. I was going to drop you a note about your move dates when I saw your thread. But I do understand about families and holidays. Harry, you will have The Lady most of the time in Tucson. But she has promised she will be coming up to Phoenix at least once a month! Smile

Emperor1956 -> RE: OMG! I'm not a real Domme!!! (9/8/2006 1:56:43 PM)
LOL. Ladies, for what it is worth, this "disease" is not limited to male submissives. Don't you all know that: - wanting to actually converse with a submissive girl, - expecting to know her real name, address and a little about her BEFORE we meet in a motel room, - asking about her attached/marital status, - respecting her safeword, - failing to send her a necessary advance of her [rent] [clothing allowance] [gas money], and or - not requiring her to [shave everything] [pierce anything] [sew up her external genitals] [stop orgasming] [start orgasming] [squirt] means I am NOT a "Real Dom"? Uh huh. So, now, knowing I'm not a "Real Dom", I've joined the FDA (that's "Future Dominants of America") and I'm working on my bondage, gaggage and rope merit badges. All of you not "Real Dommes" can join too. Poor unenlightened We, huh? -E (Wasn't it Groucho who said "I won't be a member of any club that will have me."?)

GoddessDustyGold -> RE: OMG! I'm not a real Domme!!! (9/8/2006 2:08:10 PM)
laffing It's so nice to know that we all have an equal opportunity to be "NOT REAL"

TheMightyBitch -> RE: OMG! I'm not a real Domme!!! (9/8/2006 5:15:57 PM)
Great thread topic and responses! You folk here are the most real & enlightening I have met on the Net.

MisPandora -> RE: OMG! I'm not a real Domme!!! (9/8/2006 11:21:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Najakcharmer See, you're not a REAL DOMME because you didn't wear 6' high heels and a latex corset to your first public meeting, and you didn't tie him up and whip him right there in the restaurant before marching him back to his office and forcing him to suck your giant strap on dildo while wearing women's panties in front of his boss and co workers. Shame on you. You lose your REAL DOMME card. Everybody knows that's what a REAL DOMME would have to do. [8D] And you have to give back the toaster oven. Oh wait, that's when your queer card is revoked. I'm SO confused!

MisPandora -> RE: OMG! I'm not a real Domme!!! (9/8/2006 11:24:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Emperor1956 ....means I am NOT a "Real Dom"? Uh huh. So, now, knowing I'm not a "Real Dom", I've joined the FDA (that's "Future Dominants of America") and I'm working on my bondage, gaggage and rope merit badges. All of you not "Real Dommes" can join too. Poor unenlightened We, huh? Coming from a group that titled themselves "The Pleather Family" because we were told that we were all fakes from a local crusty old cow, that group sounds like one I should be a part of. Can we throw an event called "Unreal Leather"?

joshslave111 -> RE: OMG! I'm not a real Domme!!! (9/11/2006 5:09:56 PM)
i've heard the same thing from Dominant women....i show respect of course but one Domme was furious when i told Her i wasn't interested but thanked Her for Her interest. She said i was a "phony" and a "fake". Some people have their own ideas of what is Domme/sub and can't understand why it would stray from that. Frankly i'm thinking that i need to go to even more eveents in NYC...online seems so impersonal.

Lorelei115 -> RE: OMG! I'm not a real Domme!!! (9/11/2006 5:35:48 PM)
Oooh, heres another one! I'm not a real Domme because I expect scenes to be "fun" and I don't have a problem laughing with my subs!

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